what should I do?

martn, your making this a big deal and boring everyone with it, make up your mind. you have 2 choices:

1-either obey your wife and enjoy

2- or get the hell of your wives life and let her enjoy herself with danny

sorry if I am boring everyone

I for one am not bored.

I'm not sure how much help we've been for you, Martin, but I think I speak for the majority when I say thanks for sharing.

What is it like having to talk to Danny when he visits?

we don't talk very much at all. they just spend the time together

Hello, Martin..You really have an interesting story..and i am one of them who believe it is all true..but i wonder why u stopped sending messages anymore..what is going on? is Danny gone,yet? Could u talk to Julie? please keep us informed,dude..

I am starting to doubt the honesty of these posts, but there is no harm in giving advice if its true.

I'm a lurker here, but even I have to say something about this. Dump the bitch. Don't tell her, don't discuss it, don't give her any of the respect she hasn't even begun to show you. She's lied and fucked you over every way but literally. I'm not into the cuckold lifestyle myself but from what I understand its a mutual understanding from both parties - this doesn't sound like that at all.

She sounds worthless, and you sound even worse. Let her keep doing this and what happens - nothing. "She wants to have kids with you some day" and then what? Keep fucking around? What kind of kid would respect either of you, not to mention the mental anguish when they grow up. Stay with her you're going to end up worthless and alone, no kids no life no nothing. You'll die and that'll be it. No one will give a cuckolds brownie.

So pack your gear, get out and leave her to rot. You're 28 at least - you've got a life left ahead of you. Send her the divorce papers from a resort in Tahiti and start over. She can enjoy her life with Danny until he finds another girl. Fuck em.

Martin, take that fucking advice right there to heart dude. For real. Get the fuck out there, leave her ass and don't even bother with an explanation. I mean, is an explanation even needed anymore? She's going to leave you one day, and when she does you're going to feel a hell of a lot worse than you do now.

Get the fuck out of there. Your life sounds god damn miserable and why in the hell would you want to live like that? There are so many women out there....it's truly insane for you to be staying with this worthless whore.

martin,

any news ? lets see some pics of your wife

guys - it looks at last like it might be over with Danny.

Julia has gone up there this weekend but is staying with her sister. Aparently Danny has met another woman - he told my wife last night. She is seeing him tomorrow to talk things over. He told her that he would still fuck her as long as she did not tell the other woman. My wife said that she would not be prepared to do that. She told him that he can only fuck her if he has no-one else. Apparently he told her no way.

I think she'll be sad that it's all over. She was in tears last night. I do feel sorry for her but just maybe I'll get a chance again now to have sex with her - been nearly seven weeks now

Ok Martin this is a tricky spot so I think you'll actually have to get involved. Your wife doesn't like the idea that Danny's after another girl, but she does know that he's a player (because she allows him to bang her whenever she wants). You need to convince her subtley that Danny's request is okay with her. Give her a couple days to cool off, then hint at how great Danny is and that he's the type of guy that could make many women happy. Remind her of how much she lusts after him. If you pull the right strings she won't be able to cut away from Danny and will submit to his requests.

dumbass, he's saying he wants it to be over with Danny so he can finally fuck her again.

whatever.

Martin, you are fucking pathetic.

GL

Hello Martin,
Dude, why did you take a break your postings?..i am sure something important has happened again..Please keep sharing the incidents with us..good luck..

