How did youu feel when you met your wife's lover?

Dear Lady Milysub.

Thank you for yet another wonderful update.

Having gone back and re-read all of the post from you and your cuckold husband I think this is a very fascinatiing story. It is wonderful how you are now progressing to a state where your sweet and considerate lover is getting housewarm and is now at the stage where he is ready to pop up at your house as a surprise. I would hope that he will now very soon find it completely natural to visit you regardless if your cuckold is home or not,

Also I think it is wonderful to see how your loving and supporting hubby is soon becoming the perfect cuck, serving your lover takes to make him feel comfortable in your home and respectfully watching without disturbing you and your lover.

Cuckold Milysub, you earlier asked about different types of offense. Perhaps it is time that you suggest to your wife that the next time Her lover is coming over, you would like to thank him for showing up unexpetedly while you were at work to make the day such a pleasant and fun day for Her. You should then go on to invite him to come over any time your wife wants to see him and tell him that you are very graeteful to him for making your beautiful wife such a happy lady.

I wish all three of you all of the best for the new year and hope that you will take the time to continue posting,
Sinerely
elina

This is a great thread, thankyou for sharing! I really enjoy the way Mrs. Milysub goes into the details of each encounter. Thanks again and happy 2012.

Thank you for all your kind comments about my writings. My hubby posted recently a question about what would be considered more humiliating for cuckolds to be denied sex, to be asked to pleasure the bull orally or to let the bull take him as a woman. For me, as the wife, I feel it is more humiliating to see my husband be taken by another man as he was a woman. It diminishes his role as a male figure and it would be hard for me to see him other than a sissy.

The first time I met my wife's current lover started out with me naked, and bent over the end of our bed. He knocked on the front door and my wife showed him in, and he took a seat in our bedroom.

My wife then proceeded to flog, cane, and whip me for about 30 minutes, with her lover watching. When my wife finished I heard him speak for the first time when he said "That was hot!"

I then switched places with him, and watched as he fucked my wife multiple times for the next 2 hours.

Since then we have all hung out many times, but I haven't taken part, or watched since that one time. My wife tells me that she has plans to change that in a big way in the coming months...
A dominant Mistress / wife and submissive slave / husband. Just the way it should be.

If he were humilated by being taken as a 'woman', and you thinking him as a sissy, would you still have sex with him?

Dan...first guy to fuck her. I didn't see him at all. She traveled with her sister on a trip to fuck him on a long weekend.

Charles...second guy was long term lover. Was easy to greet him since he was friendly and knew I was 100% ok with him fucking my wife. I watched them a few times and heard them MANY times over the years.

John, Steve, Dennis...never met them. She would go to their house or they would come here and fuck while I stayed in my room and jacked off.

yendorxxx on yahoo chat

never bothered me.

To answer the question of member "Shall54" his question was, If he were humilated by being taken as a 'woman', and you thinking him as a sissy, would you still have sex with him?

I have to think hard about this question because that is something I have not thought about before. I love my husband very much and have always enjoyed our sex life. I honestly don't know how I would react in that situation, but I think that because of my love for him I would still have sex with him, but it would not be the same. You have to understand my husband has always been very masculine and dominant in all other areas of his life. If I see him being taken as a "woman" I would loose some respect for him as a man. I like men that are very secure of themselves and by allowing another man to treat him like that it would be very hard to see him as I have always have. Keep in mind that I don't really know how I would react.

Here is a long story about what happened to another cuckold. Look at the posting of June 21, 2008
https://www.cuckoldplace.com/1_23005_8.html

My wife arranged to meet a potential lover for dinner. I went with her but she walked in alone and I followed, 5 minutes after. This was someone she had been corresponding with on the internet but hadn't met in permister. I watched from accross the room. It was such a strange feeling seeing her smiling and laughing, knowing this might be it. After an hour or so she signaled me over and simply said "Go start the car and wait for us." Us! She said us! This was what I had wanted for so long but now that it was here, I was nervous as hell. They came out and I got out of the car.
"Don't you have something you want to ask my friend?" The moment of truth.
I dropped to my knees and asked "Please Sir, please make love to my Mistress." (This had been discussed many times when we only talked about such a thing actually happening and I was surprised she remembered my fanatsy).
" I am going to drive with him as he follows you home."
Want to hear the rest?

