** Are all psychologically fucked up? (serious only please) **

The answer is maybe. Are you hurting someone? If not, then why worry. Our experiences make us what we are. Could there be self esteem issues? Probably. If no one is hurt and your life is otherwise normal and you are happy...so what. It is a way to get off.Why do some people like Italian food, and others not?

For me it is pure fantasy. I do not believe i would ever be able to accept having my wife or girlfriend relax with another man.

If, however, you are dating bar girls, whores, etc then you can actually experience a form of cuckoldry. Since she is a prostitute and it is not a committed relationship based on family values, love and such things then there is a real freedom there.

they provide a real service in meeting my manly need of self esteem. lets face it a real man mounts and fucks women and that must be met.

a cuckold fantasy is a reverse form of sadistic behavior. you make yourself the victum. truely in this fantasy you are in control of the situation. it is better to do unto yourself harm than a real permister.

another reamister for this role play could be boredom. i myself have slept with over two hundred women, mostly bar girls. i have also been in long term monogomous relationships. it all gets boring after awhile so this is just another form sex release.

No women around could be another reamister. Sometimes i cannot believe how hard it is to get layed here in the good ole USA. You go out to bars and such and there is no action. it is very disappointing and frustating and after a while you just realize it is easier to just jack off to some fetish and forget about it.

It is not healthy to isolate yourself in front of the fucking computer and not ever fuck anybody. you have got to go out and get a little human touch sometimes. it does make you feel better to bang a chick. it does reinpower your self as a man if that is what you truely are and i think most all of us are.

So do yourself a favor and go get layed, then when you are alone and horney and back here getting some sexual release you will not beat your self up with guilt.

That's exactly what Queen B says, they are just human toys!

That is how cuckold life is. We have keen interest and desire if other men cum deep into our wives. Or, we have great desire to blast our nut into the cunt of another guy's wife. Either way, cuckolding equals a wife having the pleasures of enjoying her cunt soiled by extramarital semen. The cuck's option is to settle for his wife's cheats. Cuckold of the right wife finds treasures of masochistic bliss whenever she's with her lover! It is very easy for some cuckolds to embrace their wives' cheating and bitching! Plenty of husbands are relieved and rejoice when their wives find a suitable lover! It is an ideal cure for impotence and premature ejaculation! Let's not forget the fact that the sexing provided by his wife's lover now frees hubby to masturbate to his heart's content!

Yeah. We are all psychologically fucked up. We love to use our cocks and cunts differently from the average couple! Cuckolding is a way for many couples to enjoy the fruits from an otherwise very emasculating situation. Cuckoldry usually psychologically empties a hubby's scrotum pretty fast! Regardless, many folks still think that cucking is the exciting way to go!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Maybe we cucks are fucked up and maybe we aren't. Who's to say? The bottom line for me is, if it makes US feel good, if it works for US, that is what counts.
Faggot Pussy

Only I would say transcending .
I don't know ... Maybs.
Not speaking to James directly , just a thought .

I am well aware of my being fucked up. I was sent off to boarding school at age 6 and remained there until 17. This was very traumatic for me, especially in the early years, and I have suffered from severe abandonment issues ever since. I have been increasingly able to hide these feelings but I have remained an insecure boy when it comes to women and relationships. I am sure you can see it is a short step from abandonment issues to your wife cheating on you and potentially even leaving you. As a *********, I was never really concerned if I got dumped in a relationship - I had come to expect that would happen.

In my late teens, this turned from being a problem for me into being a kink. I remember back in the late 70's seeing a Penthouse magazine photo pictorial that was set in the 1700's and involved a man and his wife's lover having a duel in which the husband is killed and the wife gets it on with the victor. That really stoked the fires of the fantasy.

Over the years, I have broached the subject of cuckolding many times with my wife and she has always refused to indulge me but she has, nevertheless, cheated on me on many occasions. The problem is that I never know about it until long after the fact, so it is less a cuckold lifestyle as readers here might imagine it but instead I have no part to play.

have to agree with Jamesriske. We started this lifestyle later in life and were willing to experiment. I loved watching Her make love to Her 8 year steady lover. I became more submissive to both of them without the ***********. We grew deeper in love with each other. The ********** for me was a welcome surrender to the day to day stresses of work.

Quit fooling yourself. We are fucked up.


