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FSTOP,
Couldn't agree more.To find out that your wife is going behind your back is one amazing rush.
My wifes now fully aware that I know about her cheating although not all events.She hasn't indulged herself for quite some time now even though I've made it very plain that I would love her to do it again.Whenever I bring up the topic,she'll roll her eyes in that''here we go again''sort of manner and try to give all the reamisters why she couldn't go through with it.I'm convinced that it's merely down to the fact that I know about it and would love to hear all the details or even better,watch!
Things are not all bleak though as we are still at the ''maybe '' stage.When we've had these conversations,she always ends up absolutely soaked(bit of a giveaway to what she's actually feeling)and she''ll jump me as soon as we get into bed.
She's actually out tonight with a few of her mates and as usual,I'm hoping that some stud will take a chance with her.Anybody who has a good sense of humour and a fair degree of charm will start to push her buttons.
Has your wife cheated on you many times.If so,would love to hear the details.I'll get back to you with some of mine.

Cheers.

My husband gave the best sex for over a year when he found out what I had done. I guess men get turned on by it!

Not trying to steal FSTOPs thread cindyuk,but how did you feel when you started cheating.Could do with a few good tips to try a bit more persuasion.

Thanks in anticipation


Apologies FSTOP,I'll get back to you with my wifes escapades.

I was scared and also ashamed of myself but I could not stop myself. when I was found out he was bothered but when we started having sex again he would dwell on my indiscression, and it seemed to fuel his passion. At first he would call me names to make me feel guilty as we had sex then he wanted to know details. Then he would try to tell me he was Ok with it all. But, all the sex would revert to talk of my "crime" and he would go wilder and wilder as if trying to prove something. I better stop now I too am sorry to have interrupted your thread FSTOP

keep going cindyk I want to hear more

Yeah.I remember that feeling well.Although I'd seen my wife indulging herself on a few occasions,there was still an awful lot that I'd missed so I used to try and get her to talk about it.She was nearly always embarrassed and would clam up when it got to the finer details apart from once when she really got carried away and ended up telling me everything.I swear she was on the point of orgasm on that one occasion and stood in the middle of a crowded pub at that.
From my point of view,everything she described cut like a knife but was absolute bliss to hear.That was the part she couldn't get her head round.
I witnessed her a few more times and it just kept getting better and better but once I asked her to do it for me,it all stopped and I've been trying to get her back into a situation ever since.
Please tell us more cindy.It'll be much appreciated.
FSTOP,where've you gone?

I think it's common for women to stop their indiscretions once we say it's OK in the 'cheating' situations that are being described here. My thinking is based on the notion that one of the biggest turn ons for them was the taboo part of it. Now that you take the taboo part away the behavior has no meaning - (perhaps - just thinking out loud)

I would even venture to guess that when you ask for details you are really asking to now be included in her and her lover's intimate escapades which makes the affair not so intimate. It is for your pleasure that you are asking - not hers. The point of the affair had nothing to do with your pleasure. So perhaps again another reamister to stop the 'cheating'.

I say this because I was once in an open relationship where my wife asked me the details of the woman I was with. As hot as you might think that sounds, it was just plain strange to do. It almost felt like I was cheating on the woman I had the fling with by describing her in bed.

The final reamister, which is probably a lot more realistic, (but I am still just thinking out loud here), is you are paying your wife a lot more attention? Having more sex with her because now you know she can be a hot sex kitten? Getting turned on by her indiscretions and then having at her.

