Important watcing questions. Help!

FIrst of all we are pretty new and inexperianced to this lifestyle, We talked and fantasized about it for the last few years. She finally went through with it last April while she was out of town. She then got together with him a couple of weeks later when he came through out town, a week after that she hooked up for a one nighter for her first BBC, (never got his name or number . After that we went through a long dry spell. At the beginning of November she was out with friends and hooked up with a guy who she has been having sex with about once a week and going over to his place to suck his dick about once a week on her lunch break.

Fast forward , to last week when the first guy came back through town, she met up with him and sucked his fat cock in his car. Next day she went over to the guy in town's place and gave him a blowjob. New years eve we went for dinner and then out. We met up with a very good friend of ours and the three of us went home together. I have been trying to get them together for a couple of years, hes single and is well known for pleasuring the ladies with his long thick cock. We had a couple of takes, one thing led to another and when i came back in the room they were on the couch together and my beautiful , hotwife was sucking his cock. I stayed a ways back and let them have their space , but they knew that I was watching,( first time for that!!!!) I coulc not help myself and I pulled out my little dick and started stroking it, ended up shooting my load very quickly. I went to clean up and when I came back my wife was stripped down to her panties. She was still blowing him, ( you should know it is that time of the month that is why she was only doing blowjobs for the last couple of days) . Then someting happened that I didn't anticipate , my wife motioned for me to leave. I went to our bedroom and sulked. I came out after a while because i could still here them going at it. They were also making out which was something that I wasn't sure that I would be able to handle very well, but I did, it was hot. I was peeking, so I left again so I would not get caught looking. They moved to another room and i guess he ended up spraying his cum all over her tits. I was a little emotional but all in all felt it went well. I got pissed about being motioned away, but she did it for him because he was having problems she said, with me watching.

The next day she invited him to come over to give us both blowjobs. He came over and it was a fun time obviously she concentrated on him, which is exactly what I want. It was very surreal being that close to her while she is sucking on someones cock, but I enjoyed it a lot!

Now the question that i have is am I ready to watch them have sex. I have never done that and always have wanted this to end up there, but am so worried about watching her recieve pleasure, the kind that I can't give her. Even though the pleasure is exactly what I want her to recieve. He is well known for giving women explosive orgasms. I want this to be right for her and I dont want her to be concerned about how I am feeling at that moment. I may be involved, I may be watcing, if it becomes overwhelming can i leave for a while and come back?


SHOULD I WATCH?????

p.s. It's planned for this Saturday.

Psychological experiments have proven that if a permister knows something dramatic is happening but do not get to see it, it causes much more stress than actually witnessing the event. I would watch it.

Thanks for the advice. Seems like a logical answer. I can either witness what is happening or I can guess what is happening. The anticipation is *******ing me!

My recommedation is that you should watch, there is nothing quite like seeing you wife raise her hips to take a good hard fucking from another guy. The sights and sounds are something that will stay with you for years. I've watched my wife lots of cock over the years starting with my (then) boss, one of our neighbours, several boyfriends in our bed, and at swinging clubs and enjoyed them all. The ones I have missed include her gangbang (her lover plus 13 others) and one guy with an 11 inch cock.

I am a cuckold wannabe - but if it was me i would definitely watch and jack off as many times as i could.

Take the chance to watch. My wife cuckolded me for about a year. I never got to watch. It is something that I am wanting so very bad to see...my wife pleasured before me. I agree a lot with Ted on this. We are visual creatures...and to see it happen...well, its something you should not pass up.

I talked once with a woman who wanted to cuckold her husband. Her idea was to do it alone and not tell her husband any details the first few times. She wanted her husband to go through the emotions of waiting at home and wondering what she was doing with her date. After the first few times she would start to tell him a few details afterwards. After a few more times with her new lover, she would increase the detail until it was very graphic. Then she would let her husband meet her lover when he picked her up for dates, maybe watching them kiss. She wanted to slowly increase what her husband saw until eeventually he was watching them fuck. She was a fun sweet lady to talk with.

So, my advice would be to wait. Enjoy the full range of excitement and emotions and extend the experience.

This is one of the reamisters it's good for the cuckold to be tied up so they see it all and it will be much more exciting when you can't masturbate.

You might even cum just from watching!

I watched last night! Unbelievable! Thanks for the great advice!

Congrats...care to share the details?

Please tell us all about it!

First off I want to start by telling you about the night that she had with her "Regular local boyfriend ". She went over to his place last Thursday night, and nhad sex with him twice. The first time he entered her from a position where she was laying on her side and she had one leg over his shoulder, she said that it felt amazing like that, and he gave her a strong orgasm. She says he has to cover her mouth at times because he makes her scream so loudly! He finished by her sucking him off over the top of her and cumming on her tits! Then they took a little break and she watched him play the drums a little bit. After a while she climbed on top of him in his drum chair and she fucked him like that once again she came REALLY HARD!!! Then she came home and told me all about it. What a life, I feel so very lucky to have a wife that decided to do this for me , and now we are both enjoying it so much. She gave me a great analogy last night two of her favorite foods are peanut butter and chocolate, I am the peanut butter which she cannot live without , they are all the chocolate which she can live without, but sure hopes that she doesn't have too. Peanut butter can meet and satisfy all of your needs, but chocolate now that stuff sure can bring Joy and satisfy in a way that peanut butter can't. I thought all of that was pretty cute!

Now on to Sat. Night.
That day I was a lot more nervous than she was for my first watching experiance. We went out just the two of us for a little while and were back home around 10 p.m. He came over shortly afterwards. It took a little while to get the ball rolling. Forgot to say that earlier in the week it was decided by the two of them that I would just be watching, not joining in, which is completely fine with me because thats what I want to do, watch her from vantage points that I obviously can't se when I am having sex with her, and also see and hear her experiancing pleasure. She eventually took control and took both our hands and brought us back to the bedroom. She had him stripped down immediately, she really likes his THICK cock, and can't wait to get it in her mouth, she really gives awesome blowjobs. She started sucking his cock with him on top of her, didn't take long for her panties to get torn off, and she put a condom on him and he entered her!!!! WOW! AWESOME! AMAZING! Their aren't enough adjectives to describe how beautiful it is to see her with her legs wrapped around someone and her ankles locked!!! Watching them kiss and how deep he was going , he would go in and then up she said after how great that felt. They went at it for awhile and then she rolled him over and got on top, it was so hott to see her grab his cock with both hands and guide him in. She was on top for a little while than he put her on the bottom again I could see her hand cupping under his balls, and after a while they both came together . It was all awesome. Then we went out and made a pizza and talked about all of it over a few takes. It could not have went any better. Thanks so mush for the great advice!

Fantastic...A big thanks to you and your wife for sharing this.

quote=Allen]Fantastic...A big thanks to you and your wife for sharing this.[/quote]

You are very welcome! It is awesome to be able to share it with others like myself who are able to understand the feelings we are going through. Thank you so much for your advice.

I love the analogy of pb and chocolate.

It must be exhilarating to see her pussy taking in a whole "two-hander!" I know that would cause me to blow my load.