Strapons for men - the next best thing

This is one of the only places on the web that I have found other guys who also use a hollow strapon to please their wife or girlfriend. Does anyone know of a site or group devoted to this?

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We started using a strapon years ago after I encountered some neurological issues. I am unable to retain an erection for any length of time and either cum instantly or not at all. Needles to say, going soft in the middle of making love kind of ruins the moment and we had a lot of ruined moments. So much so that at my suggestion my wife took a lover for a while. She had fun at first and liked the courtship and excitement of a new relationship but soon realized that the relationship also came with baggage and the possibility of being caught by friends, co-workers and family. It did however give her an appreciation for good sex... something she ended up admitting was absent from our marriage from the start but she just hadn't realized it.

We did a lot of talking about what we could do to make our sex life better. Fortunately my wife and I are best friends above all else and can tell each other anything. We decided to purchase a quality strapon made for men. She's not much of a size queen so the 6.5" model appealed to her (they also make a 9" monster) and 6.5" is considerably larger than the my little 4-incher. It also happens to be about the same size as her ex boyfriend's and the majority of men on the planet.

It was a little awkward at first and we didn't use it every time but we soon realized that the times when we didn't use the strapon were generally disappointing and downright embarrassing. I would lose my errection and she'd feel like she was unattractive, even though she knows it's a medical issue. Also, I've always slipped out during sex. Four inches doesn't give a guy much length to thrust and requires quick short 1-2" strokes instead of long deep ones. Not the best situation. You really can't be a good lover with a short dick.

So we started using it more and more and the sex was great. Eventually we decided to avoid the disappointment and embarrassment by making the strapon a permanent fixture. I wear it every time we were together, even if I'm just eating her beautiful pussy. Other than once in the shower, she hasn't seen me naked without the strapon in ages. That's the intention; to have it become a part of me in both of our minds and it's worked. She gets wildly excited when she sees my stiff cock, believing that she has made it that way and I feel more masculine and sexy too. When I slip it on I feel like I just want to fuck something!

My little penis rattles around inside the strapon getting hard and soft but it doesn't matter. As far as we are both concerned it's always hard and ready for action. It's been a source of embarrassment twice at the airport, once in carry-on and once when we were coming home from Mexico and were subject to a baggage search but it pales in comparimister to the embarrassment of trying to use the one I was born with. It's really helped our marriage and we now have a sex life and a good one at that. I don't know if I'll ever be a cuck again, but it's ok. The fact that she's completely rejected my tiny penis and has been cumming hard on a copy of another man's cock for years now turns me on. "His" cock has become "my cock" by proxy and I wear it proudly. I play with my little guy when I can and I'm good with that.

Anyone else into this? Any good websites or photos out there? I'll try to convince the wife to let me take a picture some day when we're making love.

My 6.5 inch hollow dildo ready for action!

Cool I have tried one of these and my darn hotwife does not like the rubber feel to it-
I wish the hell she did as it's great being bigger and harder for it- I loved it.

Never used the strapon device, but those penis enlarger sleeves are fantastic, they come in a variety of sizes, colors and shapes, I highly reccomend them for guys who wanna give their wives added pleasure.

Well things have changed for us now. My penis is very small and we have had issues for years. My sexy wife is hot and loves to fuck but it's hard as hell to satisfy her large wanting cunt. So yes as I said we tried a strap on awhile back but ... the textured hard rubber feel and non realness did not sit well with her. I was very disappointed. We resorted to swinging for 12 years and I even wrote a memoir called Our Dark Secret A Modern Cuckold Memoir. The book says it all, pretty little blonde wife, bbc for her, great sex yet emotional issues with love and marirage, family and religion. So we stopped swinging- read the book ...lol. It's selling and reviewing very well on amazon.

Anyway huge breakthrough this past week ... I have become so frustrated with this sexual mismatch, the thought of any possibilities to help are always on my mind. So since the stopping of meeting hung men we pretty much have had very little sex. I had had enough and bought the most realistic hollow fat 8 inch strap on cock with harness I could find online. The morning of my big try, she mentioned she wanted to make love- so I had to go with my idea full strait ahead ... I placed it on our bed under her pillow with a note ........... - it read, " Fantasy night of fun, we'll go easy and have an exciting night!"

So she see's it and I'm expecting now way we tried this before, not my thing, but she says nothing when we see eachother that early evening. I smile and giggle as does she. I ask, " Well did you see it?". She's like, " yeah." I wait and she replies nothing. So I'm like did it make you all nervous as such? But she said she's be up for it. WOW! I WAS SHOCKED AND VERY EXCITED. Here's a pic of the strap-on I had gotten, and my hotwife, I will continue the amazing 2nd half of this tale in the next posting.

