Would you consider it a progress?

Hi,

I just PM'd another member of this forum, telling him about a recent experience, and I thought some of you guys could tell me what you think about it.

I've been having that fantasy of seeing my wife with other men for a few years, and, even though I talked to her about this zillions times, she did not "buy" the idea, adding she thinks I overdo it when I tell her how sexy she is. At 52 she is still sunning, looking like a late 30ish HOT woman.

Something happened during our recent trip to a big city that leads me to believe that, with a good looking stud, she would go for it:

We were shopping for a new vibrator for her in a sex shop, and there were many people in the store, so we did not pay special attention to who was around at that time.

Once we walked out the shop and headed back to our hotel, a 40ish short fat man, probably latino, stopped us on the street and began by saying he'd seen us at the sex shop, saying it was a nice place to buy kinky toys...bla bla bla... that he and his "Danish girlfriend" (yeah..right *lol*) went there all the time etc. And he kept looking at my wife, from head to toes, for the whole 30 seconds one way conversation...

She stopped in front of a shoe store and grabbed my hand taking me inside... The man stood there for a minute, then crossed the street...apparently leaving.

We left the shoe store a min after and headed back to our hotel once again... Then noticed the man was 50ft behind us, following us among the crowd... we turned lef...he turned left... we crossed the street... he crossed the street... Finally, we went across a HUGE gay crowd (a great way to escape single men *lol*) which was asemred for the Gay pride week.

We went back to our bedroom, then she started caressing me, kissing me in the neck... I touched her crotch: MAN SHE WAS WET! She said that she noticed that man in the sex shop, and that he was constantly staring at her... And she added: "the guy obviously wanted a threesome...or he wanted you to let him get me..." And I asked "would you do it"? And she replied: "not with THAT man"...

We fucked like crazy, then I went to take a shower... When I came out she was watching the crowd from the gigantic window (we had a room at the 22nd floor that was overlooking the park wher the gay celebration was held) and she called me... "come and see" she said" look on te corner of that street... there... is'nt it our man? " and there he was, looking across the crowd, for nearly 45 minutes (he had obvioulsy been there for an hour by then). The guy wanted her so much that he kept looking for my wife for nearly 2 hours after we "escaped" him. She was still REALLY WET...

Last night, while she was jerking me off, she kept on talking about being gang banged by 3-4 men while I watch... Not unusual, because I ASKED her to do it many times before, be I would almost have to power her to say such thing.. but now, she talks about it FREELY and I did not even have to ask...

Based on those events, would you say she is seriously getting ready for THE great event?

I am really curious to read your reactions and comments.

Please tell us more

Sorry brother but WHAT ELSE do you want to know. I asked for comments...

Thanks Miclana,

I am not sure if it is progress or not. Your wife clearly enjoys being wanted - but that is maybe as far as she wants to take it.

That is true, experimenter. However, the fact she really did all she could to avoid the subject and now she is so much into talking about it gave me hope. I also thought the fact she looked for the man in the crowd was rather revealing... just like she was herself hesitating about maybe returning to the street so he could "find" us... ANybody had a similar experience?

You know...despite the fact she told you "not with THAT man".... she was still looking for HIM out the window. Sure, he may have been fat and appealling ... yet she now has a growing fascination with the almost certain knowledge that he was lusting for her, and that fascination was making her very horny and very ready.

I'd say its some progress ... and you should give her some free rein to see where she wants to go with it.

What do you exacty mean by that CPforme? BTW, thanks for your input ;)

Free rein is a term from horseback riding where you stop directing the horse, letting the reins dangle, and letting the horse go where it will. Otherwise, riders direct the horse by pulling the reins one way or another, and spuring the horse on with their heels.

Now, don't misunderstand ... I'm not comparing your wife to a horse! But what I'm suggesting, with extremely limited knowledge of your history and situation, that perhaps she didn't put much faith in your assessment of her sexiness, and resisted your encouragements to vocalize your fantasy of seeing her with other men (you said almost powerd her).

Then, by chance, another man (albeit, an apparently unattractive man) clearly shows to her that he is attracted to her ... and she finds that fascinating, titilating, envigorating, etc., etc., and she's almost surprised (as are you) by her response to it. A new awakening, perhaps?

But I think she very much as to approach this at her speed and in her way. That's what I meant by free rein. Let her take charge of her new awakening, and enjoy the ride in whatever direction she wants to take. Be there for her, support her, show her that you are enjoying (when you do) the pleasures she's starting to feel with this ... but don't be to aggressive to push her in the direction you think she's going, or you may find she'll dig in again and refuse to budge. You've been making it about what you want ... let her realize it something she wants, to both your benefits.

That make sense?