What you describe here is the experience shared by the vast majority of actual cuckolds. She knows that you are excited about her sexing other men. She accepts that as "permission" for her to sample extramarital delights as she pleases. Her pleasures are doubled by fucking her cuckold out of any enjoyment from her cheat! It is true that many readers imagine the cuckold lifestyle to be extremely desirable. You are 100% living the real cuckold lifestyle! No part for you to play.

Your duel analogy can provide fantasy for a good wank. The cuckold reality is: The wife effectively castrates her husband once she allows a superior lover to blow his wad while he's balls deep inside of her. The cuckold meekly steps aside and lets his cheating wife rub it in his face. This causes his wife to lose respect for him and she is not afraid to continually remind him of that fact! Any participant in her parade of lovers can look down on him in victory. Cuckolds end up being mostly denied sex or even pussy free yet they rejoice that wifey is getting hers. Unlike a loser in a duel, the cuck must see and live with the truth that sh1t flows downhill. A cuckold starts off by swallowing both his and wife's lover's pride in one huge load. Then he discovers that there is nothing left to wash down all of the bullsh1t cucks have to eat as their portion. Example: People love to eat brownies and wash them down with milk. Cuckolds swallow all kinds of pride and then have no way to wash down all of the cuckold "brownie" that they must eat. That is fucked up. Yet many enjoy the cuckold lifestyle! I guess many cucks have no other choice than to become low man on the marital totem pole. There are many legitimate reasons where couples need a man to handle sexuality that hubby is unable to perform. This is not fucked up. It is two people in love surviving as best they can. Otherwise, how can something as variable as cuckolding not fuck up the people involved sooner or later?

It does not matter if somebody is fucking your wife or you fuck another guy's wife. We are all psychologically fucked up. Also, we are all rendered sexually dysfunctional to some degree by the stark realities of being cuckolded. The cuckold's intense, masochistic arousal from his wife's cheat makes it so worthwhile for many of them! They can't help but allow it to continue!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Maybe people may think we are a little fucked up but does that really matter? We are harming no one, except possibly ourselves. Many people have destructive and anti-social behaviours, our's is not one of these. Wives get to have fun, other guys get fun free sex and we get off on our wives playing with others. Quite seriously as I have aged and chilled out more I have honestly come to believe that what goes on between consenting adults is nothing to do with anyone else, whether it is "fucked up" or not. Life is to short not to try things we enjoy.

We´re all fucked up & it´s simply awesome to fuck another man´s wife or to have your wife fucked by a BBC! Mmmm!!! Love married hot pussy! Best in the world!
Charrosexy

When my wife goes out to meet a guy I like to get dolled up in heels and a short dress, full make up and blonde wig, false nails etc, and go meet a guy too and get fucked as good as my wife does. Now that's fucked up

Many cuckolds celebrate with great joy as their wife receives real sexual pleasures from her capable lover! Some variation of your theme is an incredible, exciting and do-able fantasy! Even just wearing panties and poking his own ass real good with a big black dildo while knowing his wife is being sexed by a real man is such a satisfying experience and relief for a happy cuckold!

Somebody that doesn't understand the cuckold scene will certainly think this is fucked up.

Cheating wives get sexual arousal from, plus their cunts well satisfied and soiled by, capable males. Cuckolds who are so excited that superior men gratify and soil his wife's starving cunt, are not fucked up.

It is wrong to call a happy cuckolding couple's chosen lifestyle "fucked up". Couples actively desiring and seeking the cuckold lifestyle lust for the wife's next extra-marital adventure!

I believe the correct description of a cuckold couple's excitement and enjoyment of the cuckold lifestyle is "Psychologically Cucked Up"! Fucked Up connotes messed up or screwed up. Cucked Up implies stoked up, psyched up, amped up, charged up! In other words..... An active cuckold relationship - regardless of the cuck's happiness - is: "Psychologically Cucked Up"! There is plenty of interest, attention and excitement revolving around the wife's cheating cunt! A cuckold relationship that ends up in divorce, or any dissolution of the relationship of the involved parties as result of cuckolding, is fucked up.

Aim for a "Cucked up" marriage. Keep in mind that even the best "Psychologically Cucked Up" marriage has a very real vulnerability of ending as a "Totally Fucked Up" union! Either way, the woman always walks off with the win!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!