So we have the night free and arrive home from dinner at like 10pm. We get ready for bed and I'm still very unsure how things will unfold. My guess is she will want my tiny cock only when it comes right down to it, or at least try the toy a thick 8 fat inches with a big full head. My plan is sound at least. She will do all she can to get my 4 inches hard, it won't be easy, but she could succeeed yet I will come quick and saty hard only minutes.

I took measures in my own hands by quickly getting off in the bathroom prior to slipping into bed. So I would not get hard under any circumstances. Plus I knew her weakness for wanting cock. I had to hold out as long as possible. What I mean is not try and touch her too much, don’t power the issue. For me this is always hard if I get hard because I usually don’t get an erection that hard now that I’m older plus if I do it does not last- so I have to push things along like undress her, get her fingered, eat her and fuck her fast or my erection is gone. That being said if I do this I come quickly and we have a problem with a very horny woman wanting much much more on the bed helpless.

So with knowing I would not get hard I took my time as things began. This made her extra horny and I had her very excited. She took my clothes off, she took her clothes off and I took my time soft and shriveled. She tried like crazy to get me hard, stroking pumping into be sucking my teeny wang- she did it all and I stayed soft and small.

She was ready for a fucking but had no cock. She pulled at my pecker and it dangled soft, she was frustrated beyond the norm, as I had prolonged the foreplay so much she needed it badly. She began to fondle her clit and try and get off. The time had come to ask about the big strap on dong.

I knew she may say no, but man she wanted to fuck, so I asked, and she said it was by her dresser- meaning ok! I got up and slipped on the harness and gave her the lube. She was nervous but for God sake a 37-year-old sexy wife needed to fuck. So she lubed it up and continued to play wit herself rapidly and I felt she’d get off before we ever used the big toy I showed in my first post.

“Oh God,” she yelled out. She was on fire. We had not met a BBC for nearly 2 years and she had been without anything substantial cock since. I wanted to fuck her so bad. She was so hot, so ready, I felt her pussy lips and they were puffed and throbbing huge! I kissed her big nipples, her necks weak spot and deep French kissed her. She was wild and wanting, please don’t cum yet, I thought to myself about her, please honey I hoped she’d wait. Then a MOMENT THAT I THINK MAY CHANGE OUR LIFE TOGETHER OCCURRED. She said, “ Ok put it in!”

I eased EIGHT VERY THICK inches into my wife. I was thrilling. She held me back with her palm on my stomach so I went very slowly. She still tapped at her clit moaning and really excited to get off. She was so ready, so wanting to be fucked by real cock. She told me ok again? Ok again meant nothing to me other than to go, as we normally would fuck when I got hard. But, I had 4 inches and would cum in less than 2 minutes every time. It was silly really. I normally would try my best to fuck her, I’d drive hard into her hips but I felt nothing really and she had no reservations. She had lovers in the past my precious young wife, yet never had we had any type of good sex. I pushed in! She took it fully and moaned in delight. So I decided to give it to her- I FUCKED MY WIFE FOR THE FIRST TIME KNOWING SHE WAS THRILLED AND SATISFIED WITH MY ABILITY AND SIZE!

The question was, would she handle this ok and not want to stop too quickly. I held nothing back, I pounded her so hard, and so madly the way I had always dreamed of. She was in heaven, she called out she was going to cum, “ Oh yes I’m Cumming,” she screamed as she stroked her clit and came is a boast of excitement.

I would have gotten off way earlier yet with the hollow big dong on I felt nothing. So I could continue on. She wanted me however to get off, so I lied. I said the hollow tube over my cock was sucking into my penis and I was going to cum myself. She was so happy to hear it. I kept going and she grabbed my ass for more. We rocked the bed real hard, I fucked my wife with vigor, and in positions we’d never done because of my small size. I faked Cumming myself and again she was thrilled. She came again and we exhausted separated any lay on the bed in a heap of sweat. She was never satisfied, and NEVER WITH ME! She was as happy as a peacock. She kissed me, told me she loved me, massaged me and cuddled close to me. All day the following day she kept it up. I was so sore, my back and shoulders would not stop aching from the wildness we fucked like the night before. For a man of 48- I had fucked like a teenager, and I felt it now.

