the last time i fucked my wife

Has been about 3 years for me. I am impotent and pills give me a very bad headache. She has experimented with other guys but done nothing for over a year. I have obtained a prescription penis pump and it lets me get hard. Now she has to decide is she wants to start having sex with me.

I was wondering if has cuckolds you get to a stage where you do not want either to fuck your wife.....but prefer wanking.....
warren

I certainly did get to that stage, well over a decade ago. Fucking her was work and it seldom was worth the effort. I did much better by hand - mine of course! Sad but true.
warren

Been about 18 months since I was last allowed inside my GF. With only being allowed to wank since we last f*cked when she does say I can f*ck her (rarely) I cannot even get hard enough to penetrate her. I can get a solid 4 inches when I wank myself but nothing when she offers herself so looks like I am now programmed to only get an erecton with my own hand.

i finally got to have sex again with my wife tonight. last time was aug 8, tonight is oct 16th so its been over 2months, we had a little party at our house so she was feeling good, i also was a little takes so i lasted a long time but i still didnt make her cum. she did say that she liked it really hard while i was fucking her which shes never said before. after we did it for a while she told me to pull out and she fucked herself with her vibrator and told me when she was close to enter her again, it took about 20 minutes for that to happen so there was no way i could have got her close by myself. even with vibrator i still didnt make her cum. it was soo hot watching her that i cam almost immediately the second time that i entered her, this i imagine would be the same if i ever watched her cuck me. id cum as soon as i got chance to be with her i bet.
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sissyjilly

I fucked my wife yesterday but I consider it a chore because it is hard for me to keep it up unless I rim her or do some other sort of warm up. If she just wants me to climb on and fuck her I will normally lose my erection after she comes unless it has been four or five days. I like to wank and she will rub one out with me. I will always make sure she cums first and when she is done I get her to squeeze my balls. she has gotten better at a***ing my balls so therefore my orgasms have gotten better from wanking. she is not into dishing out pain so it is very hard to get her to administer the proper pressure but any is better than none.
ShortSupply

im afraid oct 16th will be the last time i fuck my wife. she got emotinally involved with another. she says nothing happened physically but it made her question if she wants to stay married. were working on it but today is 2/3/11 and not only have we not had sex since 10/16 but theres been nothing. No kissing, caressing or anything. she says she has to figure out what she wants i knew sex life wasnt good but i didnt see this coming. were working on it and hopefully it will work out. if not than this may be my last post on this topic. i hope not. i hope i get to be with her again someday but it may be distant future.
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sissyjilly

Jilly, when a woman says that she wants to "figure out what she wants," she has already figured it out. She just doesn't want to tell you yet. That could be for a couple of real reamisters.

One possible reamister is that she is worried about what your reaction will be.

Another is that she isn't 100 percent certain that things will work out completely with the guy she's interested in.

I wish you the best.

bpop, i am afraid of that. for a while she thought she wanted out, more recently she has said she wants to work on it but still says she needs time for herself first, says shes empty inside and has to fill that up first then she can work on us but she seems open to it more so now
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sissyjilly

Hi I guess I have some kind of record; I have been maried for ten years and never did we have straight sex. She is not even the least bit loving. NO touching alowed.About once a year she will alow me to give her head, while she uses a vibrator on her clit. She will usually come two or three times then she will alow me to come with her finger up my ass. She also like to talk to her old boy friends while I clean the house , cook etc. then she says she is going out, where? I do not ask, but she comes home after several hours and usually critizes my work or some thing else that I have done or not done. She relaxs the the master bedroom and I relax elsewhere, usually in a small room near by. She will ofter relax with other men in our marital bed, but I am not allowed in the room until the next day if I am lucky.

