Falling in love again?

Exactly.


Also, in the regular world wives don't leave their husbands because they love someone else. They leave their husbands because they love someone else, and they can't be with them while married. Or, they don't love their husbands anymore.

In this world, if she can be with two men that she loves, there's no way she's going to leave that situation.
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Nothing much to update about. They are steady and solid, and we are also steady and solid (in our own way).

She's over the initial rush of new relationship energy, and they've settled into a pretty comfortable pattern of spending the night together twice during the week and once on the weekends. It's cute to watch her pack her little overnight bag for weekday "date nights" with clothes for work the next day. I get a kiss goodbye, and then she's off for the evening.

She'll sometimes text me or call if she can't relax, otherwise I see her again after work the next day, and she'll catch me up on what they did. She doesn't "talk dirty" to me, but she knows how much I like to hear about her sex life and her feelings, so those updates often end up with me getting off. That, for me, is a pretty awesome experience, and well worth the complications involved in managing this secret.

Last Thursday, we were out for dinner with some friends, and without any warning she smiled, leaned over and whispered to me "I'm really sore form my date last night." I almost fetishd, and must have turned beet-red from embarrassment and excitement. She went on with the conversation as if nothing had happened, but I couldn't concentrate at all for the rest of the evening. We both cracked up as soon as we had said our goodbyes. Did I mention she's got a wicked sense of humor? Love that gal!

It sounds delightful for all concerned rdvrk. Thanks for keeping us in the loop!
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No, it just happens.

ah well people are people we all love what feels good physical and emotional...my wife knows I will always love my past babes shes more in love with her past lovers peckers...wifey..haha..shes hot..to damn jealous though cause I feel...word of advice to the (hate this word) "cucks" keep the cuck crap in the bedroom(this from more than one womans advice) if you let it take over outside of sex you will have high chance of losing your life partner...if they are so hot you would be pleasured by them being with someone else then they are worth fighting 4...keep that hot girl at all costs...kick the other dudes ass if he gets out of line..or try at least...trying will keep her...chics give up on you if you just give em away..LOVE = at least possibility of LIFE PARTNER....show em you love em more...keep your wives...all just my opinion...just posted here cause the "love" thing ...and no Im not perfect still cant get wifey to quit being jealous when it comes to other chics could use some advice there???? she says I talk to much cuckolds brownie..lol???pillow talk is good...oh and yes Ive let her have boyfriends so Ive been down this road..lol..anyways

RDVRK: Thank you for sharing your situation with us. I think it is very true that woman can be "in love" with two (or maybe more) men. My wife loves me as her "soul mate" although she has no sexual interest in me at all. We both need each other for companionship. But, she is in love with her current lover as her "sex mate." We've been through her relationships with other men before and we know the challenges it can create. In our situation, we do not want her relationship with her lover to break up our marriage. I have learned to greatly enjoy preparing her for her dates and hearing all about it when she is back home.

The risk, in our experience, seems to come from the other guy. If a lover falls in love with your wife, he may want to steal her away from you. I think a lot of women enjoy having two men (husband and lover) lusting for her, pampering and spoiling her. The lover must accept the husband as part of the package. That's the tough part of cuckolding because so many men can't handle "his woman" being married.

My wife's lover has not moved in with us, but he's here a lot. He seems to fit in with us very well. The possibility of him moving in is very real right now. My wife is thrilled with the idea of two husbands. So, good luck in your situation. I am anxious to hear how it unfolds.

marcus

Hi Again rdvrk and thanx for your interest in our situation.

My wife has been cuckolding me for a number of years while feminizing me to make me more "unmanly" and boost her desire for other men.
The past 2 ½ years she has had a steady boyfriend that she meets approx 3 times a month. They always book into luxury hotels for their dates and have even goneaway together on a weekend trip.
He is "larger where it needs to be" and treats her like a real lady.
The danger part however is that he is VERY wealthy, and has already told her he loves her and wants to spend the rest of his life with her etc..
He has bought her many VERY expensive gifts and continues to do so.

The thought of my gorgeous sexy wife "falling for him too" drives me crazy. It is an incredibly sexy thought and sensation to know think that your own wife is letting herself fall in love with another man.
She asked me "is that what you want ?" and I answered YES !!!
It scares the hell out of me, yet it is mind blowingly exciting too.

