How do you get your wife to take the final step?

It sounds like you are on the right track. Be patient and encouraging of her flirting with other men. I would suggest affirmative behavior on your part. For instance, whenever you see her flirt with another man give her lots of oral sex as soon as you get home. Be direct as possible as soon as you get in the door. Really go at it and make sure that she cums, more than once. BUT do NOT have intercourse with her. Instead you should jerk off and cum on her. I think cumming on her feet would be best (shows subservience), then clean her. It is of the UPMOST IMPORTANCE that you leave her hungry for cock - no toys inserted either. If she wants more sex, keep giving her oral sex until she can't take any more. Cuddle and be loving afterwards, reaffirming your love for her.

By doing this you will build the connection in her mind that when she openly flirts with other men you become obsessed with orally pleasing her. So she will begin to attach her orgasms to flirting with other men, very important! But by not giving her cock (or toys), you leave her pussy yearning to be filled. And believe me, the more that you leave her pussy yearning the sooner she will need a throbbing cock and eventually she will be tempted beyond her inhibitions.

It is important that your wife be as comfortable as possible with the other man, and I think it best to give her as much latitude as possible in her choice of a lover. Let her take control when it comes to which man she might give in to. Perhaps you could have a dinner party with her friend's husband and all take too much wine. Of course you don't want them to drive home, so suggest that they could spend the night. If the chemistry is just right . . .

There are several upsides to this possibility. First, he is already flirting with your wife and keeping it from his wife, so that is a good sign. Second, since he is married he probably won't become obtrusively obsessive outside of the bedroom, which is a good thing. Third, since his wife is a friend of your wife and knows you your wife's lovers wife probably won't be suspicious of her husband spending time at your house. Fourth, and not least, since he is married (and presumably has been faithful to his wife until now) it could reduce the likelihood of STD's (I know - no one wants to think about it but we ALL MUST) leading to the possibility to eventually allowing him bare back with a relative sense of safety.

You make a good point about subservience at this point. You are completely right that one should wait to bring other elements into play. I do think that incorporating cumming outside of her is worth bringing into the fantasy as they play. Patience is always the key (just like you said), and let her take control. Be supportive and affirmative in actions and words, but let her take the next step when she is ready.

I believe that the best way (and only way really) is by being supportive and patient. Never try to rush the situation - facilitate but not push.



I can't say enough for this part of things. She is going to want a nice hard cock even though she is getting her orgasms. But make sure to use this idea in along with affirmative use of orally rewarding her every time that she flirts with another man. You really want to be as supportive of her flirtations as possible. However, you want to limit her satisfaction to orgasms but not penetration. Satisfy her, but leave her yearning for more.

I am a cuck. As far as this particular advice, remember that the key is constant encouragement of her flirtations with other men through the positive reinpowerment of giving her oral sex. You really want to develop a connection in her mind that flirting with other men equates to you satisfying her to exhaustion sexually, while still not fulfilling her yearning to fill the void between her legs. The most important thing is to be supportive of her. I think many men that want to be cucks try to push their woman into it, and that is a huge mistake. Remember she has to be ready and even if you are already in heat to be cucked, you need to be patient. She should never feel pressure, yet always feel your support.

I have been lucky enough to have been cuckolded by a wonderful sexy woman in real life just once. Alas we cucks choose a hard road, LOL!! I don't know why it is so hard to get a woman to try the lifestyle. But having been to the promised land I can tell you that it is worth all the effort!!! I was able to come out to my cuckoldress before I had intercourse with her. And yes, I did insist on satisfying her orally. I did cum on her and never inside. In fact I never was inside her sweet pussy. I was so lucky that I was able to come out before we were intimate!! I really think that is the way it should be, ideally. By coming out before intercourse, we were able to avoid that connection. Therefore, it made her cuckolding that much easier!

I don't want to get into all the details because they are private, but once cuckolded the cuck always yearns for his cuckoldress. If you want to read more details check the Stories section for my story "Maureen, my Queen of Spades". The names are (obviously) changed and it got cut off at the end, but most of it is there. You might find it interesting.