My husband met one of my ex fuck buddies on holiday i was sucking his cock while giving hubby a hand job.They talked about how he use to fuck me regularly(every weekend for about 6 months) when i was younger.Hubby was really hard and excited by this even telling hubby about a time that i totally forgot.When we had a long fuck session in one of those cheap nightly stay motels where he fucked me over 9times he says and made me walk to reception topless with cum all over my face.To ask the motel manger guy for some extra towels i forgot about that i was takeing all day.The manager said something like nice make up and if he could do the same to my face we could stay the night on him but i gave him a pass.Any ways after my husband and my ex fb's chat slowed down i went for it sucking him to blow and he did all over my face and hair etc.Hubby still talks about it to this day also what my ex fb said to him (Here you go mate thats what she use to look like every weekend something to remember me by) lol.

I asked hubby how he felt when they met he say's he was nervous yet strangely excited knowing a guy used me as a his slut on a regular basis.And wish he and i could show him what we got up to but he has moved overseas now.But sometimes i tell him my past blurry expriences

I am wondering if my previous post should have been posted in the "Stories" section? Mr. Big? That is your call. By the way, thank you for an excellent and well run web site. I have enjoyed it for many years.
Let me say a few things about myself:
I am a submissive husband. My wife is not a dominant over-bearing wife. As much as I wish she was, the facts are the facts. However, she has accepted my submissiveness and has allowed me to enjoy many wonderful things, especially numerous cuckolding experiences. Regrettably, she has gone through "the change" (we are both in our 50's), and her sex drive has diminished greatly over the years, so I am no longer cuckoled. I cannot complain. I have compassion for all of you who will probably only be able to fantasize. One cannot demand to be cuckoled and one has to have their priorities in order. Marriage and youngren come first, and sexual desire must come a distant second. My wife does say "you never know" when I ask if it will ever happen again. It keeps me on my toes!
My favorite section here is the chastity and sissy one, and that theme was often incorporated into my cuckoled experiences. I do wear panties every day and can walk quite well in 3 inch heels. (Tried higher heels but just can't do it).
Being a service submissive and working some 50 hours a week outside the house, I do not have a lot of time to explore this site, not to mention write, but I would like to share some of my favorite and actual experiences with you to enjoy, as I have enjoyed reading the stories of others.
I will continue my previous story this week, I promise. To address the theme of this particular response, every one of my many cuckolding experiences have occured with me being present.

Actaully, he and I had been having a bisexual affair. I eventually shared my wife with him and it progressed to the two of them having an affair in which I was pretty much excluded. That first time though was magical, seeing a well hung man penetrate my wife that very first time. It was probably the most erotic moment of my life seeing my wife penetrated by my bisexual lover. Ensuing meetings were pretty much the two of them. It didn't last terribly long because they were beginning to fall in love. My wife showed the wisdom to terminate the relationship...........we have a flower and he is married with two youngren.

He and I continued to see each other and she let me take erotic videos of her for his enjoyment. It was very intimate sucking his cock while he looked at those videos of Vicki, but not as intense as watching the two of them naked together and having wonderful sex.

We moved away and I kept in contact with him for awhile. He probably continues to look at those videos of my wife for arousal...............I hope so! It would excite me to see her video posted at a cuckold site one day.
Ken Kendall

Thank you, tpara! That was wonderful to read.

Thank you for all of your comments.

Sillyfemdude – Thank you for the link. I really doubt that something like that will happen to us, but never say never…

Tpara – That was a good story.