I am not allowed inside of my wife anymore and i am not allowed blow jobs anymore either as I agreed that she should deny me both.
If I am EVER allowed inside of her ever again we have agreed that I should have to pay for it each time ( and a large amount that I probably cant afford ).

What happens if she falls in love with him and becomes accustomed to his lavish lifestyle and presents etc.. ? I guess I will have to wait and see.....
but along the way it is incredibly exciting.
Its weird...I actually WANT to be hurt by her.

Well, it looks like she is breaking up with her boyfriend, so our happy situation is coming to a close. It's very amicable, with no hard feelings, but still a little sad for her. She has said that she wants to stay "single" for a while, and not jump into dating again. We'll see how it all plays out.

Maybe you should lit her be 'single' . If she is staying with him 2 3 4 nights with him that gives you enough time to pay the bills and buy the cloths that she wears for the guys that she 'loves'. Once she finds the right guy and she spends 4 5 6 days with him and gives you 1 day what will you have left. If she will not tell you what they did together then you are not part of her life you are just a guy to put her up till she can find her true love which you don't seem to be. I went through the same thing with my first wife. Said she loved me but wanted to fuck others and she did . Then she stopped telling me what was going on in her life as though it was a secret. Then she spent more time with him than me. Still told me she loved me, the next day I came home from work and found an empty house and bank account. Two months later she called me back to say she was sorry and could she come back. Turns out she was fucking around on her boy friend an he kicked her out on her ass. I thought it was cool that he took her from me and never thought she would fuck around on him. Haven't heard from her in years.
neohbi

Neohbi, not sure who you're responding to here. If it's me, she broke up with her boyfriend and is at home with me full-time now, so no danger of her leaving me for him. Maybe it's Mike, in which case it sounds like her leaving him might be just what he wants (if I'm understanding you correctly, Mike?).

Yes I was responding to you. All together I was married for almost 28years [2 wives ] and I was cucked for most of it. My first wife never stayed over night with any of the guys that she was FUCKING. Never once did she ever say that she love any one but me. The first time she cheated on me we were in high school second time she cheated on me we were married and lied about it we talked and I told her that I understand that see would like to get a good fucking more than I could give her. Seven years later she had an affair with her boss and lied about. That was more than fucking two months later we were divorced. Almost the same thing with my second wife but I don't think I want to take the time to write about 22 years of being cucked right now.
Sex is some thing that does not take days. Go out fuck come home to the ONE that you love. If you don't love the husband at home and you love the guy thats fucking you or making love to you then stay with him, let your husband find a woman that loves him for what he is. Fucking a guy and making love to some one that you love thats not your husband is two different things. I guess what I am trying to say I truly believe that those that play together stay together.
I am one that has a hard time writing what I am thinking some times it does not come out right.
Is this one any better. If I sound bitter, maybe I am after my wife passed away in 07 its given me a lot of time to think about what she had done to our marriage and our kids. javascript:paste_strinL('',3,'','','')
neohbi

Uh, okay.

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The wife has decided she's ready to start dating again. She's looking for a long-term steady boyfriend who she can have a serious relationship with. I hope that she finds someone she can connect with.

We are talking about whether it's time for her to look for someone to be her full-time boyfriend, and for us to officially become just friends. She's not sure what she wants here, and neither am I. On the one hand, I love her dearly, and want us to be together as much as possible. On the other hand, I know we have drifted over the last few years further and further away from being a couple in the true sense, and now we are much more like best friends than husband and wife. I feel very secure that we love each other now and that we will continue to love each other in our own way, but that maybe it's best for both of us to stop being a couple.

I know this sounds kind of sad, but I'm actually feeling very calm and warm about it either way. Maybe we will end up deciding to stay married after all, who knows? We'll see what comes up.

rdvrk, your last comment was almost a year ago. Where did you go? What happened? I hope all are ok. Cheers, mjb0007bond

Oh, hi. I've been lurking every now & then, but haven't had anything interesting to post for a long time, so haven't posted.

We are still married and still living together, but now it's a purely platonic relationship. We have not had sex of any kind since my last check-in here. We no longer masturbate together, as she has said that she prefers privacy when she does that.

She has dated a number of guys casually, but hasn't had a really serious boyfriend for over a year. She's been very communicative about what's going on when she's dating someone, and she's definitely open to finding someone permanent and full-time. If that happens, we'll formally split up, but until/unless she meets that special guy, we're planning on staying together as friends.

So, that's where we are: still technically married, but definitely no longer a sexual relationship.