I’m just now feeling better two days later. Things are good. I think we have had a major break through here. We’ve had company and the kids are here right now so no more sexual situations have come up. The strap on is in the dresser draw. This is my true story about a strap on hollow cock for a cuckold like me. I hope you enjoyed it. Here’s one more pic of the misses. My blog if you care to read it is at

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There’s a ton of articles I have written about the hotwife and cuckold relationship and also info on my cuckold novels.
-DH

wow no-one reading this thread?

Actually I thought that was great! Wouldn't mind using a hollow strapon with my girl as well one day. Thanks for the posting!!

Maybe this post is in the wrong forum. Maybe I should have placed it in the sissy and chastity forum, or maybe there just aren't many guys who can relate.

One big advantage of the strapon is guilt free masturbation, since my tiny penis is no longer required to perform. I no longer have to worry about poor performance, cumming in 60 seconds or not at all, going soft mid way through and not being able to please my partner. It removes all performance anxiety and believe me, there was a lot of anxiety!

With the strapon I am a s*******ful lover, placing my wife's needs and desires before mine. She also no longer has to worry about me and what might go wrong to ruin the moment and leave her frustrated. She can concentrate on her feelings and sexual needs without feeling guilty for placing her needs before mine.

Because I can't feel a thing through the strapon during intercourse, I can focus on her movements and expressions. It allows me to read her better and to play her like an instrument. When she's about to cum her facial expression changes, she pulls me in deeper and her toes start curling. That's when I give my last few meaningful thrusts and fake cumming deep inside her. She says she misses receiving a load of cum, the fact that sex is never disappointing or stressful makes up for it.

Here's a shot looking down on my big cock, ready for action. I love it! I feel so powerful and in control. I feel completely different and totally confident when I put it on.

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I wonder how it would work on a tiny softie with little balls. I can imagine slipping out but I think it would be worth a try. The one and only thing my wife complains about with what we're using is that the head is a little too hard and sometimes hurts, depending on the position. We also have to soak it for a bit in hot water to warm it for her. I spend this time getting her ready and hot for it.

You mention two really good points, the stress of a hard on gone and jerking opff guilt free- great statements- tjhese are very important points- also we have to warm ours up too...lol!

I was sent a message after posting this that I think sums it up.

"I think its just great that you're open-minded enough to do this for wife.
Big advantages for her: Strapons are always hard, disease free and don't need their egos stroked!
Big advantages for you: Eliminates pressure to perform, allows consistency of performance"

This is all true. The part that I find erotic is that I can play both roles; the alpha and beta male at the same time. I can be a super lover, doing everything right to rock her world and the cuck who no longer gets to fuck his wife because she's found a much better arrangement. I'm pretty sure she'd never want to go back and I I would'nt want to either.

I take it that not many guys have tried this and frankly I'm surprised. Especially sissies, small-dick guys and cuck wannabes with *** wives. You can make your wife crave a cock other than yours and spoil her with great sex every time. You can basically cuck yourself and save your marriage at the same time. Win-win! (or winner winner as Charlie Sheen would say)

The only way I am allowed to have intercourse with my wife is if I am wearing my hollow strap on. She likes them huge 10+ and thick. Between the oral orgasms, and the huge strap on sessions, I can make her cum between 15-20 times a night. She justs loves how it feels, and we don't need to include any outside strangers. We role play as well, which just adds to the enjoyment.

I just want to thank you for this thread as I can definitely see the advantages as my wife and I use a nice sized 9 inch strap-on. While not hollow tip I still manage to us it on her with no discomfort when I "perform" on her. There is nothing like a powerful feeling of holding such a large cock and make those incredible sexy sounds of a powerfull orgasm come out of my wife's mouth.

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We're still using our strap on each time we play now. I will wait until she asks me to put it on. I can't get hard easy, or last, and am very small- so after she is excited, she asks, and it's going well.

When we started out I was probably more excited about using the strapon than she was. I wore it every time we did it for several weeks straight. She eventually asked me to leave it off one time. She told me she enjoyed the strapon, but she missed my "little guy" and wanted to do it with me this time. As you can expect, it was a failure. I'm super small and things go south easily. I'm way to self-conscious and always feel sexually inadequate, which leads to more of the same and eventually ends in failure as forecasted. The next time I got her all worked up and ready for sex she topped and said "I'm going to use the bathroom while you get ready". Strapping on soon became "getting ready". This became the norm for a long time, her giving me the thumbs up to "get ready". I now excuse myself briefly just saying "I'll be right back" and it's understood that that means I'll be right back with my strapon in place, ready for some fun.

