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Hi all I just discovered this site, thought I would introduce myself.

My name is John, been married for 14 years.

I been a cuckold I quess for all of them. I start be telling my story.

I first meet my wife when we were both in High School. I was a kind of a loner back then. The wife was one of the popular girls a real social butterfly bouncing from group to group, with a whole steady stream of boyfriends. I meet her and got to know her when I became friends with her brother. We had a few dates then, but it never progressed to much. She got married and 19 and I didn't see her agian for 6 years. When I saw her again, she was still married, but it wasn't a happy one, she was thinking about getting a divorce from her then husband. I ask her to dinner to catch up on old times, I wasn't looking for anything other then that. By the time dinner was done, we were talking like we had been the best of friends in high school, not just the casual friends we were. She had me park the car at a local park on the way home from dinner, and we made out and sex in the park.
I called her later the next day to see about getting another date, but she blew me off and said she would let me know the next free night she had, told that she currently was juggling 5 other guys that she was see on different days or nights. It was a real blow to me, I was raised in a traditional household, and was rather a sheltered permister, I just didn't realize that anybody in the world, had those kind of intiment relationships with more than one permister at a time. Anyhow it took about three week before she called me and told me she had free time if I still wanted to take her out. I guess I was desperate so I said yes. (a little background on me, she was in the park my 2nd woman to have sex with and the first in 5years). Anyhow we continued to date like this with the dates getting a little closer together to the point we were able to go out 1 or 2 times a week.

I'll continue later

By this time I was really starting to fall for her. I had never had any real luck with women. I was loner, an introvert, I wan't shy or scared of women, but was told I came off as cold and arrogant. Just not the best combination for attracting women. Like I said though, we were starting to date once or twice a week, and was loving it. This was 3 1/2 months after we first hook up, she told me she had finally let her husband know that she was going to go ahead and file for a divorce (they had been seperated for 7 months). I asked her about why I was getting so many more dates now than before, She told me that she had let all of her boyfriends now just what she was doing, and only I and 2 of the other 5 didn't complain about sharing her, so she was only having to juggle 3 of us know. We dated like that, me sharing her with three other, for 3 more months. We talked about our futures and what I wanted from her in the future, she had been having these talk with all three of us. Not sure what the other two told her, but I told her I loved her, and always would no matter what, She asked me(us) if I expected her to change if we got serious or married, I guess I was the only one to tell I didn't, that what ever she did was fine with me. Her divorce was made final apirl 15 1993, and we were married may 22.

When we got married she told how she was going to try to change, because it was her love of sex and other men that destroyed her first marriage, but she couldn't give any guarantees. We ended up haveing three youngren born to us the first 6 years of our marriage. During that time I know she cheated on me, but she wasn't blatant about it nor was it very often from what I could tell, just you know find condoms or condom wrappers in her car, in the house in the purse everynow and agian (we never used them). 6 months after our youngest mister was born, two thing happened that started to change everything, First we decided we were done with having kids, so she got her tubes tied (I offered for a vascetomy, but she insisted on getting tied), our oldest started school, and she got an outside sales job that required she drive all over town during the day. I was a slow change, but over the course of the next 6 years, I was to later discover her number of conquests and lover steadily climed. She started out like the first 6 years of our marriage, a little fun once or twice a month. We she finally came clean and open with me in our 12 year of our marriage, according to her she had a little stable of 4 guys she was seeing on a regular basis, and was still flirting with and fitting in other friends, and casual pickups. She told me these things, and said she no longer wanted to hide it. She told me she couldn't stop, it was what she was, but she would understand if I wanted a divorce, and wouldn't contest it or fight it in anyway. I told her I knew what she was when we got married, and I aggreed to marry that for better or worse. This marked a big change in things. She started come home late from work, start going out at night, and even missing a few weekends at home with me and the kids. I never stopped loving her, and relished the time I still got with her. Unike many of the stories told I have read by other cuckolds, She never cut me off, or denied me when she was her, if anything we had more sex. I was always amazed at my work talking to some of my married/co-habitating co-workers who had been with there SOs for more that a couple of years, they talked about only having sex 1 or 2 times a week, here I was (no I never told them about this)a cuckold husband who wife was even coming home some weekends, and normally not coming home one or two night a week, getting it 2 to 3 time a night when she did come home. This takes us up to year 12 of my marriage (2005) more later

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Things really began to change in late 2004 early 2005. Slowly but surely her level of discretion started to slip. Were never before did any of her special friends call her at home (or on her cell phone when home) she started getting and taking calls at home. Her trips aways from home that she used to tell mutual friends and nieghbors were business trips she just came and would say she was spending the night or weekend at so and so's house. We live in west Phoenix, all her dates used to be in Scottsdale or Tempe, then last year she start going out closer to home. I started to hear for friends and family that the would see her at a club, resturant or the movies with somebody. It was a little humiliating, but nothing I couldn't handle. But she was a different story. Her blatant openess about it was causing her conflict with our friends and family, and our kids started to notice and wonder. I was really only concerned with the kids, that don't need that kinds of stress and pressure in their lives. So late 2006 the wife and I had a long sit down talk, between the stress of me confronting her and the recriminations of her family and mine, she decided to move out and get her own place. So as it stands right now, we are living apart, I still love her and get to see her, she spends every other weekend at my house visiting with the kids and I, and we occasionally hook up for a nooner. She is back to were she was when I started dating her, she has me and a steady stable of 4 other men. Don't know were our realtionship is going to go from here, but we are thinking that when our youngest goes off to college (god lord willing), she will move back in, because without the kids there she can be as open as she wants.

Cuckold John

I have seen many posts on this site - and enjoyed it much

But I can now see clearly that some of the posts have a similar writing style and content, which indicates that they are probably written by the same permister; Cuckold John who claims here to have just discovered the site has this typical style...

So, readers, be advised
Panos

Sorry you feel that way panos. Its a true story. If the pattern, or writting style seems similar to other, maybe it because I, like many others on here are not professional writers, never taken a course on creative writing, write just like I talk.

Crackerjack, am I turned on? No. Doesn't turn me off either. If she would have kept her act together and been more discreet should still be living at home. I knew she had issues and I guess what you would call a "sex addiction" when we got married, and would tolerate it as long as things stayed disceet.