please explain what moticates someone to be a cuckold

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howie sherman

Its just what turns you on. What "motivates" someone to be gay?

in my case, illness meant I could no longer perform sexually in our marriage and after watching my beautiful partner becoming more and more frustrated just looking after me like a nurse would....I could take it no longer.

I suggested she look elsewhere, purely for her own release. It took nearly a year but eventually she realized that I was talking out of love and respect for her and that our relationship was based on trust and that she could find physical release with other people and that I would be happy for her if she could.

in the years since then she has had thousands of partners, several long-term lovers as well, even what some would call marriages to other men and women. our friends came to know of our arrangement and those that could not handle it, drifted away. But in the long run, I have no doubt that I am still alive today because she found happiness and release through her amazing sexuality, and I gain great solace in knowing that as a cuckold I play some small part in it.

sex is fun, sex is the greatest healer in the universe, however we do it in any form of relationship, I believe we should support anyones right to enjoy sex (providing it does not endanger others or include youngren)

Thats just my story....doesn't know if it answers your question, its just one man's tale.

Fetish Cuckolding is a species of S&M and what motivates sadomasochism is a very big debate. As a lifestyle cuckold-fetishist and general sexual subby, I have found eminent psyche scholar Roy Baumeister to most convincingly explain it. (Try his book ‘Masochism and the Self’.)

To me, Fetish Cuckolding allows men to eroticize their fears about a set of concerns related to living up to what it means to “be a man,” including and especially anxiety about the competition for female affection. Eroticizing fear is a way of engaging it and undermining its power. Engaging in Fetish Cuckolding relieves the fetishist of a lot of psychic pressure and performance anxiety as a result.

Does that help?
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Cuckold has many levels we think........

We enjoy the femine side as I luv Girly boys..........

And to really basic we honest to enjoy physically a new man every so often is a great thing..........Noel just luvs the look on my face ..........to him its all voyuer..

For me I love strong men but also soft women, Jess is very submissive and does not turn me on as a man, and the fact Jess has a strong liking for all things femm like lingerie, slothes, lotions and perfumes, It was a natural choice that I femme Jess further with hormones and love her as a sissy and take lovers to fill my needs I have for a real man. Jess is bisexual and loves having the chance to suck men for me and eat their cum, I am also bisexual and just love having a girlfriend around 24/7 to share girl stuff with. Jess and I are best girlfriends andthis arrangement has led our marriage into new worlds of love, respect, and happiness. What more motivation would a couple need... Hope you find the answers you seek... Jeanne
I have finally decided to take control (total) and have sissy in panties daily lock sissy in her CB 6000s for good. No more feeling sorry after a few weeks and no more giving into her pleas for mercy! Welcome the NEW MISTRESS!

My story begins with my ex.. you see I had jealousy and paranoia issues which consumed me and the relationship.. when browsing the net i discovered cuckolding and found i could turn my problem into something good and i realised that my jelousy was what excited me so i made sure i let my feelings known at the start of my current relationship and now its happily ever after for both of us

Permisternally I got tired of being a dominant stud. I was cursed with a huge cock and dashingly handsome good looks and a dominant intimidating permisterality. I know that sounds like a good thing, but believe me it can be a burden over time - no one seeing my inner beauty.
So I recreated myself
Thats the truth

howie,
our situation is very similar to Jeanne and Jess: i.e. i'm very submissive and do not turn her on as a man.i have more sex toys than my wife (and most are bigger too...LOL). i like girly things, and really enjoy being my wife's best girlfriend.

unlike Jeanne and Jess, my wife keeps her lovelife with women (no men) totally separate and only tells me what she wants to. she still has a hard time with me as a 'femme' (sometimes wants her husband back), but does other things like buys me perfume, tells me which stores have sales on clothes, and asks me about prospective boyfriends....go figure...

we love each other very much, just not in the sexual sense. we are intimate in that 'girls best frind' find of way, but that's all...we even relax in separate bedrooms. i really like not being able to have sex with women anymore, but i LOVE pleasing my wife in all the other ways i can think of. If it wasn't for her denying me in the first place, i would have never really understood why i didn't feel 'like me'.

The flavors of being a cuckold are very numerous, and the reamisters for them are as well.
hope this helped!
kisses,
Karen

In my case the reamisters why are like to be cucked is:
1. I surely am masochist. I like this humiliating situation.
2. I'm quiet about put the responsibility for my wife's sexual life to another man.
3. I'm a tipical beta male. Reliable, caring, not too exciting. I accept that my wife instinctly choose alpha male to enjoy sex. She enjoys sex, I enjoy the family. Everybody is satisfied.
4. I find it exciting to know that her cunt constantly contains her lover's sperm and she can be pregnant anytime. First I decided that I wear condom but nowadays she holds on to this too. It's about two and a half year when she get my sperm into her pussy.

It's excitng a home imagining her taking her boyfriends cock in her, wondering how loud she is moaning. That is, when I know she's with him (sometimes it's even more exciting when I find out much later)

It's the intoxicating musty smell of her cum soaked pussy and panties when we crawl into bed within a few hours of her getting home. I lift the covers after we get warm and the scent confirms what I already know (and a finger pressed lightly against her panty feels moist)

It's the maddening yet exhilirating thoughts that the cum I taste and feel as I enter her is not mine, but some better hung boyfriend or another who she lets fuck her one or twice a week bareback. Thinking of a man's juices and sprerm entering her vagina and womb, unprotected, possibly impregnating her.

It's being dominated from time to time by my beautiful wife who I love and she loves me, yet hearing her tell me as I glide into the slick semen filled cunt and feel her pussy embace my dick

- how hard her boyfriend was - how much he came in her with his balls pressed against her ass how he can come in her but I can't - telling me how much I like it that other men fuck her, how much she loves cock of all shapes and sizes - how sometimes she can feel their dick's pulse when they cum - that I had better fuck her good and pump out all that cum in case something should happen tomorrow...clean me up baby

Thats what is is for me

I would like to hear from others, but i agree a lot with orban victoria. It is putting another man in charge of your wifes sexual life and the enjoyment of the offense.

In my case I just want the total thrill that would come from seeing her fucked and used like a slut. It's not the offense but the pleasure I would get from seeing my wife fucking someone she did not love just so she could get off. I want to see another man get hard for her, I want to see his dick go from flaccid to hard at the sight of my naked wife preparing to fuck him. Pure and simple lust . Because I want to see it all I guess I am more into the idea of sharing her than just being cucked. I want to take turns with this guy with my wife.