The BBC Craze - Just My 2 cents

First let me say right off, I am a Cuck as far as sexual matters go
and have been for more than 20 years now. In other things in our
marriage, I steer the ship.

There is something occuring on every Cuckold website I have seen
lately (and I stress the word 'lately') that I call the BBC Craze.
It wasnt that way in the lifestyle just a few years ago, but now,
you can barely find a story to read that isn't about a wife and
her "Master". And, while I can certianly see the sexual turn-on of
that for both the wife and cuck husband, by reading most sites out
there, you would think that this is the ONLY thing the lifestyle is
about.

It's not. Not by a long shot.

It worries me to see every site on the subject of cuckolding
following suit with this craze almost exclusively. I think all the
webmasters out there are just jumping on the bandwagon in fear of
loosing customers if they don't.

I know many women do in fact, prefer BBC. Thats fine. Hell, it's
great if that's what does it for you and your cuck. We all have our
own little niches in this lifestlye and really, thats what I'm a bit
concerned about. The other variations are being overlooked by both
writers, webmasters and photographers in thier search for the
greatest market.

Coming from a white Cuck, it's a far more real threat to me, and, I
get far more jealous and filled with cuckold angst, if the guy my wife is
with is a white guy. Why? Because the chance that I could actually
loose her to this man is more pausible to me and to her.

I'm not a raciest and I try hard to keep prejudice out of my
thinking on all matters. I wouldnt have the least objection if my
wife had sex with a black guy or a guy from any race for that
matter, as long as she wanted to do it. My concern is that the
market is flooded with this single aspect of the lifestyle, when the
reality is far more varied than that.

Just my 2 cents - Love to hear yours,

Hammerheart

I agree. I think some people do not think it's cuckolding unless a black man is involved. A cuckold is simply a man with an unfaithful wife, no matter what race the man is with whom she is cheating.

I agree as well. I, for one, would like to see more variety.

Maybe there should be a section on here for " BWC" to balance the fact that on average there are just the same percentage of big white cocks as any other colour. The emphasis for this site is surely size. Many cucks feel the need to have their woman have access to a something bigger than they have themselves. I once worked with a women in her late twenties and I overheard her say " Anyone who says size doen't matter, has never had a big one "
c benson

Maybe there should be a section on here for " BWC" to balance the fact that on average there are just the same percentage of big white cocks as any other colour. The emphasis for this site is surely size. Many cucks feel the need to have their woman have access to a something bigger than they have themselves. I once worked with a women in her late twenties and I overheard her say " Anyone who says size doen't matter, has never had a big one "
c benson

love to hear more about her!

I don't want to get too heavy here, but I always felt the obsession with blacks amounted to one of two things:

1. The idea that black men have bigger cocks (and therefore are better lovers). While any serious scientific data I've seen does suggest that black men's penises are slightly bigger on average, empirical data suggests the size advantage doesn't cast as great a disparity as porn would have you believe. However, if your experience or belief is that black men are best endowed here, that's understandable.

And I don't have a problem with #1, philisophically, although I do somewhat with #2.

2. The idea that it's "taboo" and by implication - that the husband is suffering a greater offense for having not just been cuckolded - but cuckolded by what is implied to be a lesser man, a black man. Anyone who is motivated by this idea belies a certain latent racism which is genuinely troublesome to me. This to me speaks to much more deep-seated issues regarding one's own attitudes and prejudices toward race.

Just my opinion.

For whatever it's worth, the issue of race isn't an influencer in cuckolding for me. I know I have been cuckolded by other white North Americans, by a German guy, twice by asians, and by a native american - and the offense is the same for me under each circumstance.

The man has nothing to do with the delicious offense - other than the fact of course that he got to bone my partner of course
~sissy~

I agree with all of you and to add further, the contrast in skin colour makes the idea of another man become more prominent which is not there in a white cpl scene. Secondly, don't mean to be racist, but my wife is always turned on by white men, the only black guy ever to make her feel hot is Will Smith . Secondly us guys always think cuckolding as a matter of the size of a dick. My wife says even though the size does matter but the permisterality, wit, humour, smile, cuteness, manners are predominant factors, a woman can feel more satisfied if her lover has such qualities and a small dick.
Sadly she has never agreed to actually cuck me.

Interracial sex also seems to be trendy -- even outside hot-wife/cuckoldry. While I knew a few young ladies in the hippie-dippy late 1960s that were hot for black men, it seems to be even more popular now. I know a married woman who's been cheating on her husband for many years and expresses no interest in black men - but she saw a young black man for a year in the midst of her double life.

