Can a cuck, bull?

I must admit, I'm ambivalent about the whole cuck lifestyle, especially after reading some of the 'Ultimate' posts. Don't get me wrong, I'd love to see my wife pleasured by another man. Yet, I'm not sure whether it's purely voyeuristic, or otherwise. As far as seeing a man cum inside her, it does turn me on, but pregnancy--maybe in fairy tale-land but not on your life otherwise.

My wife is a hottie...extreme hottie. I'll add some pics. Seeing her body being pleasured has always been a fantasy, and I think my cuck-curiosities come from taking these ideas to an extreme. I appreciate the asthetic of seeing a large cock fucking a woman. At just over 6" I know I'm average.

However, my wife is more or less submissive, and I love domming her, and she cums plenty when I do. The thought of domming another man's wife get's me hard every time, endowment aside.

My question is, can a cuck be a bull? I mean, as long as it's clear 'role playing' is involved, I don't think I'd have issues cleaning my wife after she's been fucked. I think I'd be fine with helping her bull get hard for round two. But the total presentation thing is not my thing (e.g. offense), in fact, I enjoy the reverse at times (i.e. domming)--I just fine subbing more relaxing.

We are currently organizing an intimate encounter with another couple. While I want him to fuck my wife, and make her feel hot and beautiful as she deserves, while I watch, conversely, I'd love to do the same to his wife, who, ironically, finds him to be too big. Love to hear anyone's thoughts on this.

I'm posting a couple of pics of my wife--you'll see she deserves as much pleasure as the world, with all it's bulls, can offer.

Problem is if you are a true cuck you would not have the true stones to be a bull. A bull must havethe total satisfaction and domination of the couple he is working with. Bobby

I shared alot of my thought and talked in depth about my wife and I-posted a few pics on another thread but I can really relate to this thread and thought I'd share here too.

I have both dominant and submissive tendencies- I would love to share my wife with a well hung "bull" - I can see taking a more submissive role in that situation- but usually I dont fuck my wife like a submisive- I have had my fair share of lovers in my lifetime and I dont think any would consider me a sub or a sissy. That isnt a prerequisite to a kinky lifestyle of wife sharing is it?

I admit I get off on the idea of her being fucked with a big cock and getting into it in a way she might not with me- we fantasize about things like machinehead mentioned in his post-But I'm still her man- I read gets alot of guys off here on being humiliated and/or denied- that's great if that's your thing but that wouldnt work for me- Im willing to share her sweet pussy but she's still my woman- always will be and if someone cant respect that they can fuck off- just caue Im kinky and god didnt bless me with a large cock does not take away from me as a man- just means I couldnt be a porn star- No wait- I could do cuck porn

I get off on kinky sex- get off on pleasure- both giving and receiving- my wife is my best friend and is going to be on this ride through life with me many more years I hope- I dont want to GIVE her to another man but I am willing to share her with the right one if it brings pleasure into our life.

BTW machine head-your wife is HOTT!!!

I am the proud owner of two cuckolded slaves yet one will play the bull for another at times.

Neither has a tiny dick either.

Mistress C.

I feel the exact same way! good to know I'm not the only one.

I find great arousal and fulfillment in both roles.

Several females have delighted in me arranging situations where they indulge in activities they would not normally countenance..(sex with a stranger in various places, cars, parks, etc, or having them tied up and blindfolded, touched and adored by silent males.)

I also have several couples who love to have me play the role of the second male, with all the attendant duties..

So, I reckon you can be both, and there's no hard and fast definitions that make any practical sense...we can all be different things at different times, and that's the interest and excitement, isn't it?


Pilgrim54

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Pilgrim

It depends. How's that for a definitive answer? Seriously, it does depend. The stereotype of the Bull/cuck/hot wife is that the bull has a huge cock, the cuck is small and the wife wants to be a submissive slut for the Bull, while dominating the cuck. Maybe this works for the multitudes on here and it probably is the "fantasy" for most, which is what a large part of this board is.

However, the reality for many is more complex. I have been the "Bull" for two couples. I do not have a huge cock--just average. One of the couples was disappointed, said it didn't fit their image, so we only met once. The other couple was deeper. What they wanted was another man--me--to make love to the wife with the husband's knowledge. Truth is, I was being used to fuel their sex life and what mattered most to them was the wife was being had by another man. I didn't degrade her, call her names, power my cock into her ass. I just used her body for pleasure, while tossing a few verbal grenades at her husband. Obviously, without a large cock, I couldn't use him for his lack of prowess, but I could remind him that I was using her for my pleasure and she was getting pleasure from me that she didn't get for hubby. Probably not even true, but we play the game, the roles, etc. For them, it is about enhancing their sex life. For me, it is about enhancing my sex life. I don't walk the planet earth thinking I am a superior male. I am normal, but if a couple wants to play, and we hit it off I can help give them what they want because I understand the dynamics.
So, the answer to the question of could I reverse my role and be a cuck, the answer is yes, as long as it was sexually fun and gratifying. It is roleplay, not who I am 24/7.
Don't know if this makes sense, and I am not going to proofread it. Hope it helps.
alamodom

Great responses! The prevailing image on this site is a group of wimpy cucks and a bunch of uber-macho bulls, neither of which I empathize with. What I'm reading here is what I like to think the whole adventure is about: it is indulging in fantasy, using tools such as role playing. Alamodom your reply was very enlightening, and I love that attitude, and the fact you seem grounded in the reality of the situation. Great responses...thanks for all so far.

MachineHead,

I am a cuck and a bull simultaneously - so like you I don't empathise with the extreme stereotypes. I have a thick curved 6.5" which is above average (despite what some people say) but my wife fucks other guys and I know she wants it as big as she can get it. I fuck other women and single chicks. Its all fun!