New Beginnings

Wife and I have been talking about her being with another man for ages. She recently has expressed much more interest in the idea. Last Tuesday while out during the day a guy approached her. They started chatting, nearly 1.5 hrs later he left but not before asking her to meet him on Saturday night for takes. He told her the place and time he will be at. She says she wants to go ............. wow, talk about exciting but nervous all the same.

Any advice for a soon to be ?


Justaman2810
justaman2810

be there to check him out. not part of the meeting. your wife maybe so excited she may not be tuned in as well as you to the fellow. be excited but don't let your wife go with anyone that does not seem ok. make the take place a hotel bar. if they go on have her call you ( pertent she's calling her room mate to say she'll be late not to worry. go to your car and sweet agonize over what she is doing. try not to jack off to a cum. let yourself go crazy with the toughts of her being at her best, while all you can do is wait for her. my wife has never gone with a complete stranger on her own. but the agony of waiting and wondering what's going on is he sweetest high there is. lots of luck
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sailvic
Thanks for the feedback
She is going to meet him at a bar so its a very public place which gives her some comfort. Do you still feel I should secretly check him out still ?
justaman2810

Hi all
Some of you may think this is pure fantasy, I know thats what I think when I see some of these similar stories.
I can assure you all that this one is absolutely 100% truth.
This is genuine in fact today she has confirmed that she will be meeting him.

I really would like some feedback / advice that may help me with my incredible emotional ride I'm on at the moment.

Justaman2810
justaman2810

I hope he fucks her silly! Lets see a picture of her.

justaman2810
Well..........today's the day, I cant wait to see how this all turns out. She may just treat it as a "get to know him" first date, or, if they hit it off immediately she may well play.

Hell..................talk about cuck angst !!!





Justaman2810
justaman2810

justaman2810
Wifes out now - has been out for 3 1/2 hours with this guy. Havent heard anything yet, she did say she would contact me if she was going to be later than midnight.

Talk about mixed emotions !!





Justaman2810
justaman2810

Keep us updated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope he fucks her today!

I bet you are going crazy. Let us know how its going?

This tale brings back memories, I have been here before. Very best of luck.

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I'm dying to hear how this turns out!!!

So what happened?

TedtheBellhop
Sorry for the delay everyone, has taken me a few days to absorb and process.

Well as you know she was going to call me if she was going to be later than midnight.
She left home at 6.55pm and by 11.00pm I hadnt heard anything from her. I had asked her to contact me earlier in the night to let me know she was safe. She said she wanted to spend time with him and couldnt go rushing off too often to text me, so she would if she could. Well, by 11.00pm with no contact I was experiencing that cuck angst that I've heard so much about.

Anyway she eventually text me at 11.30pm telling me she was safe, was just leaving, and, would be home soon. I text back asking if the night had any benefits with it, she just said to wait till she got home.

Firstly, they had takes at the bar for a while, he invited her for a quick meal and then they went to a club and went dancing. Apparently there was a fair amount of feeling each other up during the night which increased when he walked her to her car at the end of the evening. They ended up making out in the back seat of her car, and, although she stuck to her word that she wouldnt be screwed that night, she did have a fantastic night all the same.

Not bad for a first night out in the lifestyle.


Justaman2810
justaman2810
justaman2810

Did she suck his cock? did he come while they were in the backseat? does your wife want to see him again?

please?

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Great start to what looks like a fun journey! Congrats to you and her. And a big thanks to you for sharing. I look forward to hearing more as things go.

Good start! Lets hope it is not long till he fucks her.

wow that one hell of first night lucky cuck you are i would love to go through what you just had mmmm, keep us updated ok
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brainbox1
Hi All

After that night she had a momentary attack of the guilts.

You know shouldnt be thinking and doing what she's doing, married and all that.

Anyway she seems to have gotten over that hurdle for the meantine, she's got today of work and instead of staying home with me she has chosen to go out and get more "attention"


Exciting times


Justaman2810
justaman2810

tobecucked
Hi All

Great News !!!!

As mentioned before she has been feeling a little awkward, guilty about this whole lifestyle which has created some difficult moments for us recently.
However, she has now told me that she is feeling more comfortable with the idea - I asked what has made the difference, she claims that time has been the key and the more time, the more comfortable she gets.

Can't wait !!!!


Justaman2810
justaman2810

Great to hear! I'd recommend not being push AT ALL so that she can have as much time as SHE needs. Hope this goes well. Keep posting!