Martin, I say this with the utmost gravity. Sneak your fucking balls out of your wifes purse and put them back on!!! Don't piss away the best thing that's ever happened to you; get off your ass and fight for it. Use your BRAIN as a sexual tool. My honey has had two 12" cocks, 3 husbands and over 70 lovers. I have an under-average 5" dick. Does that mean I am a loser or it's not sufficient? Not just no but Hell no!!! By using my 4 lb sex organ (my brain) I can make her cum for over 3 hours at a time, more if I wanted to. I've even made her cum "on command" with no physical touch at all. She's even layed there in bed after we've made love (as opposed to "fucking") and started to cum again. She has two and three *different* orgasms going on *at the same time* sometimes. So don't tell me you can't give her a damn orgasm. Learn to use your mind; learn the secrets of eroticism and what turns a woman on. Talk to her about how good Danny's cock felt inside her, how good his cum tasted, feel her out and see which things really turn her on and then press the hell out of those buttons. Fuck this "no sex" or "no sex without a condom" bullcuckolds brownie; she is your fucking wife and he's nothing but a damn interloper. He's proven that he could give a cuckolds brownie less about your wife (thank God!!) so use that to your advantage. Love is stronger than you think but you've got to think back to what attracted your wife to you. You've got to get your damn balls back and show her that you are a man. We all love to see our women fucked good; it's a hell of a turn on for us but we don't want to see our lives ruined by it; that's not right. I'll be glad to help you see into the erotic mind if you'll do what I tell you and not fumble the ball. I'll have you making her cum more than 3 measley orgasms; I'll tell you how to make her squirt and worship your asshole. I believe you have what it takes; you just have to learn how to use it. My email addy is the same as my nick here so write me and lets talk. I'll show you how this guy (me) with a 5" dick brings her close to needing recuscitating when guys with 8-12" dicks have not even been able to give her a single orgasm. Guys are not born with this knowledge; I had to figure it out on my own. I started writing a book - "The Secrets of Eroticism" - and my ladyfucking computer crashed and I lost it all. I'll help you.

Martin365
Martin my boy, when this slut comes creeping back to you, keep her twisting in the wind for a few days. Tell her you're not sure if you want her back now that's she's enjoyed Canny's cock for so long. In the meantime arrange for her to meet another man, maybe one of your mates, someone you can trust. Then all three of you go out for the evening, let him dance with her maybe, then all come home and you leave the room for a while to let your friend have a go at her. If she goes for his advances, you can all three have a long night of fucking, you two taking turns with your sweetheart. And you can watch her inaction with another man. This could be the start of a great experience for you both. If she doesn't go for for mate, well I guess you'll just have to fuck her on your own.
grc

She'll end up with his ch1ldren.
You'll end up with nothing.
Always get the man yourself and from the start let him know it is your idea. You didn't do that. You hid behind a skirt instead. She has no respect for you any more. She wants to bear the offspring of a dominant male that now controls both you and your wife. You are holding the bag.

Admit it.

Masochism? Anyone?

hi martin

one thing you havent really said much about is how you feel? you have said about it being exciting, and not getting sex, him comming down, etc but when he's been there, do you wank, do you come, can you still get off on it without the lover aspect? We have been living this lifestyle for some years and one thing you need to be aware of its addictive to both of you. You need to sort out in your head where its going, where you want it to go.. The old saying of Genie out of the bottle is very true and you have shown her you can get off on this and also that you will go along with only doing it with condom and then even not doing it with your own wife at all. I hope it works out for you, but, you may have uncorked the bottle permanently and have to learn what its like to live the life of a sub cuckold. only thing I can say is it aint all bad, you do at least know she is happy, makes you work on the friendship side of marriage more and be more considerate. Plus makes you have a very strong right arm, not that i'd know obviously
wheelchaircuckold

hey Martin,

WHY DID U STOP POSTIN???
This story was awsome and I was eager to hear more about your recent events.
Come on, dont let us all down now...
Assuming that your story is real I have to admitt that it is also quite original and for sure something special (since it combines so many aspects of cuckolding - including: denial, unfaithfullness, emotions, betrayal, uncertainty, and much more).
PLS KEEP ON POSTING AGAIN!!!

This doesn't sound like cucking to me, because her pleasure is far far outweighing yours. Sounds just like an unfaithful deceptive woman to me. My girl always gets my approval before she does anything, and she knows when and where to draw the line. I know that everyone is different, but a tattoo? Refusing to fuck you? Making YOU wear a condom? Crying over this other guy? Telling him she loves him? Man. Wake up and smell the java.

