I'm rather new to this scene and this is my first post! I was hoping for ideas on teasing and denial games & ideas as well as fantasy talk to get my girlfriend started. We've touched upon teasing and denial, such as her saying that she might flirt with other men we know (she's mentionned specific guys though hasn't really done any flirting yet) and she's obviously wanted to tease me when pointing out how handsome some men are to me.
I've never actually mentionned to her that the above turns me on no end but I'm sure that from my feeble riposte and obvious lack of real concern combined with the fact that in my reply I try to keep her on the subject i'm sure she knows that I'm deriving pleasure from her remarks.
During fantasy talk late at night we have also spoken about me wearing some chastity device when we're not spending the night together (we don't live together). The idea of it really turns her on which has got me very excited as well!
The great thing is that she has initialised all this by herself without any input from me which means that she will probably want to take this further in time and additionally, wanting to be submissive, it's much more exciting for me if she takes all the initiatives and hopefully it would mean that she directs things exactly how she wants to (which of course is the whole point of it)...after all the main factor in my fantasy is that she is loving every minute of it!
That is as far as it has got for the moment and we haven't even mentioned cuckolding yet as I'm not sure she is even ready for it as a fantasy for now but I would like to encourage her in this direction eventually even if it take a few years! That's why for now I was hoping to get some input from more experienced members of this forum who would have ideas for sexual play.
I know this is quite vanilla compared to most posts on this website but we have to start somewhere and it seems that I have to proceed step by step as a lot of women have taken quite a bit of persuading before going the whole way to cuckolding and denial play according to most posts here!
One aspect that turns me on and I hope I can introduce soon would be the destruction or eating of my cum after being powerd to masturbate or having been masturbated. Has anyone done this? How has it then been destroyed or conserved and fed to you/him?
Another is being bound and handcuffed to something I can't escape from in the bedroom whilst my girlfriend goes about the flat possibly having a friend over to chat without her knowing i'm locked up in the bedroom (a girl friend of hers for now but I would leave it open in case she invited a guy over but as I said before I very much doubt she would go for that for now) or better still whilst she goes out one evening.
One post on this website I read recently I really liked the sound of and will try to incorporate into our play some day was having to massage her back both of us lying on the bed, her with her back to me, all the while flirting on the phone to a handsome alpha male friend of hers occasionally moving her hand behind her back to masturbate me a little. The post also mentionned that I would have to lie there in silence listening to them as of course her friend wouldn't know that I was there at all. I think she might go for this as it's only flirting and she won't think of it as anything more for now anyway
I would love to hear from anyone who has any ideas or comments or happens to be in the same "starting out" situation as I am