Finally, last night at 1 am 3/21 my wife had sex with me again. I was shocked because not only did she have sex with me after over 5 months of no affection at all, but she initiated it all. It was great, only i as usual didnt last very long, cumming in less than 5 monutes and before she could, but she told me to get her vibrator and she proceeded to use it on her self as i kissed her and sucked her tits until she came. I thanked her and told her again today how much it meant to me that she was willing to once again have sex with me and she said it meant a lot to her to. we have beem getting along much better recently so hopefully this may be the start of a new beginning
Counting back, it is only the 33rd time in almost the last 7 years that she has had sex with me. i hope a new future will mean sex more often.
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sissyjilly

still no sex since mid march and that was only time since last mid october, i hope summer picks up as it has in past
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sissyjilly

I haven't had sex with my wife for over 16 years!!!! She told me back then that I had never given her an orgasm and that my penis was too small and that I cum too quick. We have stayed together as we have two youngren and wanted them to grow up in a stable family environment.
I haven't cheated on her and I don't believe she has cheated on me. She admitted that she has a non existent libido, but I've always wondered if that was because sex with me was so bad! My libido rages and if I don't have an orgasm every one or two days, I start climbing the walls.
For me, masturbating is the only form of sexual release I have. After so many years now of having a sexless relationship, I actually do think I prefer to masturbate than trying to have sex with my wife.

wow slimboyfat, that sounds a lot like my situation and i hope it doesnt come to that extreme, i hope my wife and i work things out and our sex life improves but i worry that my wife may just not feel sex is that important, she just doesnt seem very intersted in me in that way, she says she wants marriage to work and i know she wants it for kids but she also says she loves me. im trying to be patient but it is hard and frustrating. i have come to enjoy jerking off like u, but i am still hoping to have sex with her as well, but the long gaps with no sex doesnt help my performance, therefore reinfocing her lack of desire for sex with me im afraid.
it is very worrisome for me, any advice?
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sissyjilly

It has been 2 and half years. Feb 2009 to be exact.

Technically I am not cutoff but I was never that good of a lover and after she/we experimented with Real men she says if I can fuck her like a real man then I can fuck her but we both know I can't. So I don't.

All of that came after a year and a half relationship with a Real Man/Lover/Boyfriend/Bull.
Its me Tony. So if you think you are the man from Shannons past. I miss what we had! I hope your still seeing her and not missing a thing!

if you guys get thrilled at being denied sex by your wives for so long,
then it's your choice and enjoy away. otherwise, don't spoil the bitches.
everything has a limit. some women, just like some men, don't know
where the limit is. dump her or start fuck around.

fuzwood, thx for ur advice and i have considered that, but its easier said than done in my case, we have kids to consider and i am still hopeful we can work out our marriage and things may get better, but i would say there is a 50/50 chnace i may eventually have to consider what u say, i do not enjoy the denial, i love having sex and want to be with a woman that wants to be with me, i hope that will be my wife, but only time will tell right now, but we are working on things so maybe ill know soon.
thx again, be well
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sissyjilly

the drought is over, i finally had sex with my wife again last night (6/30). It was very good, i only lasted 3 minutes but it felt great to be inside her again and i hope it means maybe we'll enjoy sex more often again in the future, perhaps this is a step in the right direction as we try to re-build our marriage.
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sissyjilly

last night, aug 2, i had sex again with my wife. it was the 35th time in the last 7 yrs but the 3rd time this yr. we started by kissing and then i went down on her for a long time. i finally made her cum with my tongue. it has been a long time since she has cum she said. after that i crawled back up and fucked her for a few minutes before i cam in her. overall it was nice and she was happy that she got to have an orgasm.
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sissyjilly

last night, 10/8, i finally got to have sex with my wife again. the kids were away and she asked if i wanted to play around. of course i said yes but unfortunately i didnt do very well. we started off kissing and she was stroking my cock. i tried to slide down to lick her clit and she held me up like she didnt want me to. i made my way down anyways, she was already wet and swollen and excited. she had been out but i dont think shed ever be with anyone else yet, i licked her a while and then came back up and she guided my cock into her. i almost immediately cam and i pulled out a second then slide back into her, i stroked only about two times and then i did cum. it was so humiliating, not sure why i cam so fast. i always cum fast but this was faster than usual. it was humiliating. she said it was ok then she fucked herself with her rabbit dildo. after a while she asked me to go back down on her. it was fist time shes asked me to do that after i have cum in her, so i lick what was left of the creampie i gave her but most of it was gone from her dildo. after licking her a while she put the dildo back in until she cam. we went to dinner after that and it was a good night but i am still feeling a little humiliated today that i didnt perform better for her.
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sissyjilly

only 4 times in 2011 unless i get some tomorrow night which is doubtful, last time was 10/8 and counting
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sissyjilly

jilly, I'm pretty sure it has been more than 4 times this year, but not many more. Probably because she likes my tongue.

