possible path for wanna-be cucks

I won't go into my whole situation, but I've been living with my girlfriend for over 4 years and been trying/hoping to get her to cuck me most of that time. I stopped mentioning it years ago, and we haven't had sex in years, but finally a couple months ago I wrote her a hand written letter. I didn't go right into her fucking other men, but I told her to ignore what she's seen on my pc or on websites, and find her own way to cuck me. I explained that she has so much power over me and that she should take advantage of it. After writing it I had to decide when and how to give it to her. I finally left it in her bathroom after we had had more then enough to take that night. She found it and laughed, but was really flattered that I took the time to write it. I don't really know if she read the whole thing, but we talked about it for a while before she told me she was really takes and went to bed. Other then a little bit the next day, it was mentioned again after that. So about a month ago, she house sat at the neighbors across the street, so I stayed up and wrote her another letter. (no, nobody came to see her. Somebody would have had to go past my house to get to the neighbors house, and nobody did) She came home early the next morning before I woke up and found the note. She laughed a bit but we didn't really discuss it. I told her I wouldn't mention it again. Since then though she has mentioned guys on shows she thinks are cute: "he's the cute one." And she has also mentioned how some guy hit on her at the store, but I was caught off guard and didn't respond the way I should have. Well, I think I have planted the seed, but it's going to take time to nurture it. So I thought that maybe this would work for others.....good luck!

I think this is an excellent idea, Lovestoshare . It's a way to guarantee in writing that the cuckolding wishes are real and not a trap (is very common that the girl think the husband is just testing her when ask cuckolding).
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The guy hitting on her should have been your opportunity to tell her you welcome his advances. My own cuckolding started kind of like that, with her telling me a couple of guys at her work were coming on to her and me asking her if she liked either one...when she admitted to liking one of them I told her that there was nothing wrong with her flirting back, since I enjoyed hearing about it. I told her it actually turned me on to know that other men found her desirable. Eventually the flirting led to her making a Friday night date with the guy and the rest was history. When she came home from that date I showered her with affection and it was the beginning of my becoming a cuck. If you ever get a similar opportunity, grab it and run with it!

I know the guy at the store was a missed opportunity, but she also mentioned he wasn't cute, so while I feel there was a missed opportunity I know there will be more. I know that she wouldn't go out on a date right now even with some guy she thought was totally cute because right now she is too self conscience about her weight. She is usually petite, but a few years ago she got sick (long story short) and gained lots of weight and it's been a long road getting back in the shape she feels comfortable. At one point she wouldn't even leave the house because she was embarrassed about her weight. She's also still won't be near me if she is naked, so she already has kinda cucked me. My intention with the note was to start the conversation, which at the moment that part has kinda failed, but to also hopefully she would start exploring a little online, and so when she is back in shape that maybe she will be ready to date. When she's in shape, men hit on her right in front of me, so I know I just have to be patient for a bit longer. I did notice recently she went to show me something on craigslist for sale and when she was on the main page I could tell that she had been in the casual encounters section because the link was purple instead of blue. I snuck around when she wasn't home, but I wasn't able to find anything in there that she clicked on. Oh, and one other thing, good old facebook. She grew up back east but is now in touch with all the kids she went to school with, and one of them happens to live about 2 hours from here. Well a couple of weeks ago he sent her a message and said he knew it was short notice but was going to be in town that night for a party and wanted to meet up with her. She told me if she was in shape she would have gone, so she told him she already had plans, but next time she would like to see him. So maybe there is a chance there too. She already knows him and so maybe she'll be comfortable and allow something to happen. One of the things that I was hoping would happen from the letter is that maybe she would get a dildo. She has never had one. I'd love to buy one that she picked out instead of just giving her one. I think if I could get her to cuck me with a dildo that when the time comes she'll be ready for real cock. The other thing that has already happened is because of my snoring we have separate bedrooms, so she has lots of privacy. She has the master bedroom and her computer is in there.

<< Since then though she has mentioned guys on shows she thinks are cute: "he's the cute one." And she has also mentioned how some guy hit on her at the store, but I was caught off guard and didn't respond the way I should have. >>

Well, next time that happens, you'll be more ready. What did you say that was a problem?

Also, having her tell you who she finds cute is a good idea. It helps make it clear that she can find guys attractive and that you are okay with that.

xoxo

Christine