My wife and I have progressed slowly in this lifestyle. She has always wanted to stay overnight with her boyfriend, but I have always hesitated to allow it. However, it was her birthday the other day, and she told me that she wanted to spend the night with him. I think she caught me at a weak moment, but I told her that as a birthday present, I would allow her to spend one night with her boyfriend. This is another first in our relationship. Let’s see how we will both feel the day after…

My wife’s BF has always been kind of shy. He tries to not kiss her in front of me, and it wasn’t until recently that I saw them fucking. My wife has been talking to him about what I like to see, and he is getting excited about it. Lately, he has been telling her that he would love to see me licking her while she is sucking his dick. So far, everything has been talk. However, he finally decided to come home tonight. He is very horny since it’s been a while since he was with someone, so he says he is ready to ask me to lick her while she is sucking him. Also, he told her that it is starting to excite him to let me watch them while he kisses her and fucks her. I am a little nervous because as you know, reality is not always fantasy….

I just saw him cumming inside her mouth in my bedroom. She started with the door closed but when I heard that they were in the middle of it, I just went to the room and I saw her giving him a blowjob. It was very erotic and a humiliating to see another man in yourmarital bedroom. It was also very exciting though…. I left the room as soon as he came to give them some privacy. My wife came out and gave me an open mouth kiss. I could taste his cum. The night is not over yet…

They started to make love again and I went to the door which was ajar, and watch them making love. After five minutes and went in and watch them from the couch in the room. I could see his cuck coming inside and out of her. That was pretty hot. After that she started sucking him and then he said to me, “ do you want to such her” and I started to suck her while she was sucking him. After a while, he stood up and she left her head hanging from the bed while he fucked her in the mouth. In the meantime, I was giving her oral and then he came in her mouth. After that she kissed me in the mouth full of cum while he watched….After that I left the room to give them some privacy…

Very nice, milysub!

Yes, very hot posts!

great thread milysub, when i met my wifes bull i felt very submissive and nervous, but 4 years on i am just submissive and i love it when he stays over. i have to relax in the spare room but i do hear them when they are making love and it is wonderful xx
a36a sissy cuck to my wife

I am the wife of milysub and I will like to share my version of what happened last week. As we have shared before this is not the first time my boyfriend/lover comes to my house to have sex with me while my hubby is there, but this is the first time that my hubby participated. I have been so busy that it has been hard to see my boyfriend and we have not had sex in almost two weeks. By Friday he was more than ready and so was I; in the days prior to him coming over we were on the phone every night and were talking about being together and sexual fantasies. He shared with me that the thought of my husband licking me from behind as I give him oral is very exciting to him. I convinced him to make it a reality when he comes over that week. When he came home on Friday my hubby as a good cuckold husband make my boyfriend a nice take and after some chit chat I took him to my bedroom. I must remind you that he loves oral and that me giving him oral sex pushes him over the edge and makes him want to fuck me hard, a fact that I love!! I already had it all planned, I took him to a chair in my bedroom and I knelt in from of him and gave him a blowjob, he didn’t last long, after he came in my mouth I came to the family room to check on hubby. I knew that he had watched and I wanted to know how he was doing. My boyfriend and I like to snuggle before and after sex, as we were snuggling naked in my marital bed, I told him that it would be up to him to ask my husband to lick me from behind that he had to tell him. After he fucked me hard, I started to give him another blowjob and he told my husband (which was there watching us) to start licking me, soon we changed positions and I let my head hang over the bed for my boyfriend to fuck me in the mouth ( I knew from a previous experience that this is his ultimate fantasy). He went wild as he fucked me in the mouth and my husband was licking me. It has been a wild experience for me, but I loved it and I am glad that I have two great guys to share it with. My birthday was last month and as part of my birthday present I told my husband I want to spend the night over at my boyfriend’s house (something that I have never done before). So, tomorrow night I am going over to my boyfriend’s house to spend the night. My boyfriend is so excited that he switched days with someone at work so that he would have Friday night off. He is cooking for me and planning a romantic evening at his place. I can’t wait!!!!

Dear Lady Milisub and cuckold milisub.

Thank you once more for some wonderful updates.

I think it is particularly wonderful to see how natural you are taking to this Lifestyle now Lady Milisub. It is wonderful to see how you describe your lover as "your boyfriend", how you chat with him on the phone to plan your next get-together (I assume that your hubby is allowed to listen if he is there - I would have loved to hear from Mr Milisub how that makes him feel), how you describe your hubby as "a good cuckold husband making your boyfriend a nice take", and not the least how you help your Boyfriend overcome his inhibitions to instruct your cuckold to lick lick your allreaddy used pussy while you are sucking his cock.

