Hello.... I am new here.

Is there anyone online who can answer some questions for me please??
This is my second attempt.
Please let me know if I need to ask questions in a different forum.
Thank you,
Dave

wanna_bcuck

The word "cuckold" originates from the Old French word "cucuault" (from cucu CUCKOO + pejorative suffix �ault) and was first used as an English verb in 1589. It was used either because the female cuckoo bird changes mates frequently or because she lays her eggs in the nests of other birds. Traditionally, a (human) cuckold was the object of scorn and derision; when it was discovered that a man's wife had found fulfillment in another man's bed, she was an adulteress and he was her cuckold. It was often said that he "left with his tail between another man's legs."

The dictionary defines a cuckold as "the husband of an unfaithful wife." In the context of alternative lifestyles, the cuckold occupies a position somewhere between the traditional definition and that of "swingers." The difference with the first definition is that today's cuckold is both aware of his wife's "infidelity" and is sexually excited by it; the difference with the second definition is that "swingers" are mutually involved, or at least approach the sex bed as equals, which is not the case with a cuckold. In plain English, a cuckold is a man who stands by and accepts his wife's infidelity, being sexually excited by her actions. He may have normal sexual relations with his wife part of the time, or he may accept that his wife has chosen another man to replace him completely in her sexual bed. The following themes, or any combination, may exist to explain a specific couple's cuckold relationship.

Being cuckolded is often a display of total submissiveness, with the added element being that at least one other permister, the lover, knows of the cuckold's role. Cuckolds may take pleasure in serving their wife and, in some cases, her lover as well. If a permister wishes to experience presentation, bringing breakfast in bed to his wife and her lover would surely fit the bill; and if he wants to feel dominated by his wife, having her tell him to leave them alone so they could make love undisturbed would be almost unbearably exciting! In addition, the knowledge that she can do whatever she wants with regard to sex, while he is restricted to only what she approves for him, is probably the ultimate in presentation. He turns over his genitals to her, while she offers no such commitment in return.

Many swingers and alternative-lifestyle adherents draw the line at offense, and reject it with disgust. Yet these same people will accept S&M play as understandable! Humiliation is, perhaps, simply a mental only form of S&M play. Why would someone choose to be 'disciplined,' and find it to be sexually exciting? If you can understand that, you can understand the lure of offense as a sexual stimulus. And if a man seeks to be humiliated, what could be more humiliating than seeing, or hearing, or learning of his wife choosing another man to bed? If the experience includes the wife acknowledging that her lover is better endowed, or a better lover than her husband, the offense is complete.

Yes, jealousy is a turn-on for cuckolds. In fact, it is probably one of the greatest ones, though few cuckolds have written about it. After all, look what he has lost: his wife's faithfulness, his wife's body (temporarily, if not permanently), his equality as a sexual partner, his dignity... and all these have been given to another man! When a cuckold feels jealous, he becomes very excited! It is true that there are not many opportunities in life to watch two people having sex. This is why home videos are so popular! But nothing can equal the real thing, and life in front of you... and so, inviting another man into your wife's bed will undoubtedly give the cuckold an incomparable front-row seat of the festivities.

Fear is a powerful aphrodisiac... the duality of being both afraid and excited can be what a body (and mind) requires to be supremely excited. A cuckold can fear, while being turned on by, the thought of being humiliated in front of his wife and her lover; he can fear being told he cannot cum for a specified and lengthy period of time. He can fear hearing sounds of pleasure from his wife that he never heard when she was in bed with him. Or, he can just fear and be excited by, the unknown. Many cuckolds acknowledge that they have no idea why this turns them on, but for most of us, it is a sexual fantasy of the most overpowering variety. Many cuckolds would rather watch his wife in bed with her lover than have sex with any woman on the face of the earth! So, like most sexual fantasy, we may be able to explain elements of the attraction, but we cannot explain it completely. Many cuckolds relate that they had no idea this turned them on, until their wife discussed a good-looking man, or related the story of a man making a pass at her. Suddenly, the husband gets a distinct message from a subconscious thread, and wonders what the hell is going on. That is a cuckold in the making!

While there are women who simply cheat on their husbands, this is not part of this article, as it is not a mutual decision. If you find out that your wife is cheating on you, get to a marriage counselor, or a lawyer! Many cuckolds describe years and years of asking their wife to have sex with another man. Usually, the wife opposes this, for several reamisters. First, it goes against everything that was promised in the marriage vows, and she cannot believe that it will do anything but ruin her marriage. Second, it is often threatening to the wife, as she assumes it is a pretext for the husband to have sex with other women (if you both want to do that, have fun; you're back in the "swinger" category, and this article is not about you). Third, many wives, especially once they are out of their 20's and no longer look like Barbie, worry that no other man will find them attractive, and they do not want to set themselves up for a disappointment. Finally, they worry, with good reamister, about all the mean, nasty stuff out there; bad people, bad vibes and most importantly, bad diseases. So, why do wives say yes? While some do it simply because their husbands are not satisfactory lovers, most begin only to satisfy their husband's burning desire to try this. Also, if they had few sexual experiences before marriage, they may be curious as to what else is out there, and if their sexual experiences have been somewhat tame, they wonder what all the talk is about!

Once the wife begins to see other men, it is another step, and often not an easy one, to cuckold her husband. After all, she loves the guy! If she does not love him, it's again time to head for the marriage counselor or the lawyer. It is hard to believe that her husband really wants her to like her lover more, or at least to like sex with her lover more; it is even harder to believe that he really wants to hear that from his wife. Usually, this part begins very slowly, as the wife hesitatingly relates the pleasurable details of her tryst to her husband..........

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ok, that helps.
I have been looking at the pics. My wife is a big older girl, and I think she is beautiful. Like most of the posts, I like to show her off, but I would like to know if her size would be offensive here? She has given blow jobs but never actualy had sex with anyone else since we have been married. so, from what I read here, I do not qualify as a cuckold?
Again, thank you for replying,
Dave

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thank you

Thanx,,,having been in a cuck relationship with my hub for over 20 years, and active on the net and in the lifestyle, it's nice to see someone has taken the time to write it down. I get so tired trying to eplain to men why I can't cuckold them. As for how this can excite a man it doesn't explain. In my hubs case (and I expect many others), it usually starts out on someone who is extremely jealous, suspects his wife is cheating, and pictures in his mind scenario after scenario. No matter what she says, the only time he can be sure that she's telling the truth is if she confesses, eventually it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. All that's missing is a detailed description for him to compare againsts his own scenarios, which have usually become masterbation material by this point. Finally, the ultimate satisfaction is to be right there in the room, to see exactly what transpires between them, how fully she gives herself to him, and what it is he does that could make her even want to be with him in the first place.