why so sub!!!!!

hi, ive wrote a couple of letters before on this page, but just need to update what has happened to us! We are a brit couple, married and very much in love. I have thought for a long time how it would feel to be cuckolded ! We separated for a while and my wife fucked another guy 4 times. When we got back together she told me this and i told her it turned me on!!!!

We talked a lot more at lenghth, bit by bit, me, trying not to sound like a perv. about how it turned me on when i think she might be with another guy. She listened to me, joined a gym and told me how this trainer there was chatting her up. ( my wife is v attractive, blonde, sexy and turns heads). She said he was v muscular, and i said "ask him if he is big everywhere!" The v next day she went there, asked him they same question, within 20 minutes she was in the mens toilets and sucked him offf, he came in her mouth and on her cheek. SHE PHONED ME STRAIGHT AWAY!!! and told me everything. Since tnen she has fucked him on a staircase in the same gym.

I feel so proud off my wife, she says its pure casual sex, nothin more nothing less and wait axouisly for the next call while im at work. The thought of another guy cumming in her mouth is so horny.

What i can't come to terms with is why cuckolds want 2 feel like wimps and so submissive. We have a strong marriage and fantastic sex life, why do you all want to feel inferior to another guy?

Hi Nigel!

Sounds like the two of you have a wonderful thing going on there. Enjoy!
You say knowing your wife has sex with another man turns you on. You are so proud of her. Well, good for you!

I think we all enjoy our wives having sex with other men (we wouldn't be here if we didn't, would we?), and we all are proud of our wives. Well, I am. I am very proud of her.

So we've got a lot in common. But since we're all different, obviously there are differences too. One of them being some guys tend to get submissive when their wives have sex with other men. You don't -and right you are. There is no law of nature that demands that a cuck is a submissive permister.

So why are there cuckolds that do feel submissive -even crave it?

Speaking for myself, the answer is not that simple. My wife has been seeing this guy for the past couple of months. A very friendly guy; he and I get along quite well. We're on a friendly basis.
He comes to our house, we have a take, or sometimes we go out to have a take, we chitchat, we have fun. By "we" I mean the three of us.
There are phone calls, e-mails, msn and so forth.
What seems to be evolving is a normal friendship, like there are millions, billions all over the world. Slightly less common, he fucks my wife. And he does a great job too.

I do not feel submissive compared to this man. I enjoy him being around and I enjoy him fucking my wife. Just like you. It turns me on knowing that my wife enjoys having sex with him so much. It turns me on that she likes to relax with him and doesn't want to with me. It turns me on knowing that when she's horny, or when she wants to fuck, that she thinks of him -not me.
All this makes me feel small, futile, not worthy of fucking a woman. That hurts. A lot. But somehow the pain gradually transforms to lust, and before I know it I'm jerking as if my life depended on it. Because I need the pain to really get turned on, I classify myself as sort of an emotional masochist.

But still I do not feel submissive. At least not in relationship to this man.

Does that mean I don't want to feel submissive? Nope, it doesn't. Quite the contrary. I would love my wife being with a man who has sort of a natural dominance. Someone who would not only fuck my wife real good, but who would steal her away alltogether, leaving me nothing but crumbs. Someone who would enjoy hurting me while conquering my wife, who would use me, misuse me and use me for his own agenda.

Then I would be submissive. I'd crawl for such a man.

Why? Because of the pain. The pain that gets me off, the pain that gets me high, the high I am addicted to. That's why.

Quite sick, isn't it? Well, I hope no one will ever cure me .

rene.

Hi Rene,

Thanks for the reply! Its very interesting and i can see where you are coming from. The whole cuck thing is new to me and very exciting, the thought of my wife going out to meet some guy and coming home with his cum in her pants sends me loco!!!! This as yet has'nt happened as they use condoms but i think over time these may not be used. Also ultimatly i want her to fuck him in our bed and as soon as he leaves i got in and fuck her!! The smell of sex would be intoxicating!!

Hi A PIC OF THE WIFE!!

I agree with the original post. I'm not into being humiliated or any homosexual acts. I just think it would be hot to see my wife get banged like a porn star. In fact I would love to film it.
My wife's ass: http://www.cuckoldplace.com/13_28160_0.html
Want to to stick your cock in it?

nigel wood
thks for such a good post, i am curious about this myself also.
for some ,there is a lot of role play involved.
some women are turned on by making the toughest of men wimpering little puppies, Alpha girls can be pretty harsh 2,they can make men do unthinkable things, if they want you to act the wimp you act the wimp
bulls beware
once they have got you and know all your buttons..............its over
renebe
that has got to be one of the best replys i have come across...ty

in my case i just always felt inferior as a male and i liked being submissive, so being cuckold and humiliated really seemed natural to me. the fact that my wife loved to humiliate me even made it hotter.

Nigel,

Like you, I am a non-submissive, non-wimp cuckold husband. And yes, like you i am very proud of my wife. Not everyone is a sub here, but they sure write a lot of posts!

nigel wood

I think I can answer that but, let be say this first. I believe people that are truly at one extreme or the other (meaning a fraction of a percent), dominant or submissive, to some degree are born that way and then their environment develops them the rest of the way. In other words, the same environment would influence their desires regardless of whether they were born dominant or submissive. The dominant permister would have extracted certain dominant elements from it and submissive permister would have extracted certain submissive elements from the same environment.

I've heard people that are extremely dominant say they're man was that way and that's what influenced them. On the other hand, I've heard peopel that were extremely submissive, say exactly the same thing....they're man was dominant and that's why they're so submissive.

Remember, I think this only happens in a fraction of a percent of the population but, for those people it's who they are, deep inside. Their desires are needs that never stop growing because they're continually being influenced by all the new things that they experience in their environment. Sex and D/S naturally go hand and hand but, what was submissive to a sub a year ago is now practically vanilla sex.

Your question was, "What i can't come to terms with is why cuckolds want 2 feel like wimps and so submissive". Well, for starters you're not among that fraction of a percent. Having explained what I believe, it's not that cucks want to feel like wimps and be so sub. It's more like subs (at least some any way) want to be cucks. The wimp part is the word you're using but, that's just the way some are submissive and wish to be as a cuck.

The fact that a sub would wants this, is because it's what it's grown and developed into for them....another level of presentation. Ten years ago, it may have been way beyond the limits of what someone submissive would have ever desired (they probably never thought about or even heard of it back then). Along came the Internet (which has been a huge impact on the environment we all live in) and boom, it's obviously influenced a lot of subs. The entire cuckold lifestyle has gone from almost unheard of ten years ago to this...it's all over the web.