How did youu feel when you met your wife's lover?

Have you ever met your wife’s lover? I did tonight. My wife went out with a guy for about a year, but that ended after they both lost interest in each other. My wife found lover number two at work and has been going out with him for about six months. I have never seen my wife with another guy and, frankly, didn’t want to. I didn’t think I could handle it.

However, we have been joking lately about him coming home, and fucking her in front of me on our bed. She thought that was hot and eventually told him about my fantasy. It took several months of teasing, but he finally gave up and he told my wife he would come home tonight. I didn’t believe him until he showed up at the door.

Now, he was very careful and very polite. We talked about motorcycles, Obama, the economy, etc. However, after about one hour, I told him that I knew about him and my wife, and that I was cool with it and to relax. I told him that this was something we both enjoy and to feel comfortable with it. He was a little taken aback, but he told me it was cool with him also. After that, I left him with my wife in the living room and they are talking. I served him a take and left them alone. I am now writing while they are talking. I don’t think anything will happen tonight, but I do feel a little embarrassed but excited with what it’s going on?

Have any of you had your wife’s lover coming to your house? How did it change your marriage? Your bedroom?

Very exciting. Wife has not taken a lover yet. But she has one picked out. She's been working on him for quite some time!

I was totally nervous and felt like a little bitch. I met him after the third date. They had a meet & greet followed by a make out session and they fucked on the third date.

We met for coffee just him and I. Knowing how much my wife like him I couldn't help but feel cuck.

Loved it.
Its me Tony. So if you think you are the man from Shannons past. I miss what we had! I hope your still seeing her and not missing a thing!

My lover and I have being seeing each other since February, we see each other at work and we talk or text every day. He has accepted my arrangement with my husband but doesn’t understand it completely, and even after his first visit home and my husband reassurance, he would not have sex in front of my husband. From time to time I’ve been trying to get him to come home and have sex with me in my bed, but he doesn’t want to hurt my relationship with my husband and we have kept our encounters somewhere else. He got another job and left where we used to work together. We continue to talk or text every day, but due a death in his family we have not been with each other for over a month. Today we were talking and he knows how much I miss being with him. We were joking and I dared him to come by the house after work. I usually get home before my husband, my lover agreed to come over as long as I would let my husband know and he would have to be okay with it. I called my husband and he said okay. I made sure to wear a very low cut top and tight jeans. When my lover came over we sat in the family room and were discussing his plans to go back to college. After a little while we started to make out on the couch and were very easy to take him by the hand and tell him to come with me that I have something I wanted to show him in my bedroom. Because it has been so long for us it was not difficult to convince him. He wanted to make sure that the doors were locked and we hug each other and started kissing. I drop my pants and kept the panties. We kissed some more and he took my panties off and then he took his pants off then, he leaned me across my bed and got on top of me and we kept our shirts on because he wanted to be able to dress quickly in case my husband got home. He could tell right away that I was hot and wet ready for him. It felt so good to be with him kissing me and telling me how much he missed me while being inside of me. He asked me how I felt having him on my bed and honestly I am not sure. It was hot and because he has not been with each other for so long I didn’t want to think too much about it. It felt so good that after a few minutes I was having a huge orgasm and this made him come too. He pulled out just in time, we stayed liked that hugging and kissing for a few more minutes until we got up and cleaned ourselves, got dressed and went back to the family room to talk for another half hour before he had to go and now I am sharing this with my husband and the rest of this site.

I will never forget I was shaking so much when I heard them come back from their date, we kept things very simple I was not giving any slave duties to perform but we chilled out with a beer, he was the perfect gentlemen but after the takes I was tied up in the spare room for the night whilst my wife and him slept in the marital bed and although we have moved to another country I still keep in contact with him.
We are still hoping to find a lover who is comftable to come home with my wife but will take small steps in acheiving this.
Droopy and Miss

I have not written much since the last time. My wife’s lover has visited us a couple of times, but I have been in another room while they kiss. The last time he was here she gave him a blowjob. He knows that I want to see them making love but he is not feeling up to it.

Tonight, my wife has been teasing him and he has promised to show up and to fuck my wife in our marital bedroom while I listen.

I will try to take a peek through one of the bedrooms door.

How are we going to feel afterwards will be interesting and will decide whether or not we continue to do this or not.

I would appreciate your stories about how you felt the first time your wife’s lover made love to your wife in your bedroom. How did it affect you psychologically?

Ok, he finally came. I met him at the door and gave him a take. We did some small talk and I told him that she wanted to show him something in the bedroom. She took him to the bedroom were they made love. I listened outside the bedroom for the first time.

I think for the first time I felt like a real cuckold. Hearing them making love while I was outside the marital bedroom. For the first time, I know how some of you feel. The jealousy and the excitement.

My wife told me one time that making love in the marital bed would make her think less of me.

