1 small step away from getting her to fuck someone else...but how?

First-time poster, I found this site a little while ago while investigating my ever-increasing need to see my girlfriend fuck another guy...or maybe to just come home and tell me about it...

To be clear, I'm not into the full cuckold lifestyle. The offense thing doesn't really do it for me. What I am increasingly obsessed with is letting my girlfriend fuck another guy (or 2, or 3, or ... ).

My girlfriend is a 25yo brunette and she's incredibly sexy. While she's a little lacking in self-confidence, she has no trouble attracting the men, and has slept with over 30 guys in her life before I met her..

Although she's cautious and does not want to "cheat" on me, she is definitely interested, although more in the MFM or MFF scene. She's a bit scared about the outcome, and about me seeing her fuck someone else, so she sometimes thinks doing it alone (after I suggested it first) might be an easier step towards the 3some world.

She's agreed to give things a look, but we're both lost when it comes to how to go about it! If she goes for a solo the first time, that's easy enough. But if we opt for the MFM, how do you just pick up guys into the idea of me watching?

Any help or advice would be appreciated. While I think I'd really like it if she went out alone and told me all the details afterwards, I'm not 100% sure I'd be comfortable with this as the first time...

No advice from anyone?

start while you are fucking. wait until she is going to cum and right when she is on the verge of climaxing say to her... Tell me you are going to cum!" when she does say... Tell me you like cock... then ask her to tell you she wants to fuck another man as she orgasms. Don't do it again just let it go and do not talk about it. Get some porn if you watch porn together that suggests a "cheating woman" or MFM scenes. After some time get a movie that strongly suggests she is a cheating whore and fuck her good to it. If you go out together start asking her which guy s in the room she finds attractive. Ask her which ones she would fuck. After some time again tell her to say it to you while she is ready to cum. Only ask her if she would fuck a mutual friend or a permister you both know that you are sure she is attracted to. While she is climaxing tell her to say that she wants to fuck that permister and that it makes her hot! I can tell you from experience the MFM situation is hard to find. You will have a hard time shopping for cock together trust me. What would best work for you by the sounds of it is if you tell her your fantasy is to watch and propose you set up a hidden video camera to record her fucking in order to watch it together later. This gives her the freedom to fuck without you there and trust me that is the issue. It also provides her with the security of knowing that you are not seeking other woman once she watches you get off to the video later. You have to do be able 2 let her pick the permister! Let her be a part of who, when and where because if she is not in control you are screwed. It will take time, patience and a lot of work. Start with talking to her while she is having an orgasm and getting her to say those things to you. This is a huge step. If you want to talk more my yahoo IM is darkhorse018

darkhorse018, I've already laid out the fantasy for her clearly. She's keen on the MFM. She is also afraid she will feel ashamed afterwards if I see her fuck someone else, yet she feels that doing it alone is cheating...catch 22

She spent a while overseas recently and I was strongly encouraging her to fuck someone while she was there. She got into the idea as a "step toward the MFM". It came sort of close a couple of times (thought she would get the ball rolling), but in the end she couldn't bring herself to do it.

We're now thinking about whether we should go out together or just her alone. Your advice sounds like her alone could be a better approach.

I think I've gotten her to agree to posting some body shots on the net, but they must be "nice ones" If it goes well I'll post something here...Thanks for the advice all, and if anyone else has anything helpful to add, please do!