It's been at least three or four years since we last tried it with my "little guy". I can't think of a single time in all of the times we've made love since that it's been a failure or gone bad. She ALWAYS gets off now and has a new love for sex. I took to it like a duck to water and while a bit humiliating (which I enjoy), I have become a consistently satisfying lover. I'm a great lover with my strapon and know how to use it. It just took her a while to not feel guilty for no longer preferring the real thing. She had to loosen up and let herself enjoy it. She also had to realize that I enjoyed it as much as her. Our sex life is truly awesome these days thanks to my artificial penis.

We're not the only ones. This seems to be catching on.

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Over the past few months, my wife has been getting laid too frequently for her to need me and the strap-on. When we do have sex alone, it's implied that I'm wearing a strap-on.

If you're going to try this, get a GOOD strap-on and a realistic dildo. If you buy a cheap strap-on (i.e., with cheap nylon straps) it's not going to work. A solid leather harness is indispensable. We originally started with a good size 7" dildo, but over a few months we went to the 9" dildo (2.5" diameter) and haven't looked back.

Typically, I would eat out my wife until she came (while wearing the strap-on), then bring her off while fucking her with the strap-on. After I take it off, I typically fuck her clit and pussy lips -- outside of her -- for a while until I come on my own belly. I've tried to fuck her after the dildo, but by then it's so loose that neither of us can feel anything and I end up getting soft. Sometimes I simply jerk off while she watches. That said, the build up from fucking her with the strap-on makes my orgasms beyond powerful.

Just to follow-up for me I also go soft when it's just me in my wife. While I do eventually orgasm it still does not give me that same thrill as listening to my wife orgasm and cum hard all over the big strap-on. I agree with you iloanmywife. A good leather harness works best. We use a vac-u-loc harness. Looking to buy other things to use with the harness, lol. Cheers to all us males who want our wives to enjoy themselves with us.

Don't get me wrong, I still want her to try that real thing from another male but at least I can provide her with a proper fucking that she truly deserves.

Hi, I've just posted a request for recommendations for a suitable hollow extension, or similar.
My wife is desperate for 9" of cock, but wants me to try an extension rather than her (publicly) fuck someone else.

Anyone recommend a good one by name/type, ??

She'd sure appreciate it!!!
swollenporker

swollenporker
We use the 'outlaw' dildo (9-1/4 inch and thick) with a menage a trois harness. It works great and my own little one gets to go along for the ride. She loves it. Just ask us.
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Update.... We've tried the hollow cocks... but my wife finds them too hard and inflexible.
With that failure behind us, she bought me a 3" latex cock extension... its like a condom but with a 3" cock head built in, and boy does she like that...
For the first time that I can recall, I actually made her scream, and loudly, uncontrollably and watched her eyes go wide with sheer pleasure.
Now that I can recommend!!
swollenporker

I guess my experience with my girlfriend is similar to some of yours. Her weak husband is forbidden to even attempt to fuck her, he is permanently caged, so Sue makes him wear a large strap-on above his tiny dicklet and fuck her with the strap-on. She cums, he doesn't - result! She also uses the same strap-on to give him a good pegging. He cums then!

stacey23
We love it too.
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Here is what I have found on a dif. Forum : "Company specializing in these products, The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! and The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! I have read several positive feedback letters from customers and have found that there are basically two types of users; Those that require assistance and those that would like to experiment. Over the years we have seen a rise in those products that are geared to experimentation. In the majority of these cases, the products are made of a soft, "realistic" material. The use of a softer material requires the user to be able to retain his erection during the course. As the products can be customized to exact measurements and wide variety of external dimensions, we definitely recommend that both parties be in agreement of the overall size. Having said this, we do find that most couples enjoy a larger external size.
Now there is a group that require assistance with continuing a healthy sexual experience. There are several reasons why men may require assistance; too numerous to go into here. These products are made form a firmer material to help maintain shape. But, more importantly, these products give the user, to some degree, hope. We find that those purchasing these products, truly are looking to please their partner, first. Pleasure is found form giving pleasure to others."

It should be noted that the 100prosthetics and RxSleeve offer different concept in products.
Looking through the sites, the 100prosthetics company offers 100 different models.
Literally there are 100 "real" men penises modeled. One would wear the product with ones testicles in a silicone loop. The RxSleeve models all have a hole down the center.
Their products are of the hollow strapon type. The difference is that they offer a "large" variety of sizes.
The hollow hole size can also be customized.