What’s going to happen know? I don’t know. I am excited and so is she. We have fulfilled our fantasy, and now we have to live with the consequences.

This is a great thread! When I have more time I want to reply more fully, but for now I'll keep it short.

I have met a lot of my wife's ex fuck buddies. They're all since we got married, but I'm actually really good friends with two of them now. When our regular friends meet them it's a little odd trying to think of a reamister why we know them.

There was also one guy she used to see quite a lot who I never met. She took him back home once while I was upstairs and she told me to stay in the spare room. They went into the living room and I listened to them talk, then kiss. Then there was the familiar sound of my wife sucking someone off. Then they fucked for around 15 minutes - she was much louder than normal, so I could hear her properly.

She brought him home again another night, and left me tied up in the spare room (apparently this is a popular choice, according to other people here!). She didn't fuck him this time as he had to leave in a hurry after she sucked his dick

I was not there when the wife had sex with her Bull in our marital bed the first time, and maybe that is a big difference (although she did record the sounds of them making love) since all I got was the thrill and excitment of knowing what was going on - it was a longstanding fantasy of being humiliated by this act, and I got what I had bargained for. For me it was an incredible rush, and while sofar it has happened ony once, I hope to progress also to the point where I am allowed to serve him a take before they get to the intercourse part, and maybe during a break some water to replenish his fluids.....

I don't feel like she is being taken from me by this act, rather she is being used by another, much more virile man in the way she should be taken care of for her and his pleasure - and by extension, mine!

Well, I never had a chance to write what happened after he left. I did have a couple of takes while I listened to them making love. They made love for about thirty minutes. After that, he came out of the room, my wife and I said goodbye, and we went to the bedroom. My wife confessed that she let him come inside of her. We got into a sixty nine position. My wife came while I drank his cum. After that we made love and went to relax.

It was a great experience and it was very exciting. We fulfilled one of my biggest fantasies and I know she enjoyed also. I have read many stories in this forum and wondered how many of them are real, and now that it happened to me, I am a believer.

My wife may write later and talk about her experience.

Have a good night.

I have not written in this forum for quite a while and in the mean time I have been with my lover several times but not at home. Tonight I have been texting him and he knows how horny I am and so is he. I finally convinced him to come by the house even though was late. When I opened the door I was so excited that he was finally here to have sex with me in our bed while my husband is in the other room listening. He was a little nervous at first but after a take and chit chat I took him by the hand to our bedroom. It was so very exciting and he could tell because I was super wet. We started to make out and then I was sucking him. He loves oral sex, the more I suck him the more he wants to fuck me. The sucking didn’t last long, he pushed me to bed and opened my legs and pushed his dick deep inside of me. As we were having sex he was telling me he didn’t mind that my husband was listening, because I was his and he was the one making me moan and cum. When he was Cuming I told him to cum inside of me and he did. It was very exciting and it felt that it ended too soon. Afterwards he was saying, “I can’t believe it happened, I had sex with you with him listening”. After a little while he was okay. I can’t wait to have sex with him again. He has promised to fulfill my husband’s fantasy of watching us together; he only said to give him some more time to get around the idea. I will let you know when that happens.

My GF dated for a while, but never brought anyone home to our place.

She did meet a guy who she wanted to bring home, but it never worked out. She really was looking forward to spending some time with him, but well... it's a long story. (sigh)

i was both nervous and intimidated the first time i met him. He came by to pick her up and they left after about 5 minutes of small talk.
jamie

Just an update. He will come tomorrow (no pun intended). He has come home before but this is the first time that I know he will come home with several days of notice. I think he is getting more confortable coming around the house, and I hope one of these days I can see them making love.

Wow, this is really a hot thread, hope you get your wish. Have you thought of a small video camera that could be hidden?

I actually asked my wife's first lover to fuck her. I told him she liked him and that I really wanted him to fuck her. She never knew until after they actually fucked that I did this. The thrill of asking someone to fuck your wife is very intense. I was hard as a rock as I asked him, knowing that I would be eating his remains after it happened.

Milysub,

This is a great thread and I truly look forward to reading more. My wifes lover comes to our house to say hi, hang out, talk with us, have a beer but he has no idea i know. He has fucked my wife in my bed many many times, he has fucked her in our garage, in his truck in the driveway while i was in house. The amount of cum my wife has swallowed from him is huge.

You are lucky that your wife has found a guy that is OK that you know. Like others posted, i think the norm is for the other guy to freak out if the husband knew.

I look forward to reading more and possibly seeing a pic or two..

Thank you Mike. You are right. He came tonight and we spoke a little bit. My wife was upset because I showed him a new game I bought (Battlefield 3) and he was paying more attention to the game than to her. LOL

Nevertheless, after a take he relaxed a little bit and went to the room with her. He was so nervous that I was outside, that she came out naked and asked me to put him at ease. I told him to relax and to enjoy as I closed the door.

