New cuck in seattle

This is definitely a true situation....
I have been talking with my girlfriend for sometime now about it but she isnt sure, but at times agreed, but then disagreed. I know she will do it but it has to be a right situation, I was wondering if someone in the area would like to help me set her up for it? Something not obvious, we will both plan it for her, but the thing is it will be between you and me. She is a white female, nice fit body, and she is a slut at heart. Please someone in the Western Washington area please help me, help me come up with some scenarios to make this happen.
Thanks again

I'd be happy to....perhaps we could do the same thing w/ my girlfriend. I have some ideas and would like to talk with you about them.

You are in a pretty good place to make this work well. You might have figured out that the on-line community, craigslist posters, etc. associated with the cuckolding fetish contains a lot of time-wasters and odd-balls (no offense; I'm sure none of us fit that description!). Seattle seems to be an exception. I go there often and know what sorts of folks are round town. There is an absolute ton of positive-attitude swinging, polyamory and cuckolding related people in that city! Must be something in the water. Anyway, I think you are best off going through some local community contacts rather than a global web contact like cuckoldplace. Check out the permisterals in The Stranger. Check out web sites related to other kinky communities (Bi; swingers; etc.). You will find your crowd. Good luck and let us know how it works out.
darslangly

i live in seattle, i'm in my mid 20's, athleticly build male. if you want we can chat.

You can do that if you want to. But I have to say that I think it's a really bad idea. For more reamisters than one.

First, if she EVER discovers that you've set her up, you're screwed, and not in a good way. Toast. If you EVER mention it, even after a few beers, or (insert recreational have of choice here) you are just dogmeat.

Second, think about what it does to the kick you would get from her doing it. You want her to try it out, that will be hot for you regardless. But it takes the edge off it. Whether or not she would have done it herself, you'll always have in the back of your head that she might not have done it except for you having set it up for her. You'll always be thinking that maybe she wouldn't have, except for your deception.

Third, it speaks poorly of the level of trust that you want in your relationship with her. This is pretty heavy stuff for you to be discussing with her, and if you're going to deceive her about something important, then perhaps you don't have a sufficiently intimate relationship with her to be trying out stuff of this magnitude.

Now, let's go back to the most important one that came first. You may not be old enough to have watched the movie Dirty Dancing. You might want to go rent it--it's a classic in its own right. In it, the guy sets up the success of his girlfriend in a dancing career. That's right, he goes behind her back to line it up. She succeeds, she's thrilled. But when she discovers that the success that she thought she earned on her own was his underhanded doing... OMG, you just do NOT want to find yourself in those shoes.

My opinion is that you should spend your time and energy on getting her to a.) want to do it on her own, and b.) think that it's her own idea.

I know you want it more than just about anything. But if her head's in the right place, it'll happen. And if her head is not in that space, you'll be better off spending your energy to get her there, instead of going behind her back to try to make it happen.

Oh, and by the way, if the guy you line up to set her up with ever opens HIS mouth? Same result, buster.

So just don't do it.

xoxoxo

Christine

do you mean Flashdance?

I didn't actually get the impression that he wanted to set her up without her knowing at all. RE-reading the post, it seems ambiguous to me.
darslangly

MIke, I think you're right, it might have been Flashdance. (Thanks!)

Dars: What he said was, "Something not obvious, we will both plan it for her, but the thing is it will be between you and me."

You can draw your own conclusion, I have.

xoxoxo

Christine

The statement is a grammatical mess and could mean almost anything.
darslangly