Race is probably tenth on the list of ten things that I'd look for in a man to fuck a woman I love. For me, I'd want him to be classy, confident, and well-off. Very successful professionally, who'd be many rungs above me in the corporate ladder. And then to flaunt it. Buying her jewelry and sexy, expensive clothes. If I were him, I'd toss me the keys to his BMW and tell me to go gas it up and park it for him.

And just as he says this, he pulls my wife or GF close kisses her and shamelessly feels her up. And then tell me to "hurry up! It's parked by a hydrant! By the time I finally find a fucking parking space in my neighborhood he's probably already made her cum three or four times. So when I get back, they're resting between fucks and I have to open the expensive bottle of wine he brought. And none, for me, of course. It's special and just for them.
Now, he could be this guy and be black. And that might add a little thrill to it because he's got a truly enormous dick and a muscular, ebony body. But in my imagination, the bull has a nice big, white cock and is bigger and stronger than me, anyway.... That's a given.

In Africa and also in Europe, black woman love to fuck white men.
I fucked between 30 to 35 black women, about hald of them married.
Some of them want a white guy because hepays her gifts, dresses, meals and so on, but the majority of them like white guys because they are moe caring, tender, lovely (this is what they tell me about).
And about BBC, it's ony a myth. Of course there are black guys with big cocks, as there are whites, but usually they are average like every common mortal humam beeing.

As yes, the contrast of the skin, plus the forbidden fruit (not so forbidden anymore), makes the rest.

I disagree with the OP.

I think that black guys are sexually superior on average - bigger, stronger with greater stamina, potency, better looking etc. Psychologically, they are hornier and less compromised. Even shy black guys put aside the shyness when they fuck. These are just a statistical advantages over the population so of course, there are exceptions.

Quite simply, on a site such as this - we are all sexual libertines. We go outside the standard Judeo-Christian model of relationships with its sexual monogamy. We are opening a Pandora's box, because once we admit to pure sex for pleasure, black guys have to be a very good option for white and Asian girls. The taboo aspect, and the cultural aspects just add to the excitement.

There is an aspect of fad in it all too. A synergy of physical superiority, taboo has really taken hold recently.

And don't forget, even apart from us cuckolds there has been a massive progressive sexual revolution in the last 50 years. I was in a bar recently and met a really sweet lady who was out for a take, a chat and to listen to music. She wasn't looking for sexual partners - why? She had 3 fuck buddies already. However, she liked 2 of the black guys in the bar and she would have fucked either of them in the blink of an eye. But she didn't bother trying, because she was a slightly weathered 40 year old, and those 2 guys had queues of smoking hot 20-something white chicks vying for them. No I know there were sexual libertines in every time, but this was an ordinary bar, and she was an ordinary separated mum. Can you imagine this 30 years ago? She would have been a freak

As a society we have put sex out on the table - and so we can expect women who play this game to seek the best. Statistically, that means black.

If you stick with the old saying "cock a doodle doo,any cock will do"everyone will be happy.Recipe for a great sex life,open your legs and close your eyes the mind is the greatest sex organ there is!

The reality of this scenario is generally; "Once you go black you become a single parent".
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

I think you're right Hammerheart. There are so many variations to cuckolding and all sites seem to concentrate on the BBC side of things. I've been the bull in a few relationships and I'm average size. The draw, apparently, was that I was in better physical shape, had a better sense of humour or just different.
In all cases, the husbands found it more of a turn on that theoretically they could lose their wives to me, although this was never on the cards.
In one of the instances, the wife had several lovers, a couple of which were well hung and I've enjoyed her at the same time as them.

The biggest reamister why the BBC craze is so popular is the size myth...it is believed that generally black men are better equipped than their white counterparts. I am no expert, but having worked in a man's primister I have seen MANY naked men, both whites and blacks (as well as other races). The big cocks can just as well be on a white, a black or a Hispanic (I did not see many Asian men there). I have seen well hung guys of ALL races. It is just that we tend to generalize, and have created the myth that all black men are well hung. There are also a lot of average size black guys (5 or 6 inches). I believe the percentage of big cocks applies equally to all races. John Holmes certainly was white, and although an exceptional guy, there are many more John Holmes' out there yet to be discovered.

Hammerheart and others, we seem to be missing the woman's choice in the BBC so called craze, my wife started going with Black guys whilst at school, earning a reputation, which has stayed with her to this day, with a few exceptions all of her lovers have been black, it is nothing to do with size (well maybe a bit), it is their attitude towards sex she prefers a black guy bedding her, I have accepted her way of life and learnt to live with it, black guys are spontaneous and expect their women to be the same .

Just my 2 pence