Am I a cuckold? Over the past few years I have become more and more ar

Over the past few years I have become more and more aroused by the thought of another man fucking my sexy black wife. Last year, for the first and only time, she fullfilled my ultimate fantasy. And it was mind blowing. Since then, we have just fantasised about doing it again, although I hope to make it real once again. I guess that makes me a cuckold.

But here's the strange thing. I've looked at a few cuckold sites, and I just don't fit the stereotype. I am genuinely very handsome and very confident. I am 42, but I look at least 10 years younger. I have never had any trouble getting beautiful girls. I am also well endowed, have a great body and am seriously good in bed.

In fact, my biggest problem has always been that casual flings always lead to the girl falling in love with me, with her telling me that I am her best lover ever.

I know this all sounds really boastful, but it's the truth. And I need to say it because otherwise my question won't make sense.

Is there such a thing as a non-submissive cuckold?

I LOVE the idea of my wife taking a very good lover and seeing him regularly. I mean, I absolutely desire it so bad, my cock is rock hard each and every day thinking about it.

Yes, I would like him to be fit and have a big cock. Yes, I want him to be an expert lover. And yes, I want my wife to scream out how good he is as he fucks her.

And yet... I do not feel humiliated at all. I see "him" as complementary to me. Not better, or bigger. Just another hot guy who can satisfy my wife differently. I get off on the jealousy, I think, more than the presentation.

Is there anyone else like me here.

Am I a cuckold, or something else?

I think you simply enjoy watching your wife with other men. More in the "Swingers" category than "Cuckold" .
I support Woman's right to Cheat

It seems you fit the classic mold for desiring to be married to a hot wife - a wife who makes it with other guys for the couples mutual satisfaction.

Bayamo,

I am exactly like you. My wife has had another guy and i loved it. Like you say..I think about it all the time. I too am a good lover, of average size ect.. Not into humilation, just like to watch or hear about it, even see her pussy full when she comes home. Would even be willing to have a threesome with another guy. Im not Bi, so it would all be for her.

Like the two posts above, I dont feel that we are Cuckolds, but i dont think i am a swinger, cause i really dont crave having couples that much. Of course i probably wouldnt turn it down, but my real pleaseure is for her to have another man, then I enjoy her afterwards.

Shooter38

Bayamo,

I am exactly like you. My wife has had another guy and i loved it. Like you say..I think about it all the time. I too am a good lover, of average size ect.. Not into humilation, just like to watch or hear about it, even see her pussy full when she comes home. Would even be willing to have a threesome with another guy. Im not Bi, so it would all be for her.

Like the two posts above, I dont feel that we are Cuckolds, but i dont think i am a swinger, cause i really dont crave having couples that much. Of course i probably wouldnt turn it down, but my real pleaseure is for her to have another man, then I enjoy her afterwards.

Shooter38

Ah, a kindred spirit.

Thanks for that Shooter. Its exactly how I feel. I'm not a swinger, or even a wannerbe swinger. Like you, I wouldn't turn it down if it was on a plate, but it's not something I particularly think about or desire.

The pleasure for me in watching my wife with another guy (she's only done it the once) really isn't offense. It's simply the desperate desire to see her scream and come, and in a strange way, liberate her to enjoy her sexuality to the full. I hope this makes sense.

The contradiction is that I want it much more than her, but what really turns me on is her wanting it for herself. I dunno if this is the same for you.

Whereabouts are you from anyway? I'm from London, UK.

Bayamo

Bayamo,

Just enjoy what you are and don't worry about "the stereotype" as you put it. I am like you and Shooter - no inferiority complex at all. I am dashing, exciting - some women fall for instantaneously. I meet women everywhere who I know i can have - withing moments of meeting them. Like you, it sounds boastful to say that, but (again!) it is true. But I love my wife getting fucked by others. Go figure! Or not. Don't figure it all, just enjoy it.

I will say, that I love when my wife gets fucked by an especially hung stud. But even then I don't feel inferior to the guy - just that he has a big cock and therefore is useful to us.

Bayamo,

Iam the same as you and have posted an email titled" why so sub", i love my wife fucking other guy, but dont feel submissive and wimpish. For me my wife has a loving husband and a single life. This suits us both, but no way am i a wimp!!!!!

nw

Lets make our brotherhood here...........LOL
I began to worry here and bum I found this post. You described me and how I feel completely. I did have experience with 2 girls and couples but biggest turn on is watching my wife fucked by other men. I would always trade me and tow gorgeous girls to watch my wife filled with cock or cocks.
I don't feel humiliated or inferior and I never experienced loss of control over the situation. There is a group on yahoo called wife watchers. Thats us I think. I enjoy the fact that she is a slut but all mine.

I am whit u guys!!!!!!!!! same cuckolds brownie here

I am trying to push my girlfriend to flirt havy on some of the the night clubs she walks on, also to dress as sluty she can, in high heels and short skirts.
the thing is that i got realy hard on all the time when i am thinking about this.

I have talking whit her about to go out together were i am a spectator from the other site of the bar, and she just sitting there wating for some young well hung stud, to rag her up, and maybe follow us home, were i can finnaly se here get fucked by some other massive dicks!!!
then lick her well used pussy/ or ruined

last night she was out again and told me that she was talking whit a guy who was to young for her, but she says he was sexy and very well trained, and also that she had a small felling for him that night.
Omfg what horney i was that morning when she told me about this.....

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