Leaving husband for bull - need advice

I know it's drastic but this couple of weeks i've been seriously thinking about leaving my husband for my lover. My husband wasn't OK about it when we first got together but somehow put up with it, a loss of face that only really led me further into my lover's arms and bed. I've been spending more and more time at my lovers place to the extent where lots of my mail is now delivered there. This has increasingly been the situation since before christmas and whilst i do still talk to my husband it's my lover who enjoys me exclusively. I'm beginning to think about the possibility of moving in with him properly. He changes his mind from day to day which makes me unsure how to proceed. I really do need some advice.

I suppose i'm wondering of anyone else here has been naive enough to do what i'm seriously thinking about. I'm giving up a lot and it's honestly not just a sex thing although to begin with obviously it was. please advise

I suppose i'm wondering of anyone else here has been naive enough to do what i'm seriously thinking about. I'm giving up a lot and it's honestly not just a sex thing although to begin with obviously it was. please advise

Keep this in mind. As a bull, I probably would never marry a hotwife i was fucking. So maybe you should leave your husband, but don't expect much with where you are going.

I've been aware of that. Leaving my husband would mean a massive lifestyle drop but since going black, i simply find my old neighbourhood intolerable.

Loverx

I have been in this situation - I don't want to go into this here. But if you want some advice, contact me at [email protected]

I am the bull that the wife left her husband for.

As soon as you move in with your bull he stops being your bull, and will lose interest.

Most bulls don't want to marry the women they fuck. I certainly can't tell you what to do, thats is your own, exclusive choice, but.........follow your heart.
She left me for another man and
divorced me. Haven't heard from
her since. Would love to know the fun she's having and what she's telling him about me.

I assume when you say "he changes his mind," you mean your boyfriend. If that is the case, I wouldn't do it. Think of it this way - take hubby out of the equation. If you were dating someone, would you ditch your own apartment and stuff and move in woth them if they ran hot and cold and weren't sure they wanted you to? I advise you do not go until and unless your relationship with the bull moves to commitment. When he shows up with a ring, then you have a decision to make.

In the meantime, just keep playing it out. THe bull might find it hot to have you leave your husband for him, but if he isn't interested in commitment, he'll eventually tire. Also you may. Keep giving your husband enough hope that he doesn't walk and you'll have somewhere to go back to when the affair burns out. (And you'll need a perch from which to launch the next affair!)
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

If you are a hot wife and do move in with the Bull....
How long will it be before you wanna start playing the Hotwife again????
Will the Bull you are living with put up with it???

so move bitch... what is there to think about?

I had a few bulls try to take my wife from me but in each instance she asked them, "Well, r u ready to become the cockold, because I assure you I will always want to fuck other men. It's just who I am." Of course both said no and my wife told them I was more of a man than they were because I was secure enough to allow her her freedom.

thanks so far. I've given it lots of thought and while continue to see my lover I will ultimately remain with my husband who respects my decision. My husband and I don't relax together of course and he does enjoy seeing me dress to see my lover but at the moment I won't let him even touch me after i've been taken by my beautiful black brutus.

Sounds like you ***d the rule of include your husband in your play...

BAD HOT WIFE!!!!
HIT1969

am writing this on my brutus' comp. he loves idea of you suggesting ways to please me. never tried posting like that here. not sure how it would work. my hubby does look at the site though so i myself would like to give him something to read. My huddy's name is Ian, mine is Yvonne and my brutus is called Samuel.

This could be interesting. lol.

Ps, hope you enjoy this Ian.

Let's see a pic... Are you worth all this trouble?
HIT1969

loverx
you should do it
my ex did it to me and still teases me about it

Don't leave your husband, this would change every aspect of the whole relationship and the whole thing would probably fall apart. You would be left with no husband and no bull.......Please don't do it, bad idea.

This is a true story. My story. My wife left me for the other guy.

Here's what she got out of the deal. A kid and no marriage. And the guy she left me for dumped her, and isn't supporting the kid.

You want that?
She left me for another man and
divorced me. Haven't heard from
her since. Would love to know the fun she's having and what she's telling him about me.

my wife left me for a black bull; she is much happier now, and is entirely his and has converted from a prim and proper monogamous existence with me, to become a fully-owned slave and promiscuous slut for her bull master.

you should stay with husband. Keep fucking the bull. If we get to close it fucks cuckolds brownie up!

Hi, my wife has falling i love with her bull... And I have to suport her i her feelings for him...

I feel like more like a "girlfriend" and her husband...!

david
We are a Cuckold couple from Sweden, like to talk to cuckoldcouples...

My wife have a bull...

I'm by no means a bull, a male unicorn more like it. I am there to assist, not to get entangled, which she knew. My neighbors wife started up with me one haloween, I was there for her (and for myself) but not for him, and for that I'm sorry. She wanted more, and I made sure she knew how I felt. 2 months later she's moved out and he's moved to his parents across the country. While I was there for her (again, yes for myself too) She started asking for more. I backed off, I checked up on her via friends a few months later, she'd gone through 6 other guys and was still unsatisfied..

Ladies, if your unsatisfied with your man, you may wish to leave him 'cause the grass seems greener, but don't expect the next guy to be there for you in ways he use to be..

Mind you, if your unsatisfied with your monogamy, but can connect with others WITH your man's consent, there is something special if you can find it... I hear locked chastity helps certain husbands reconnect with their wives in ways they boyfriends can't satisfy.. wink
Calgary coerced asexual 2016, wishing to be more, useful..