Seeking training for the cuckold lifestyle

Hi

I am a 38 year old Danish married wannabe who for many years has been more and more interested in the lifestyle and to move toward being a cuckold couple. I do believe that if this is done the right way I could over time make my wife a hotwife.

I am not interested to trick her into this and I know that I should discuss this with her, but I would like to slowly "prepare" her to this kind of lifestyle so that when I do start to talk about it with her she would not be shocked or she might even have been fantasying something like this. I'm therefore looking for an "online class" or some kind of check list with task to complete which slowly can help me turn my wife and my self into this lifestyle.

Another thing which I would like to work on right away (and is a more short term project) is to turn my self into the perfect cuckold who can do what ever it takes to be a cuckold in this kind of relationship. I am not sure which direction I should take in the cuckold lifestyle yet (a slave, a sissy or just a watching husband). But since I like to expand my limits this could be a good tool to continuously to push my limit (starting with easy task) and to get all the way to what ever type of cuckold I will turn into.

Another benefit with such a list is that I could fore example say that now I have completed 14 of the tasks and therefore I am 60% a real cuckold.

I could imagine that though this forum we could build up the different steps toward becoming the perfect cuckold and/or hotwife. Therefore it would be great to have input from cuckold, hotwifes and bulls. There is properly allot more like me who would benefit from this.

If we can make this list I will of cause send out an update from time to time to everyone who are interested in following my path to my/our lifestyle and I would love to hear from others who also is starting make the journey toward the "right" way of living themself.

I am not looking for online trainers who expect me to do this fulltime, since this is a long term project and I do not want to send photos of my wife unless she starts to do this her self. But I am 100% serious about this.

Does this make any since to you?

Best regards
Cuckold Hans
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Small update:

I have done the first step for my path to become the perfect cuckold - to take my own cum. This I did yesterday after jerking off thinking of my wife with a Bull.
From now on I will do this every time I cum to a cuckold fantacy (I normally do this at least ones a day, so it will be alot of cum eating) but I hope I can develop this even more. Any idea on my cum eating ritual or how to use my cum?

In the longer run I also need to figure out how to show my new tallent to my wife by eating a creampie which will be the optimal goal of this task - beside eating it with another man cum.

Regards
Cuckold hans
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LOL I love the gravy line!

Hi

Well I do know that eating cum is optional - but it find it exciting and and important path to my cuckold lifestyle

I am also married so I dont have to find me a "whore wife"
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where in denmark, little cucky ?
Suck, fuck then clean

Hi

From Nordjylland
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I'm in a similar boat with Hans.
My wife and I swing but not often and wife never is the one to suggest it, she just sort of goes along, but not always. I'm more the watching husband who particpates and wants the submissive wife willing to take all the dick I tell her to. If that means bringing home 3 of my buddies from work to dump their loads in her ass, so be it. She should do it without question and actually spread herself open so each of the guys have an easier time plowing their cocks into her.

But yes, a list of some sort in getting the wife's mind to think positively about being a shared wife, would be invauleable.

best advice is gently gently approach.. she should think that its her idea.

Firstly.... when making love to her .. you have to under preform.... either have a loose erection... and or cum very quickly. This is the time then to go straight down on her cum filled pussy. If she questions your actions.. you say that you want to please her totally.. its an act of love and devotion.

You will have to keep 'playing' the wimp lover... dont satisfy her via intercourse... give lots of oral prior to and after intercourse.. make the actual penetration secondary to her oral pleasure... always cum very quickly and keep her wanting...

buy her a dildo or a vibrator..... a bigger size than your cock... not too big to scare her.. but enough for her to feel and enjoy the difference. Awlays involve the dildo in your love making.. you say your pleasure is seeing her fullfilled....she must have total satisfaction... impress its an act of love and is for her enjoyment.

introduce watching porn with her... as she watches hung studs.. pleasuring women.. you should always be giving her oral.. dont watch the movies.. enjoy her aroused pussy.. this way she will see that your comfortable with her enjoying hung cock... when she is ready for penetration..use her dildo.. tell her she deserves something in her like what the studs on film have to offer.. get her used to the fact that she is 'missing' out on what other women have.

when the time is right and your fucking is less important in your love making together.... when she is suitably aroused with your touch.. you should gently tease her about how aroused she is when watching hung studs on film.. and ease erotic thoughts into her head of how much she would enjoy a large cock filling her.

if she openly admits to being envious of stud cock.. ask her if she has ever taken a decent cock prior to you meeting.. etc..
let her know your not jealous .. and that your interest is in her total happiness and pleasure....

eventually you can 'look' online or the net at porn pics etc.. then ease her towards sites like this.... then if the time is right .. she will gradually take a real interest,

it maybe a long road.. but not an impossible one...

Hope this helps a little..

Cuckhubby

The posters are mostly spot on with thier recommendations, for this ever to be more than a fantasy, you need to get her on board.

Thanks for the many good idea. Moreover, yes you are right that it need to be her idea and I should never push her. That is also, why I need to "prepare" her.

I will for sure go for the trick to go for my first creampie (I cant wait)

I have always been most interested in giving her orgasm, mine has always been of secondary important.

Concerning porn movie, I know that see looks at this when I am not around so this could also be a way to explore some more.

The biggest task for me is to give her the old self-esteem back again so that se will believe that there are men out there who will fuck her.

Regards
Hans
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