Cuck and Bull Etiquette

Question that is nagging me. My wife and met a guy through one of the adult dating sights. Met once for takes and after sometime he came over to our house and my wife showed him a good time. Sucked his big dick, licked balls was an all around slut. She fucked him twice, second time no condom and gave up that pussy. She enjoyed fucking him, didn't cum with him, but still had a good time.

That was Saturday. We haven't received a "Hey that was a great time . . ." kind of e-mail. Now, believe me my wife knows this isn't a romantic thing and we don't want it to be. But it would make her feel good about the whole thing, we are sort of newbies when it comes to the internet hookup and I like to encourage her in every way I can. She's asked a cpl of time if he's written ( I handle all the communications with guys she meets off the net) and I've had to tell her a cpl of times, "not yet."

I am beginning to get the feeling this guy is a bit of a dick - am I wrong here?

Welcome to the world of casual sex. There is no obligation on your or his part to call, write or otherwise communicate after the fact.

Would it be nice? Yes. Should you expect it? No. Should you feel bad about not getting it? No.

My wife and I have been through the same type of situation...and if your wife feels bad about it afterward then maybe you should slow down a bit...?

Perhaps it wasn't that great for him, and he simply want to let it go....

may be he is waiting and also feeling anxious for a follow up from you guys...

I've learned that if you are looking for a regular fuck buddy, you should be up front about it and then slowly get into have full on sex with the bulls. They seem to stick around longer that way.

Go out for takes a couple times, then limit it to a blowjob at first. Then takes again, then go home for a fuck. And then have your wife send him a note a couple days later and then set up another meetings.

He probably feels goofy because she's married. He doesn't know if he should write to her or not.

Just send him an email and set up another meeting and all go out for takes and talk about things openly. Just lay the cards out on the table so everyone knows where they stand.

I don't think your wrong , to expect a simple e-mail ' thank you ', after shareing your wife with another man . He is a jerk off . He enjoyed himself , the old saying , " the worst I ever had , was terrific ." I have shared many men's wives , and have always felt , a ' Thank you , for a great time ' , was the least I could say , for what I received . Don't feel bad , for his stupidity ...........LATTER

Hey thanks for the responses -

He did eventually send a nice message. He also mentioned that he felt a little embarrassed because he had cum so quick and was late in sending us an e-mail.

Goes to show we never know what is going on in somebody else's head. My girl had a nice time with him - I think she's used to guys loosing it quickly on early encounters with her. And he is worrying about "his performance."

I think thank you's are like salutes in the military - "when in doubt, whip it out."

This bull is not in the habit of writing thank you's...But I do get some for hot wives....and cucks.