New to all of this.....

I am a 24yr old married man with a 21yr old wife... I would love to see her get pounded by a guy or to have a MFM.. I am bi and would love to help her with the bull. but i am not sure how to get her interested.. I have told her it is ok for her to fuck other men, as long as she comes home right afterwards so i can have her, or she can just do him while i watch or help.. she says this confuses her since she cant imagine me with another woman, which i dont care about that much... Of course i would love to have a ffm with her or just watch her with woman. but my main interest is seeing/ helping her with a male.. can anyone help??? Im in the Phx az area.. Thanks in advance

can ANYONE give me some advice?? location is not an issue..

Hello friend and I think we are in the same club. Hopefully even sex with our mate is a growing process kinda of! Been married 45 years, and I started trying to get my lovely wife to have sex with other men. That's all I think about daily for all these years. I have tried to arrange it many times, and anticipated it on many trips and going to bars and clubs. Encourage her to dance and makeout with other men. Got to the point that was the only way I could get off or perform at all was think about her being active fucking other men. But she said no! Won't do it. Over the same time she has had several men and affairs. Some now I know about and some she won't admitt unless she can't lie anymore. But she still acts like she's a virgin, nieve, and don't want me to try to talk about sex. I consider myself bisexual, and have had some relations with men. Not to her knowledge, but suspicion. I've came to the conclusion that as bisexual the other man in my fantasy's reveals bisexual on my part, and a desire to have her satisfied by a man (hetrosexual to her). As bisexual I am working my way through these experiences if they ever move from fantasy to reality to mainly homosexual sex, knowing she is getting satisfied, and I'm being satisfied by both, if that's what I need. But as time goes on, I have less sexual contact for her and nearly intercourse is none. Happy, and in love. I think we are. I am!

Well I'm still going slow but nothing has happened. I actually know she has fucked four or five of my best friends, her old boyfriende before me and who knows else. But she denies it. I beg her to share some of her experiences, the size of ther dicks, where did they meet and etc. I still don't know how she ever had the time to fuck any of them. She has actually lived a double life. I beg her to let me be a part of that part of her life and continue with me being present. We have no sex now for the last few years. I'm impotent which is very frustrating. Does anyone have any suggestions?

Did you really think that Merge has been monitoring this thread for the past 7 years?

Yes take it slow and perhaps raise the subject again in a week or two etc. It gets down to how well you know your wife and how solid your realationship is to raise the subject.

I know with my wife her initial reaction was not one of disgust but of suprise and she didn't freak out, which is what I envisaged. She said she didn't know if she could explore it and I know it took time with me raising it periodically. She could see that it wasn't a "test" or a scam for me to have someone on the side.
Here I am 9 months after an initial first play with another guy and she has now had sex with seven other guys on 33 different occasions and our relationship is close as it ever has been. My story has been a successful one though there are no doubt other experiences where the opposite has happened..