Wife let down by bull

My wife took a lover some years ago. He was a friend from work who offered to give her lifts to evening classes. It was some months before she let him fuck her but I knew what he was after and was unable to intervene for fear of pushing her into his arms. Don�t get me wrong, I�d fantasised about seeing her being fucked by another man but I didn�t want to loose her in the process.

They were fucking regularly by the time my wife told me about it. I think she was torn between leaving me for him and leaving our five kids and didn�t really know how to move forward. She made it clear that he was better than me in every respect. He smelt better, he was younger (10 years younger) and he had a large cock. She couldn�t feel my cock inside her but she could certainly feel his. They�d fucked in his car and while I was away on business in our bed. Once, when I�d gone over to Ireland, she�d got a baby sitter in to look after the kids for the night and they�d gone to a hotel where he�d fucked her three times before they went to relax together and then fucked twice in the morning. I�m unable to fuck more than once at a time.

After she told me told me what was going on she continued to see him and it was *** for me to know she was with him and being fucked by a young stud with a cock so much bigger than my four and a half inches. Eventually she gave me an ultimatum: accept that she had a lover who satisfied her or loose her. I agreed and she sent me out to buy new underwear as she wanted to look really good for the next night they were going to spend in a hotel. This time I would be the baby sitter left to imagine what was going on. She left early that night but he never turned up. She was devastated and all her confidence was shot.

Have other readers had to deal with this situation? I believe, though painful, I could have come to terms with my cuckold status and might even have been allowed to watch but it wasn�t to be.

I�ve thought about it a lot and would welcome her taking another lover but I don�t think she�d be prepared to go through the pain of rejection again and it�s thirteen years on and she�s put on weight and now has scars from two major operations which have reduced her confidence even further.

she got what she deserved.

ooze

Ooze, thank you for your comment. At the time, I know I did agree with you. One of her conditions for staying with me was that I was not to bad mouth her lover or in any way speak disrespectfully of him. His betrayal of her set me free, it also allowed me to ask for all the details. Even though it hurt to hear what they had done together it was a turn-on too. When she had recovered, our sex life was better than ever for a while. I got to fuck her every day for over a year. But some things had changed - she wouldn't let me go down on her (and she still wont) and she wouldn't give me a blow job (though now she does often).

She should have been up front with you from the start.
Just because she Cuckolds you does not mean she dose not love you.
It should be that she loves you and wants to stay with you. But also wants a lover,
Because she knows it would turn you both on.
I think ground rules need to be set down first.
If you both agree than go for it.
The fact she wanted to leave you means their is a problem in your relationship.
You need to fix that first.
Just my opinion you understand.
Hope all turns out well for you both.
Grin Like a Dog.

SlyDog
Hi Slydog

Appreciate your advice. I agree the cuckold lifestlye is more likely to be realised if both talk it through and set ground rules. Unfortunately, having been let down my wife is now like someone who has given up cigarettes, very much apposed to playing outside marriage.