I am now outside while I am writing, takeing a glass of wine waiting for the fireworks to start.

Milysub,

Funny stuff about Battlefield 3! I just bought MW3 and will be opening it this eve. In fact, I may even email her bf to stop by for a beer!

Looking forward to hearing more about how things went..

THANKS for posting!!

Remembering back many years.

Hi! I am the wife and I would like to tell my side of the story about that night. My lover is very romantic and he didn't want to just fuck me. He enjoys talking in bed and a lot of foreplay, but he didn't know how my husband would feel if after a while we were still in the bedroom, hence me coming out (naked) to ask my husband to put him at ease. After the initial shock of seen my husband in the treshold of our bedroom while my lover was in bed naked, he relax to make slow sweet love to me it was great. Afterwards we cuddle and talk and took a short nap to go for seconds and this time he pound away. Again afterwards we stayed in bed for a little bit talking and caressing, but he had to go home since he had his teenage mister waiting for him at home. After he left my husband came in and worhiped my pussy and then made love to me. By the time the night was over my pussy was very well used.

Thank You Mz milysub, for the Wife's side. i wonder, does it seem to You that You and hubby were destined for this type of relationship? i know W/we were, and would not have lasted as long if i had not fully embraced this lifestyle. my Wife had very strong feelings for most of Her lovers.

Great Post! LOve to hear more please continue

Well, my wife’s boyfriend is coming tonight. He is kind of shy but we planned it so that we will give him a couple of takes, I will disappear, and let them start getting intimate, and at that moment, I will come and watch them. The plan is that he will be so involved, he will either ignore me or don’t care I am there. I will let you know what happens.

By the way, my wife and I were talking about what would be more humiliating for a cuckold, to (1) suck the bull’s cuck, (2) to be penetrated by the bull, or (3) for the wife to have sex only with the bull. What do you guys think?

Well, I finally watched my wife having sex with another man. When they were in the peak of excitement, I simply opened the door to my bedroom and watched them have sex until she came and took a little break. After that, I just left the room. I thought that I would feel jealous or mad, but actually I felt excited and horny. Of course, I have not cum yet, but I don’t think my feelings are going to change. It’s pretty exciting to hear the noises while they are making love, the noise of the kisses, and the moaning. I wonder if the day is going to come when he will come and have sex in front of me without thinking twice about the fact that I am there. My wife will tell her side of the story tomorrow.

That's great! I'm looking forward to hearing her story soon.

Dear mr and Ms. Milysub

First I love hearing your story. Please continue posting.

Concerning your question about what would be more humiliating of the acts you mentioned, I think this depends on the context. To me, I think nr (3) would probably be the most humiliating. Especially if my wife openly made me confirm the situation in front of the Bull. I think hearing the Woman you are married to tell you that she will no longer allow you to have sex with her, while the bull is listening and then making me accept the fact and in particular if She had instructed me to tell the bull that I accepted the situation and asked him to please continue having sex with my wife since I was uanble to please Her the way she deserves to be pleased. Then I think sucking the bull and being penetrated by the bull would be natural follow ups to confirm my position as a cuckold whose role would be to assist my wife and Her lover(s).

Good luck with your adventures. I am particularly looking forward to hearing Your side of the Story Ms. Milisub.

sincere regards
Elina
elina

I think most bulls/lovers would be most exited to be present when the wife declares to the cuck that she will never let him fuck her anymore and will be exclusive for the bull.
Monica

I am the wife of Milysub and this is my side of what happened the other night. As you already know my lover has been to our house before and have had sex with me in my bed, while my husband waited outside. Lately, in my conversations with my lover he had shared how excited he was the time we were sitting in the living room while my husband was in the family room and I gave him a blowjob. He confessed that the thought of my husband watching while getting a blowjob was very exciting to him. The other night he wanted me to come over to his apartment since he was not working that night. I was able to convenience him to come over instead. He came over and my hubby had a take ready for him to help him relax. After a little of chit chat my husband excused himself leaving us alone in the family room. We started to kiss and I pulled my gown down for easy access to my 36 DDD and after a heavy make out session I started to suck him, but he was too nervous with my husband around. We then decided to move to my bedroom where we continued and as I was riding him hard, the door to our bedroom opened and my husband came in and sat in the chair that is in the bedroom. My lover saw him coming in, but I told him to focus on me and after a little while we didn’t even noticed he was there. My husband stayed in the bedroom until my lover and me both orgasm, we stayed in the bed talking and caressing. My lover was a little shocked that it actually happened, but he was okay. We started to have sex again and after we were done my lover confessed that he was expecting my husband to walk in the room again for the second round and that he was ready for it. After that he had to leave since it was late. Today my lover surprised me by coming over to make me breakfast while my husband was at work. We had a great breakfast and since it was kind of cold we got in bed under the covers to watch a little of TV. We spent the whole day in bed naked, talking and making love. It was a fun day.