I'd love to be in your situation. I bet you can't wait for her to take another man between her legs. I've been there with more than one woman and my advice is:

1. Be supportive and playful.

2. Tell her often that she can do as much and as little as she wants. I told my last shared partner that I preferred she go all the way whenever she decided she wanted to and I hoped she'd go bareback whenever she was comfortable. She did both and I loved it but I didn't want to pressure her to do or not do anything.

It was the right way to proceed and it allowed her to feel comfortable and not pressured regardless of what she decided to do or not do on any given occasion.

arkansan
Hi Arkansan
Thanks for the advise - I will definately play it carefully.
This has been a fairly long process so dont want to ruin anything at this late stage.

Update:
She went out on Sat night and met a guy, she quite liked him - he has a job where he is a way for 8 days and then back in town for 6. They have agreed to meet when hes back on the Sat 10th Sept.

Another sign that she is getting more comfortable about the whole lifestyle is that she told me only yesterday about a guy she works with who often says he is going to take her out on a date. I asked if he would be discrete about it - she thinks that he would and says that she would like to go - of course I encouraged it.

I dont think it will be long now before she has another man between her legs, and, once she's done it the first time I think she will want more.


Justaman2810
justaman2810

I can't wait to hear how this goes!

Tonight I hope is goin fine - she has gone out to meet him and I am just waiting for her to come home.
I may get a text later to let me know if she has moved away from her friends and is now having a little alone time with him.
She said she would let me know if she is going to be later than 12.30pm - at the moment it's 10.26 so I have a little wait to go




justaman2810
justaman2810

How exciting! I'm so jealous!

can't wait to hear your next update!

Here's the latest from last Sat night.
She met him, there were her girlfriends there as well as his friends, she was hopeful that he would suggest leaving earlier than the rest and meeting her elsewhere after.
He didn't do this, but, he did ask her out for this Sat night 17th to meet up with him alone.
My wife is quite excited about this - I suggested she go shopping to buy clothing for the occassion, she came back with some absolutely beautiful lingerie.
I have also suggested we book a room for her that night in a 5 star hotel close by the bar they are meeting in - she jumped at the opportunity saying she feels it is time.

Can't wait for Sunday morning when she arrives back home.

Justaman2810
justaman2810

Any words of advice from experienced cucks on what I can expect with my emotions and how to handle the whole situation both on the night itself and when she gets home the next day ?

Firstly I need to get through the night myself - I'm sure emotions will be high and after all this time waiting to get to this point I dont want to say or do the wrong thing and turn her off the idea on the first introduction to the lifestyle.

Would really appreciate any advice.


justaman2810
justaman2810

Update

Well its finally about to happen - my wife had an invite from her new friend to go to dinner tonight ( Sat 1st Oct ) and he told her he had booked a hotel room for the night and suggested she could stay with him overnight if she wanted. She told me she would probably come home the next day - I think we are finally on our way - can't wait to see and hear the results.


Jutsaman2810
justaman2810

You've heard of cuckold angst, so you have an idea what to expect - arousal, anxiety, jealousy all rolled into one. I didn't handle our first time very well. That night was great and it'll be forever etched in my memory, but later - a couple of days later - I experienced feelings of inadequacy and insecurity. "What if she leaves me for him?", "what if he's better in bed than me?", "what if he has a bigger cock than me?, were among fears that developed in my mind.

Added to this was the fact the young guy who'd been so keen to date and bed my wife then didn't contact her straight away, which caused her to get feelings of being used. she felt that she'd given him sex too easily and felt like a slag, dirty even.

She re-assured me that she still loved me, that I'd always be her number one and that mine was the biggest cock she'd had. I in turn re-assured her that nothing had changed between us. We'd agreed to try making a fantasy of ours into reality. No harm had been done - it was just sex. Other men might have sex with my wife, but we made love - there's a difference. We agreed to stop there and then, but I regretted it later.

We got over it, but it was a long time before my foreplay suggestions of other men got the desired effect again. Indeed it was over 9 years before she let another man between her legs, but we're older, wiser and stronger now and neither of us have a problem now with her enjoying a different cock from time to time. My 46 year-old wife has a penchant for younger men and is currently away with a guy of 25!

My advice to you would to be to re-assure your wife that you still love her, buy wholehearted back her hunt for extra-marital cock. Don't push her or rush her. Let her take things at her own pace. And if you become insecure after another man fucks your wife, fight it, push through it and let things take their course.
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