I trust and hope that you will have a wonderful experience the night you will be spending at your Boyfriends house.

Mr Milisub, thanks for having started this thread. I admire your courage and ability to get your Wife to open up to the subject of cuckolding you and how you are now adapting to your role in supporting her love affair with her boyfriend. In particular I think it is fantastic to see how you manage to be there to help out and demonstrate your support for your Wife; making a take for her Boyfriend, licking Her when he tells you to, yet at the same time leaving the room for the two lovers to have some private time to snuggle. I admire you and envy you. It would be very interesting to hear how you are reacting to this emotionally and how your love for your wonderful Wife is evolving through all of this.

This thread is among my absolute favorites here and it makes me wonder how I can use this to convince my beautiful Wife to start looking for a lover of her own. I hope both of you will find the time to continue to share your experience with the rest of us.

sincerely
elina

I have not written in a while. My night at my boyfriend’s apartment was really good. I got to meet his teenage mister as we dropped him off at a friend’s house. The mister doesn’t know that I’m married. Going back to my stay on his apartment for the night, before we started dinner I changed into just a black tank top and a pair of black boy shorts just to set the mood. After dinner we went to his bedroom where we snuggled, talk and make out. After a very intense make out session (he enjoys kissing my neck, my back, my arms, my mouth) he had sex then we dose off for a little while and he woke me up by caressing my naked breasts. Needless to say we made love again and finally we settle for the night with his arms all around me. We woke up early (he had to go to work) we had one more for the road and then hit the shower. I got home around 8:30 am just in time to have morning sex with my husband. Tonight he is coming over and I can’t wait to have sex with both of my men.

Well, here I am. They are speaking in front of me while we are having a couple of takes. They will soon be going into my marital room and will have sex on my marital bed. I feel jealous but excited at the same time.

I just saw him fucking my wife and coming in her mouth. They actually called me into the bedroom to watch them fuck. This is the first time they call me which means he is getting more comfortable in letting me watch. I hope they get more comfortable so I can watch them from beginning to end.

Thanks for the updates, they're much appreciated.

xoxoxo

Christine (a sissy m)

Dear Lady Milisub and Mr Milisub

Very good to hear from you again and that all three of you appear to be enjoying the arrangements, I particularly like the way Lady Milisub left Her lover in the morning after having spent the night with him and then goes home for morning sex with Her hsuband and how she expresses a longing for having sex with both of Her men.

Mr. Milisub, I fully understand your desire to be allowed to watch as your lovely Wife and Cuckholdress make love to her new lover more frequently. Did it occur to you that you were called into Her Bedroom to watch for the first time after you had allowed your wife to spend the night at Her lovers house? Maybe this makes Her lover feel more secure about his position with your wife, maybe this makes it easier for him to allow you to watch?

If you will permitt me to make a suggestion; Maybe you should discuss this with Lady Milisub and ask Her if She thinks there is something you could do to make Her lover feel so secure that you could be allowed to watch every time they were having sex in your home? Have you considered suggesting to your wife that maybe the next time Her lover visits Her, You should be permitted to thank him for making your wife so happy, and since you love Her so much you have decided that She will be permitted to visit Him and spend the night with him whenever she desires. Then tell him that you hope that He will therefore consider if you can be allowed to watch them whenever He is visiting Lady Milisub in Her home? Then ask Him if there is anything else you can do to help them be able to spend more time together so that Lady Milisub can get the maximum benefit out of Her relationship with Her lover.

Or would this be to radical for you?

I hope you will both keep updating us.

Sincerely
elina

This is an update. The Boyfriend has been over a couple of times and I have seen them making love in our marital bed. He is getting more comfortable about it. However, the novelty is wearing off for him, and I think he is getting together with his previous girlfriend and once that happens, Ms. Milysub will most probably stop seeing him. She is going through her period tonight, but she went to see him probably to give him some type of release.

Ms. Milysub is out with her boyfriend tonight, but I think she is getting tired ot him. She started talking with a new guy in AFF. I think is a matter of time before there is a new boyfriend.