.....i've been reading this forum for some months now and have discovered that my situation is not as unique as i first thought.
.....a little background...we've been married for over thirty years both in our mid fifties...have a great marriage....about ten years ago we started our hot wife activities met some great guys had some great times......three years ago, after splitting with a bull we had been playing with exclusively for over a year(he moved away) my wife seemed to lose interest in the lifestyle.
.....i posted new ads at a few sites and, as in the past, my wife would peruse the responses and decide who we meet.... well, after a year of numerous responses, none of which met my wife's liking, it dawned on me there may a deeper reamister as to why she is no longer is into the lifestyle.
.....there doesn't seem to be any one thing i can put my finger on as to why she no longer wants to cuck me..... when i talk to her about it she says she is sill interested just hasn't found the right guy yet....keep in mind, to this day she still reads the replies, mostly at my request but not always, and says she's still interested....
.....also, i detect no tension when we do discuss the situation...leaving me equally confused...she tells me 'she's still looking'
.....i've gone over all this in my mind and am still at a loss...nothing has changed with her/our relationship.....she hasn't put on weight...her appearance is the same...nothing medical is going on...i thought for a while she may have fallen for our last bull but after doing a little research found there's been no contact with him at all, he has moved on....
.....i guess my question is, am i missing something?...any ideas, advice, help in this would be greatly appreciated....i really do feel i'm missing something here
