Next step?

Hey all been a long time lurker on this site, and have always wanted to watch my GF have sex with another guy or two. Anyway we both got takes the other night and got talking about what turns each other on. IO said what would really turn me on would be a threesome or to watch her have sex with someone else. she got really embarressed, however i pressed the issue. She finally admited that she has always wantd to go to an orgy, but she said she could not stand to see me with anothr girl. I saud thats fine i just would love to see her with another guy. thats where the conversation ended, however later on she said "Well the same thing turns us both on!". She also said since she is not single thats why she hasnt dome one. I dont know but it seems i could possibly be on th right track. WHat should be my next step? any body have any comments? we live in southern mass she is 22 and curvaciously beautifull, th best ass i have ever seen.
By the way i posted in basic and only got one reply, i am very interested and would love to know how to go through with this

Sounds like your on the right track, and it sounds like she'll be up for it. Just be patient and try to let her be in control so she's comfortable with the whole thing. I'd start with encouraging her to dress a little slutty and to flirt. This could be with friends or strangers at parties, bars, clubs, restaurants or stores. If she looks real good and is flirting, soon enough someone that she really wants will hit on her and she will let her desires take over.

yup, hang in there and in 20 years she wil try it!

its usually a l o n g slow process unless you married a whore...

Got a tiny wee bit cynical from experience too, huh?
Well, luckily not all women are the same. And I promise, Baalphire, there are more possibilities than only good, behaving citizens on the one hand and whores on the other. I'd say what you tell us is fairly optimistic and there's definitely cause for a next step.
What that step would be? I think you can answer that question better than any of us. You know her. I do think it might help to talk about the subject, as much as possible (but not too much), try finding out what triggers her, fantasize together and perhaps just boldly invite her to a club or something where people not tend to keep their clothes on.

Good luck to the two of you and please keep us informed!

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Hi Baalphire,

You might start by posting some pics of her (hiding her face). You might get some hits that way from potential bulls in Boston. I'd be interested, but married and in a vanilla (which is okay, I'm more into the fantasy of watching other men's wives getted fucked, not mine!!)

I have the theory that you should cultivate this, telll her when you are fucking her .... and see how she responds. Then you can post some stuff (yes, w. photos) together, and see the replies. Could also have her talk to strangers on IM or MSN, all kinds of ways to get her brain geared up - and enjoy it in theprocess
Panos
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So last night we had a big fight made up and were having makeup sex, she said lets put the porn on, i said ok! i then started going from behind and i said put it on whatver scene you want, she said ok and put it on the threesome scene i blew my load almost imediatly and then finished her with her dildo. i though this is moving along very well, however later she said it was kind of creeping her out that i was think of her with other guys so i wonder is this just a case of her catering to my fantasy because she loves me or does she actually want this kind of thing.
I will update later but at the moment i have decided i will lay off of th subject so at not to creep her out

I dont know about this i guess im just going to have to keep this a fantasy unless i can find some way of getting her inhibitions down

So here is an update for you all, we had a big heart to heart and after mulling all of this over she decided that maybe she wouldnt mind trying the swinging scene! as long as i dont freak out ala John leguizamo in Summer of sam i said oh come on thats not going to happen as the reamister i want this is to see you get pleasure from other guys and thats what turns me on, so this weekend i am going to try and get her online to look at swinger ads we have already started watching gangbang porns and she loves em as do I!

Baalphire,

You should also check out some of the downloads in the CuckoldPlace.com / XXX Pictures and Video post / Creampie Thread www.cuckoldplace.com/3_11437_26.html.

There are some vids there that show folks making love and having fun, not just having sex i.e. Rebecca and oops.

You might also want to try the massage/body rub route - the guy gives her a massage/body rub, and if she wants to, it goes further.
So few walk the walk!!
If I could have even 1 wife for every 100 dreamers, I would have a guy's wife every night!

Baalphire,

Be patient. I asked my GF for three years to fuck other guys and give me cream pie. As I write this right now, she is on a date with a guy who has been fucking her brains out for 5 months.

First, you should know that she was a slut before we started dating.

Second, she was horrified and disgusted when I first asked her to fuck othermen.

Third, after a while, as I explained myself and we watched MFM porn, she grew to like the idea. Last October, she finally picked up a guy at a party and fucked him twice -- bareback.

Now, she often thanks me for encouraging her to fuck other men. She can't believe that I am such a great guy because I let her do it, and she says it is wonderful. She LOVES to fuck him and then fuck me afterwards.

If she's a good woman, she'll come around.

Paul
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Thanks for your encouragement guys i think i am well on my way as tonight i have been promised uninhibited sex with fantasy!!!! and last night we watched a mfm porn and she gave me head while she rammed herself onto the dildo which was soo sooo hot but then she goes now your going to eat me out! and i mean now and i ate her till she came and she said to me after "wow that was much fun!" to which i replied well the only thing better would be th real thing!!!

I hope the two of you have fewer unrealized fantasies soon.
You also might want to explore what her unrealized fantasies are:
* a traditional 3-some where both guys share her.
* more of a cuckold scene where you give her to him then go down on her - you might get oral but her pussy isn't for your cock. Similar to what you two did last night.

You will find that the real thing is so much better. I really enjoy fun with couples either as a 3-some or a cuckold scene. Tt really helps expand their sensuality and sexuality. I find that there is nothing more intense for a couple than you telling her, and her telling you, "honey, you are the one I love" while she has an other man in her, doing her.
So few walk the walk!!
If I could have even 1 wife for every 100 dreamers, I would have a guy's wife every night!

Yeah i concur that would be incredibly erotic and i know she finds it incredibly hot to have two guys share her but i think honestly she doesnt want me to think she is a slut and will leave her
I tell her every day i wont but sometimes she just clams right up and wants nothing to do with it
I keep working with her to be uninhibited and she had indeed gotten more so. I think i will give it some more time then bring it up as that seems to be the tactic that works

maybe you can make this hapen in a trip or something... or get her takes & let her loose in a takes crowd: sooner or later she's bound to t turned on - and then, well, kiss it goodbye