You know your wife is cheating but she doesn't know you know......

...bump

That's what I did.
I left..., felt sick, angry, useless but horney as well....

maba

this makes you a real cuckold. but I would not feel horney in a case like this. This is right through being totally unfaithful. A marriage should be based on trust

Remember one thing. Women mostly always need a reamister to fuck. Men just need a place.

So you may ask yourself: what was her reamister? She was/is in love with this guy?
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Some wives get off on the thrill of the forbidden. My ex didn't want to relax around with my permission but she did so several times behind my back. She preferred the thrill and secrecy of an affair. It was hot for me when I eventually found out but don't assume the thrill of cheating is without it's own allure.

maba ... congratulations on becoming a true cuckold At least I think congratulations are in order.

I can understand what norwegian is saying but I think there may be other reamisters why she hasn't told you. Does your wife still love you, and do you still love her? If the answer is YES, then everything may not be as bad as norwegian seems to make it out to be. Women are sexual beings as well and there are times when they "just need a place," and no real compelling reamister too. These times are no where near as frequent as with guys since the consequences for women doing the nasty deed are greater (have you ever worried about getting pregnant?).

The first reamister that came to my mind for why she hasn't told you is she may be afraid of losing you. How about that? She may love you so much that she is afraid of losing you if you found out about her cheating. Have you ever told her, even in subtle messages that it would be ok for her to hook up with other guys? If you're like me, you haven't done that for fear of scaring her off by your bizarre and perverted fantasies (ok, their my bizarre, demented and perverted fantasies).

So if you tell her that you fantasize about seeing her fucking other guys maybe should would open up and let you in on her secret. Permisterally, I'm not sure what I would find hotter and make me more horny - knowing that my wife is fucking around but she doesn't know that I know (of course I'd want some way of keeping up with her sexual escapades) -or- she does it in front of me with the offense that would surely ensue.

pastnfuture makes a good point as well of the thrill of possibly being caught being exciting for the wife, just like the thrill of watching our wives' fucking other guys or strangers seeing our wives nude without them knowing about it is exciting to us.

Sorry for the misunderstanding.
All is in the past....., but I have been there.
By the way the reamister we broke had nothing to do with the lifestyle.

I am not the type to write stories on this forum.
That's the reamister I ask for contact by using PM.
So, if you think your wife is cheating or you're for sure drop me a PM.

Greetings,

Maba

This happened to me and I found it a real turn on. The guy who was fucking her used to tell me all about it, which really got me off. That was 20 years ago and she still doesn't know I knew.

That is certainly true for my wife. She cheated not long after we were married and had a series of affairs up until it all came out in the open. We then agreed that she could have lovers so long as she told me all the details. This worked well at first until I started getting the impression she was not telling me every time she was with another guy. I confronted her with this and she admitted that she loved the "naughty" aspect of cheating. After going back and forth on this subject for several months we agreed on a "don't ask, don't tell" policy.

Since then, she normally tells me before and after her trysts but occasionally she will carry on an affair with a new guy that I am totally unaware of. I've grown to really like this aspect and it makes her routine trips to the store, or to the gym more exciting for me as I imagine all sorts of erotic thoughts. My wife likes it too, as I am always willing to go down on her when she gets home hoping I might be treated to a creampie. Although not as often as I might like, there are times when I can taste the fruits of her tryst but as we have agreed I don't ask any questions and she doesn't tell me any details.

This works for us, but I think you need to be very secure in your marriage.