Wife wants to backtrack from being a cuckoldress ????

I am in a confused state of mind, I have been a cuckold to my wife for last 3 years and have had many beautiful moments among us involving other bulls. But now suddenly out of the blue she says that she doesnt want to continue like this any longer.

What should I do, how to react?

My normal reaction had been of a shock, as I had loved the way we were living, but then how to handle the situation now. I dont know how to cope up with this withdrawl now.

Please guide, If anyone of you have faced similar situation. Please tell me how to deal with it
jackofclubs

What happend ? people got to know oyur way of living? to much to bear ? or did she simply not like fucking other men...just did it to please you ??
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

No, No one came to know. She also loved whenever she went out (as she always said that to me). Now she says that she feels as if she is following a non moral way of living. OR What is the end of it?

She also says that she feels that she feels being used by other men (thinks that when she is not in the so called Hot mood)

She is also saying that if she continues, it will be for just pleasing me. Now this is totally unacceptable to me.

And I am dreading even the thought of making love to her, without fantasizing or talking about a third man.

I am shocked
jackofclubs

Strange, but no one has the answers
jackofclubs

if she wants to slow dow.. then slow down... how would you even think anyone here could do anythig other than guess??

Maybe she just doesn't like it anymore.
It's something you need to respect. You can't power her to be fucking others... if she doesn't want it live and cope with it. There are more important issues in life and relationships, than just the sex-part ;)

We were in the lifestile for 25 + years, started off swinging and swapping, and finished up more so M F M 3/somes then cuckolding but I still got off on it a lot when she would go and get fucked by other guys and comr home and tell me all about it while we fucked, she slowly went off it and their was nothing I could do about it, it has stopped compleatly now as she says she's to old for it (we are in our 60's) but to be honist I really don't think I have to much to complain about after 25 + years, I would not hazzard a guess as to how many guys she has experenced in that time, and we still have a happy sex life between ourselvs.

Let her do it. Perhaps she wants a break.
She left me for another man and
divorced me. Haven't heard from
her since. Would love to know the fun she's having and what she's telling him about me.

"[i]And I am dreading even the thought of making love to her, without fantasizing or talking about a third man."

Maybe she just wants you to desire her for herself. It was a problem for my wife that a third was always part of our love life even when we were alone. She wanted to be desired by me. Not just desired because of a sex act or scene with another man. It was difficult for me to break that pattern, very difficult in fact, of bringing up other men when we had sex.

;) i think you have to accept the way she is, if she doesn't like the cuckolding lifestyle but you love her, you must find another ways to please her, the most important thing is that you must accept her decisitions and be suportive
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You are absoulutely right friend, I had an open discussion with her yesterday and came to realise that she does want me to desire her. Now I probably will have to do something to break the pattern as you might have done.

Married Dom

You are also upto the point, yes she has had a scare from the last episode of hers, and is truly scared, she might not be openly admiting to that but I can feel it in her talk. and also she since last one month is feeling unattractive because of gain of weight, and she has started working on that. She also said that she needs to look beautiful to go out.

and yes, xyzzyx i think she wants to slow down or have a break. I will certainly do that.

Thanks all of you, you have all been of such a great help, I couldnt have imagined to have such wonderful responses to my problem.

The kind of lifestyle we live and the problems associated with this cannot be discussed with family or known friends, It is this place and forums like this one that one can find friends with same wavelength and experiences.

Thank you MrBigCuckold for making such a wonderful site.

Thank you all
jackofclubs

Dear jackofclubs,

This happens! We are not robots and women are not sex machines (but we all love it when they are!).

I am a cuck/bull. Two weeks back I nailed a married woman without her husband's knowledge and the sex was incredibly hot. I was seriously worried that the woman in question might become a bit dependent on me. Instead she told me that she felt guilty about it, and that her hard working husband (and man of her one mister) did not deserve to be cheated on.

I think in my case is that the sex was a great relief for the woman in question, but having scratched that itch, she wants to go straight again. Sex with me gave her some much needed "orgasm by cock", validated her as a sexy woman who still cut it etc. I am just hoping that a few weeks with her sexless, needledick hubby will bring on that slightly shy, tail between legs phone call i want!!

In your case - who knows? Sex is so complex in our western society. I don't think it should be - but it is.

Dear experimenter

I think I understand your view point as well, I feel that my wife is undergoing a complex thought process in her mind, where she is confused between what is right and what is not. She does get "hot" a lot and then she probably wants to go for anything (which is what I love) but maybe there is that hidden woman in her who just wants to be loved, admired and satisfied by her hubby .

Maybe this is just a passing phase, and maybe it is not. I just hope that everything returns back to the way "We" liked.

I will have to walk a very thin line whenever having sex with her, I need to control myself and probably talk about only the things which she wants to hear (for the time being it has to be just us and no third permister).

I have a question for the forum

Is there any cuckoldress in the forum who has experienced such kind of emotional disturbance (or the feeling of guilt)? and what did they do to overcome such a situation?
jackofclubs

Well jackofclubs,

Sounds like you have had a good life experience. No need to look at the glass as half empty. I am friends with a girl who was being pushed into having more and more affairs and went along with it all. She warned her cuckhubby that she probably should stop for awhile. But he kept pushing. Their relationship soon ended and she is now a full time hoe with a Black Master pimp.

You should have plenty of memories, pics/movies to relish. If that isn't enough then maybe you need to let her go.

Dead Jack,

I've been sharing my gf with other men for a while. In general, we love it, but she loses interest when (1) the gains a pound or two, (2) she doesn't think she looks good, or (3) she thinks that I don't love her for her. When she thinks that she looks good and she feels that I love her, she asks me when she can be with another guy again.

Paul
pb

I think you are right paulbranton

she seems to be getting back as she has lost a few pounds and is feeling better. Lets hope for the best.

PS: she is planning something on her own now, has not told me as yet, but i guess so
jackofclubs