afwmisom
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Let it unfold naturally. If you are like many, you will probably not act on it soon, but you probably will at some point. It also may be not be acted on with your present girlfriend, but a future girlfriend or your wife. I developed the same feelings at the same age, but it was many relationships later before it became real.
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SalP
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#4 · Edited by: SalP
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In general, but I would think it may be easier to get a girlfriend to do it compared to a wife. Wives may be more concerned that it could damage their marriages, especially if there are kids/house etc. Also a girlfriend may be more used to doing other guys , compared to a wife whose been married for awhile.
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MrsBlackBlowupDoll
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I agree with much of the advice given here, but I want to add something very important: Talk to her about it.
No woman with integrity will cuckold you if she doesn't have some inkling that it is OK with you. Here is what I suggest: When the two of you are feeling intimate, quiet and private, ask her what her naughtiest, deepest, darkest sexual fantasies are.
If she shares them, be open and supportive, not negative, grossed out, threatened or judgmental. Than share your own back and pretty soon you guys will be talking on this deep intimate level and you can tell her all you cuckold fantasies (which may or may not be your deepest.)
IF she balks and is too shy to share the deepest fantasy DON'T PRESS, shift gears and ask for her favorite, or ANY sexual fantasy. Respond by sharing yours. Be careful about overwhelming her with a deeply twisted cuckold story if hers was no where near that intense. You may want to start with something smaller.
The main thing is to get the two of you talking honestly about what turns you on. This will not only allow you to bring up cuckolding more safely, it also increases the general intimacy and trust in the relationship - which is critical to getting her to cuckold.
One last thought on this point: There are different ways to talk about cuckolding. If she would respond better, you might want to start more with the message of "I want you to have a great sex lie and get what I can't give you," rather than "I want you to own and deny me and rip my manhood from me." Of course, it depends on what turns HER on.
Good luck. Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.
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