I don't know. Food for fodder.
Vancouver BC, Canada

Very good point Dick Diva.I suppose that you could say the moral of the story is to keep ones nose out of what she sees as possibly a wickedly romantic event for her enjoyment only.Maybe the odd nudge in the right direction is an option.
This event is one I've already described in a previous thread along with a few others which have happened since but it's not until you really get into the swing of things that other events can be recalled.I'll gladly share if anybody is really interested.
This account of what happened some time ago is what got me started into something that I would be enthusiastically willing to let carry on if only my wife would agree.It was just so horny too see played out.
My wife was,and still is,very attractive with,at the time,very dark shoulder length hair,ample bust,slim with great legs.Not long but incredibly shapely.Wherever we went,you could be assured that some horny sod would try it on,which I always found to be great because it would get her in the mood for later.
Anyway,an old schoolmate of mine,whom I hadn't seen for a few years,appeared on the scene having just finished his time in the navy.He tagged along with a group of us which nobody minded as he had a great sense of humour,so pretty soon he was just one of the gang and trusted by everyone.
Over the next couple of months,we became the best of mates and he would come and meet myself and my wife in the pub quite a number of times a week.Now at that time,I was playing a lot of football,sometimes till quite late so I asked Dave if he wouldn't mind picking up my wife(girlfriend at the time,though engaged),take her to the pub and I'd meet them later after footy.This of course was no problem as you might have already guessed.This arrangement became the norm very quickly with abolutely no arguement from S,my girl.)This set up carried on for about four months.What I didn't know was that S was being picked up far earlier than I'd thought and being taken for dinner before meeting up with me and also taken out on the nights when I didn't see her.
I didn't realise anything was going on until we all went to another mates birthday party.Everybody was getting steadily smashed during the course of the evening and having a redy good time. In the early hours of the morning,I was making my way upstairs to the loo.The stairs were of an open plan design so when you turned half way up,you could see through the stairs and into the living room.The sight that greeted me is one which I'll never forget.On the settee were my wife and Dave,her arms around his neck holding him tightly and kissing so passionately that they'd obviously gone beyond the stage were they gave a damn. Her dress had been pushed up exposing her wonderful stocking clad legs which she always wore without fail because of the effect they had on me.That night was no exception.Daves hand,in the meantime,was busy between her legs and tucked well inside her very small knickers.I could see the movement of his wrist as his fingers were slipping in and out of her.One thing I knew about Steph at that time was that though she looked and acted somewhat coyly,once all the right buttons had been pressed,she was up for anything.
Most of our mates were in the kitchen at the time but there were definitely a couple or so who must have seen what was going on and beat a hasty retreat and left them to it judging by the number of sympathetic looks and comments I received as they were leaving much later on.
As I have mentioned,S. would,given the right circumstances,go off like a rocket in places that most people would never dare even have their leg felt,so I could well understand that she wouldn't have given a flying fuck if anybody had been watching her while she was in the middle of a long orgasm or ten!
I was probably stood there watching for no more than two minutes but I felt no jealousy as such,just an in intense excitement which no description will ever justify.No doubt that she'd had her tits felt up as well as most of her clothing was ruffled.I went upstairs not quite believing what I had seen but knowing that I wanted to see more.When I eventually came back downstairs,S was in the kitchen chatting and smiling as though nothing had happened.
Had I been a bit more courageous,I could have got her to fuck Dave as we were actually staying at his house that night,but like a redy idiot,I brought up the subject as though it was an accusation of betrayal and not as a question of her own fantasies.She burst into tears thinking I was going to end things and was sobbing apologies.I didn't know how to handle it at all.How on earth do you suddenly tell the woman of your dreams that you would like to see her being fucked by another man,in the next bedroom,any time she felt fit.Sort of ,now,if you don't mind!!!
After I'd witnessed this event and told her so,I thought that was the end of the matter judging by her reaction.How wrong I was.

It's a bit strange how these feelings first come about.Before I started dating my now wife,I'd have gone ballistic if any of my previous girlfriends had gone behind my back but with her,it was an exhilarating experience.
The very first time I witnessed her with somebody else was at a family party.During the course of the evening,a few members of my family where asking whether I was okay.I had no idea why they were asking me this so frequently until I popped my head around the corner of the room the party was being held in.There she was,stuck in a rather passionate embrace with a mate of mine(whom I might add,did eventually get into her knickers on more than one occasion some time later).Although very embarrassed,I had a redy good hard on.What happened and how much I had seen was enough to set me off with the need to see her with others.
This all happened a long time ago,so much so,that I only recalled it when clearing out the loft space last year and happened to chance upon some diaries of my wifes.I must confess that temptation got the better of me and I sneaked a peek at them.Generally nothing in them apart from two events.One is the above,which by all accounts,she was absolutely mortified by what she had done.The other was a Friday night out with a friend of hers who was equally as fit.The two of them walking into a club would have looked devastating.
She was about 17 at this time.I told her that if she ever took a fancy to anybody she met then she should enjoy herself and not hold back.She said that she really couldn't dream of going with anybody else other than me and immediately changed the subject.Anyway,she went out the following friday and met up with a lad in the club whom she used to go to school with.I wasn't present to witness anything but a couple of my mates were there.Saturday morning,I recieved a call from one of them telling me he'd seen her in the club with this lad and described what they were getting up to.
Apparently,she'd been there about 30mins when John,her school friend started chatting.Soon they were dancing and having a great time.As the night wore on,they were getting more intimate and as my mate put it "They were really getting stuck into each other and going hell for leather".
At the sound of this,I was on the point of bursting.I could picture the whole scene.As I've said before,she always dressed for an occasion especially with her underwear, so John wouldn't have been disappointed by what he was about to see.
They did disappear for some time,so I was told,and then showed up about 1.30am.I did try to get a few details out of her at the time but she just clammed up.I don't think she quite believed that this was what I wanted.Probably thought there was some hidden agenda.
After this,nothing happened for a few years until a gang of us went to the pub one Saturday night.

