What is with the whole BIG BLACK COCK thing? - Page 2

Of course you find racism where you look for it. And I also find it frustrating where one can't say anything due to worrying about stumbling over words. That's a real problem and it makes racial issues even more difficult to talk about. It makes it difficult for white people to talk to people of other ethnicities in general because just the act of talking may cause them embarrassment due to an accidental meaning implied. But, with the cultural concept of big black cock, you don't have to look very hard to find racism. We're not talking about a couple of semantic misunderstandings, accidentally turning words around, or something said quickly without enough time to think the sentence through.

And yes, the term African American, European American, etc. is pretty annoying and cumbersome. But when I pointed to the phrase 'Big African American Cock' I wasn't criticizing people for not using that term, I'm just saying it's interesting where the norms of using these words are. Although cumbersome, culturally that is the norm (in U.S. obviously). What that norm is about is an attempt to find a non-derogatory term for ethnicities. But suddenly with this particular sexual direction that suddenly disappears. The reamister: Symbolically, it wouldn't be as exciting for an African American guy to have sex with your wife. Of course it's not African American cock. That wouldn't be exciting because the symbolism is different. And that clearly points to how the sexual energy around the idea of Big Black Cock is about what it means to be black in mainstream culture and having that meaning, that symbol, fuck the white girl (and she enjoys it).

I'm not trying to criticize people who enjoy that direction of sexuality. You can't decide what you like. If it turns you on, it turns you on, and that's that. Repressing that wouldn't be a good idea. Just don't claim this is somehow about seeing 'black' men as a good power in this world. The fantasy is linked to a concept of something dark/evil/dangerous tempting your wife and she enjoys indulging... regardless of all your good qualities she can't help herself and finds she prefers to succumb to this power. Unfortunately, the cultural symbol of the evil/dangerous power is a black man. If that cultural identity and symbolism was not there, the cuckold fantasy/lifestyle would not be directed towards race. Another set of symbols would be there. Historically, as seen in art and literature, previous symbols of danger have included things like demons, vampires, poor working man, criminals, etc., and previously other ethnicities of lower socio-economic status (for example, Italian mafia at one point of American history). Modern western mainstream culture has the symbol of black man. I just get frustrated that this is all over the place. It's difficult to find cuckold themes that are not about race.
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