Am I in the right place

I have a fantasy of seeing my wife with another guy - more muscular and definitely with a bigger dick. I am not in to being humiliated. I want to either be present, or at least hear every detail afterwards. I still want a sex life with my wife as well. Anyone she is with should be 1 to 2 times at the most. no long term relationship.

Is this the right site for me? It seems like most guys here like getting fucked over royally by people that supposedly love them. I want this to enhance my relationship with my wife, not end it!

I dunno,.. I'm with you man.

I'm more of a swinger than a cuck. I am always involved in the action even if I'm not present she'll let me know before and after.

Alot of people here post," oh it's been 6 months with no sex with my wife etc,....Fuck that, if I'm not getting any sex, bitch is getting kicked to the curb. I know some people get off on offense and that's their right but not me, and mofo disrepects me or the wife his nuts wont be working anymore.

I find if you remain here you'll just be choosy on the posts you read, after all wife getting a little on the side is HOT, she doesn't give it up to you/me anymore,.NOT hot

I'm in the same group as you, I like to see hot chicks go crazy on a big cock, but I'm not gay and I like to be in control of things. I get pleasure from watching hot chicks get off, and most chicks I have been with have big cock fantasies, or multiple cock fantasies - so it works out well for everyone involved.

I definately want in on the action, and I am more than capable of pleaseing a woman without any help. In fact my chick had brought home other hot chicks every now and then and I was always able to fill both orders.

I don't think that a man can hold onto a hot chick if he is submissive or allows himself to be humiliated, but what do I know. I wouldn't worry too much if you are exploring with your wife as a couple as you are directly involved and you are in control of the situation. Letting her run wild or have a boyfriend, in my opinion, is a very bad idea. Same goes for letting her run around with a slutty girlfriend.

You are right in not letting her see guys more than a few times, most women get emotionally attached to sexual partners so you have to keep the intamacy level to a minimum. Having the guy cum in her face every time they have sex works well at making sure that things end on a purely sexual note.

We agree with all of your comments so far. My partner always lets me have sex with her whenever I want and especially before and after she has sex with other men! She would definitely not want to see me humiliated and nor would I! I am always present in a threesome with her when she meets other guys.

At the end of the day we all have our different needs and I'm sure some guys enjoy being humiliated but its not for us. Perhaps we are not the classic cuckold couple and my partner would be called a "hot wife." Just thought you'd like to hear our experience. Good luck and do what feels right for you.

Sounds like there are other here that think like me. The only difference is, it sounds like you're living you dream. I'm still working out how I get the misses in to this as well. I've been thinking about it a lot lately and it's definitely time to bring it up. However, the misses can't even admit to me that she's enjoyed sex with others in the past, even though I know she has. I think she thinks that her desires are wrong, and she can't admit them, even though during sex she can really open up. She then just denies it afterwards.

There are a lot of types here. Sounds like you're in the right place to me. Welcome! ;)
Cleaning up is the best part!

Well said, Thug.
Cleaning up is the best part!