Is it REALLY cuckolding?

I posted the same question on another board as I'm interested in getting some thoughs on where do you make the differences between cuckolding and voyeurism?

I cuckold my man because I have to. Sex is very important to me, I have a very high sex drive, a lot of stamina and for me those needs have to be satisfied. The man that I�ve fallen in love with has a small penis and try as I have to make things work the fact remains. To make a real long story short, I ended up taking a lover and yes my boyfriend is fully aware. My point is if my boyfriend could satisfy me sexually, there would be no need to cuck him in the first place. When a guy is hung and wants to watch his wife fuck another man I guess I just don�t understand how you can call him a cuck. In my opinion that is voyeurism and I have no problem with that. I�ll be the first to admit that being watched is erotic and also a turn on. To me a cuckold is someone that you�re involved with but will no/do not have sex with, period. If you wanna call him a cuck just because he gets sexual pleasure from watching his girl fuck another man I call that voyeurism. I guess for me the definitions of the words are hard to separate.
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I don't think it matters at all if you are having sex with the cuckold or not. To me what makes the difference is the way it is handled. If one just enjoys watching their partner with others then yes, that is voyeurism. However if along with that one wishes for, or gets pleasure from, the presentation to either the women, man, or both... if they desire to feel that feeling of offense and such, then that is what I would consider a cuckolding relationship
Happy when humiliated for a woman's pleasure.

Does your husband always watch or do you see your lover alone sometimes.

My lady and I do have sex, but she does take other lovers for satisfaction, but doesn't let me watch. She just gives me the details later.

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I do not often witness first hand the encounters of my beloved and much like you she has a high sex drive and stamina. My lowly self being of an acceptable size; after many years with Her also, one can not help but become more than competent providing contentment. (Don�t get me wrong� I would of course be completely useless to any other , I am specifically for her and it is her pleasure that excites me.)
Loving the bloom, novelty and the freshness of things my adored is taken by things much like the smell and feel of the one she chooses; of him; his car his place his bed his confident touch in his own territory etc. All things difficult for my attendance, aside of the fact, for us, that, not many guys have been, for various reamisters comfortable with me being there.
Does this make Her a cheater and am I a voyeur vicariously?
Our sexual preferences have remained a fair constant throughout our relationship and still, "cuck&bull" is all new to me really and I would be also interested in my nomenclature VelvetFantasy
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I think the meaning of the word is whatever you want it to be. When you communicate with your partner and use the word cuckold, it refers to a group of behaviors. This group of behaviors is defined by the two of you.

On this site, there is disagreement over what it means. Philosophically, the word is not the thing. There is an old zen proverb about the word "moon" the word is not the moon. It is just a word. It will mean a different thing to each and every permister.

Same with cuckold and other words. The meaning of words evolves. Words are an inefficient means of attempting to describe reality. The word is not the reality.

Whatever it means to you and the permister to whom you deliver the word is what it means. That is why communication is so difficult.

I think they call it Denotation and Connotation. The denotation of the word is its strict definition. The Connotation is the way it is interpreted, depending upon the perspectives of the sender and receiver.

Cuckold to me and my honey might or might not include BBC. Our definition is our definition. Because it is different than yours does not make either of us incorrect.

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I will make you crazy.

lol jacana... I think that was well said
Happy when humiliated for a woman's pleasure.

[i]It seems you do a sharp right turn in the iddle of your manifesto. Words do change their meaning over the years. But cuckold has held its meaning for 600 years at least. Implicit in the explanation is that the husband may or may not be aware of his wife's cheating behaviour.

It is only my idiocyncratic view but I cannot see the word lending itself to describing MMF sexual encounters where their is a married coupe with another male and all three are unvloved. This has more to do with sexual offense and domination of the sissy husband (wish there were some other words to describe him) and is not purely voyeuristic.

An open marriage where a loving couple may have extra marital relations that each other knows about isn't strictly cuckoldry either. But because a phenomenon has no precise name shouldn't preclude it from being valid or even very enjoyable!!

I thing dogging (in the UK sense of the word) is probably driven by a penchant for voyeurism. The Italians have for centuries institionalized the implicit promiscuity of their wives by acknowledging the cavalierie servente (the accretided lover) but have been quite ruthless in their dealings with unfaithful wives who have unaccredited studs as it were.

We can argue about the exact definition and application of the selected words but we should not question the consensual activities of people.