The last time was on Christmas, when I went down on her and then she gave me a hand job. Does that count?

Of course you don't last very long. When there are two months in between, it's no wonder! Looking back at the series of messages in this thread, it doesn't sound like there's much going on between the two of you, and that the only reamister you stay together is for your kids. What message does that send to the kids?

xoxoxo

Christine

Last time is still last oct 8, this weekend will be 6 months without sex Not sure whats going on but intend to talk to her about it, but seems like everytime there is a chance, something comes up.
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sissyjilly

Thanks for the udpate.

xoxoxo

Christine (a sissy m)

sissyjilly;

Come on dude! You have been making some incredible progress becoming a stud! Only impediment I see is your poor attitude about your own sexual abilities! Who the hell told you that an 8 inch dick is better than a 5 incher? Forget about thinking how much better another man is sexually when YOU are the man poking her hole! Tell her that she has been doing an excellent job making you feel like a man and that you appreciate her sharing her beauty and sexual support with you! Let her know your desire for continuing and increasing this thrill! Ask her a few days ahead of time if she'll let you take a dick pill and allow you some more pleasure together! Throw the clock out the window and quit fretting about performance time! When you SINCERELY inform a lady what pleases you about her, she'll happily show you more! Aggressively show desire for her and she'll oblige your every pleasure! You are doing well here and I'm proud of you!

Fortune favors the bold. Take the gentle initiative here and you will win. Good luck!

PS. You got lucky so many times the last 3 years on your own merits! That was wifey responding to your attentions; not "giving" you alms. One possible cause things have slowed down lately could be that you haven't followed through with the attentions to her that got you lucky in the 1st place. Women NEVER have to (or need to) reciprocate! Maybe see if she thinks a CB would help focus and maintain your attention to her instead wasting it in a wank. Like you said, a good heart to heart with her where you discuss your hopes and desires - and how she'll let you acheive them - sounds like the best deal.

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Ive fucked my wife 5 times since last August. The longer it goes on the more i want to suck other mens cocks, to prove im not a real man

still no sex since oct 8, but she has said the kids are going to her moms in two weeks for a few days and she wants to do some things together so i am hopeful
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sissyjilly

finally, got to have sex with my wife last night, june 25th, 2012, first time since last october. i made her cum first orally by licking her clit for about a half an hour, then she blew me to get me hard and then i got to fuck her for about 1-2 minutes before cumming. she was so wet from having cum already. hopefully the next time wont be another 9 months from now
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sissyjilly

I am just 11 days away from my first sexless anniversary! We did not originally plan this, but my wife was pregnant and put on bedrest for the last 6 weeks of her pregnancy. She also was told not to have sex for 6 weeks after giving birth. At that point (3 months!) we were woken up so much by the newborn that it just wasn't a practical option for 6 more. Now at around 9 months we thought it would be fun to deny me for a year, so here we are. She gets oral but that's it. I'm in lockup a bit but still get to jack about 1-2x week. She does have a girl's night out planned in a week and I'm hoping she cucks me... we'll see!

got it again, kids are still away and she offered me a quicky when i woke up yesterday morning, 6-28-12. we had to go get some things at store but she said i could have a quickie before we left. i told her id try to make her cum orally first again and she said there wasnt enough time and she just wanted me to be pleased so i could just quickly fuck her. i started and aftera couple of minutes as usually i felt myself about to cum so i slowed and she said just fuck me and cum, its ok. it was good. she then said maybe tonight we can do it again when we have more time, but unfortunately, her period started during the day, but that was ok because i got sex twice in a week after going almost 9 months with none.
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sissyjilly