Need advice, may bring cuckoldry into relationship

This is a legitimate question, and I know that this board will probably be for me starting it because its their fetish but I really would like some logical, sound advice on this.

Cuckoldry has been one of my top fetishes for a few years now and I have had a girlfriend join in in the past with the fantasy. I wasnt so much into the girl, so it was a safe way to expiriment with the fantasy while still enjoying it.

Im starting a new relationship and were going over terms and conditions right now (lol). She is a free spirit and enjoys casual sex, has been worryed and doesnt see sex as an emotional type thing. I have told her about this particular fantasy and it seems like itd be a match made in heaven.

Im worried though, that this would end up consuming the relationship and ultimately my life... like its a hot idea but im not sure on dealing wtih this on a day to day basis. I get jealous just like anyone else.

Can anyone give me advice on how to handle this situation? The girl has let me know that if I want her to stop and be committed she would. At the same time, I dont necessarily want to be committed and itd be unfair to not let her do the same thing. Should i maybe say its ok for her to do things if I give it the ok first? and if it becomes a problem end the expirimenting?

Dave, to be honest it is something that you can take to whichever degree you feel is right for you. It sounds like you are both happy to be open and honest but also committed. Why don't you have a one night shot and see how you feel in the morning? I would say sit with her and explore your fantasies in terms of what you both find as turn ons. You can then try to find the right permister(s) to share it with, perhaps creating the right kind of scene to fully engage them and...hopefully enjoy it. Also by doing it together you will be able to decide how it makes you feel before either of you do it outside of the relationship.

Hope that helps

You can test the waters and see how it goes...like Nicholas said there are many different degrees and we all have to see where we fit in and what our individual level of comfort is.
The jealousy issue in my case was overcome by the erotic feelings that I get when we practice cuckoldry...while one part of my brain wants to be jealous, there is another part, much more potent that wants more and more to see my woman being made love to. Just the thought of it makes me incredibly hard, and I know that a hard on like I get when I see my wife with another cannot be a bad thing...so I say 'to hell with the jealousy...let me enjoy the moment!'.
The ultimate test is when you can allow her to go out on a date and you wait for her to return so you can lick her freshly fucked pussy...once you have eaten her cream pie you will have been thoroughly inductrinated and you will never want to go back to the jealousy issues. Try and you will see!