She would often come out with a group of my mates.One lad,Bob,had always had the hots for her.(He was the one from the family party a couple of years earlier.He'd been discretely chasing her ever since that event and this was going to be his lucky night.We'd all spent the night in the pub and at closing time,Bob,my g/f,myself and another mate of ours,John,decided to get a few bottles of wine and go back to Johns house.This was about 11pm so by 2am,my g/f,having had her fill,was falling arelax.Bob and John were on their way out also.I was stretched
out on one settee while Steph was on the other.The other two were spreadeagled on the floor.Not being a great wine lover,I was still reamisterably sober but I was starting to flag.In the end I tried to get to relax.
Some time later,I awoke to a shuffling noise and opened my eyes a little to see Bob slowly making his way on his hands and knees towards my g/f.I made out I was still fast arelax but kept on watching as Bob reached my g/f and start sucking on her fingers.She murmured slightly and started to come round.Bob moved his attention upwards and started kissing her neck.This must have gone on for maybe a couple of minutes until she moved her arms around his neck and pulled him in for a full on kiss.Whether she actually realised where she was,I don't know,because she never once looked across to check on me.Bobs left hand by this time had been wandering all over her body and was at that time working its way up her skirt.I saw her hand come down to grab his wrist but I think by that time,it was too late.She did manage to stop him but only to be able to check if I was arelax or not.She got off the settee and quietly walked over.I,by this time,had closed my eyes but I could hear her breathing very close to my face.Eventually,she turned and moved away.I opened my eyes slightly to see her leading
Bob by the hand out of the room.
I waited for five minutes or so and then crept over to the door to see where they had gone.When I moved into the hallway,I could hear a slight moaning noise coming from the downstairs bathroom so I stood outside and listened in on the action.I was desperate to see what was going on but knew I had no chance.What I could hear though was just as good.Lots of low moaning coming from my g/f,the rustle of clothing as it hit the floor,Bob telling her to bend over.It was all I could do to stop myself bursting in.They must have been in there for half an
hour or so.She wouldn't have thought twice about me waking up because she was under the impression that I was completely off my face on wine.
I listened in on her cumming probably 3 or 4 times,although it was difficult to tell while they were trying to keep the noise down.Finally,I heard Bobs low moan as he came in her which set her off again.
I made my way back to the lounge and settled myself down and waited for their return.They came back in about 10 minutes later and both fell arelax on the settee.
To this day,she still doesn't know about that
night.Soon after this she got to know Dave,whom I've written about in previous posts.
Reading through this,it would certainly appear as though she was out to get herself laid at the drop of a hat but it takes a lot to start off the process(with the exception of John)
She's never really set out to flirt with anyone.She's always been as happy to stay in and watch tv as she has about going out clubbing.Even if she was approached in a club or pub,she'd just be courteous and sociable.If,on the other hand,they were charming and humourous and we
bumped into them again,then she may have opened up a little and start to warm to them.This could go on for a while until she was completely at ease.Then there would be the possibility of something happening.

Well as I have recently posted, my wife cheated on me 2 weeeks ago, whilst she didnt tell me, she didn't really try very hard to hide it either. The mixed feelings I am currently felling are on teh one hand a huge rush as you call it, but also feeling hurt and inadquate too as its become clear that I dont satisfy my wife sexually.

I was cheated on by my wife for the first ten years of our marriage. She had a series of affairs and a number of one-night stands. I only learned of this later after I discovered one of her infidelities. When she came clean, I was hurt and even thought about divorce, but my love for her was stronger. Eventually we settled into a cuckold/hotwife relationship where she agreed to tell me when she went out with other men.

My wife's telling me all the details only lasted a couple of years before she admitted that part of the thrill for her was the "cheating" aspect. So now we have a don't ask, don't tell relationship. She normally tells me all the details, but she has no obligation to do so. Sometimes she will tell me much later about a guy she fucked, or how her "shopping trip" was really spent at a friend's apartment. I've gotten to the point where I am completely comfortable with her behavior and the uncertainty is part of the thrill.

Subster...was this your ex wife or girlfriend?