Everything he insists of her, she does. When he gets bored of his new fuck toy, he will demand her full attention again and guess what? She will give it to him. I hate to say it man but I think she'd even leave you for him.

I just read this entire thread start to finish right now. The timeline shows a clear pattern: you have doubts, she pushes the envelope, you adjust and deal with it. All the while, she's the one having orgasms: not you.

I feel bad for you man I wish I could help other than to say, that from this man's point of view, you're being used hardcore. You are disposable to her.

Martin, I hope everything turned out ok for you.

hi everyone

I sort of got the impression that everyone was bored with me so stopped. The previous few posts made me think that maybe I should give an update.

Well Julia and Dany are definitely over. He is absolutely not interested anymore and actually has turned quite nasty to Julia. She has been quite upset about all this and a little bit down generally. She says she regrets the whole episode so much now and sees that she is a horrible permister.

Things are made worse by the fact that all of her workmates know what happened. She mentioned it to one of them and it got out so that everyone knows. Quite a lot of sniggering at work and some have even asked to see the tattoo. Apparently some of the guys also now feel that they fancy their chances with her.

Hi martin,
glad you're back.
Chiama quando vuoi...

Well, having survived your first try at cuckoldry, perhaps with time she will be willing to try again. Provided you maintain sexual access to your wife - if that's indeed what you want - and she can be more discrete about it, clearly you both could enjoy yourselves even more.

As always, thanks for sharing

Sounds like things turned out for the best this time. Don't let it get out of hand next time. Fantasies can be lots of fun; just don't confuse them with reality. I don't think there will be any problem with her wanting to do it again; just be sure you maintain control over the situation. Maybe writing down the "rules" and guidelines then sitting down with her and going over them. Cucking can be fun but it has to be fun for everybody. I don't think anybody wants to lose their spouse, their home, and their life over this; it's not worth that. Make sure she understands that it's fucking, not love. Best to you Martin and thanks for sharing your story.

martin, I think you need to buy a dildo that is about the size of dannys cock and surprise julia with it. Tell her how you know how much she enjoyed his big cock and want to watch her play with his cock. Lick her cheating pussy and tell her how much you want to see dannys cock in her married pussy. She will beg you to fuck her with that huge cock. Ask her to tell you all about how he fucked her, about getting a tattoo and make her tell you that she loves dannys cock so much more than your little cock. Slid your cock inside her for awhile and make her beg you to put danny back in her because your little cock isn't getting it.
I foresee Julia fucking many more guys in the next few years and you can make that happen. She deserves to have the orgasms that you CAN'T give her. She deserves to have her beautiful legs spread open by men that can give her the pounding she needs. Enjoy the fact you have a slut for a wife, enjoy watching as her pussy gets stretched out by real men to the point where she can't feel you inside her. Take her out to the pubs dressed like the slut she is, flash that pussy and see who wants some. I'd even suggest that you insist on seeing each guys cock in the bathroom to make sure your wife would enjoy it and when you go back to the table you need to describe his cock to her and let her make the decision and if she likes it, you need to go ask the guy if he would like to fuck your wife. Thats just what I like to do.
mike

...well I guess that ruined her reputaion at work and made you look bad in front of her colleagues...
Nevertheless I do agaion want to state that your story was quite exciting and truely original.
But hey, theres no need to stop keeping all of us up to date with the nevest events ...maybe some new episodes that will follow
Will she stick just to you for the time being or is it possible that she might hook up with someone else in the near future (maybe one of her colleagues)?
How did you feel about all those events?
Are you considering to let her cuck you and once again practice abstinence or will you take a tougher course and gain some dignity again?
Keep us up to date pls;) & try to continue posting more often
Thx

by the way,
could you show us her picture pls (scramble the face if you want to keep up some privacy) ... After reading all those stories I would really like to know if it was worth going through all of this excitement & pain... and it would make it easier for all your readers to finally come up with some genuine advice ;)

hi - pleased to see that you want updates after all. I think Julia is now gradually getting over the episode but she is still noticeably sad about it.

we haven't yet resumed our sex life although she promises me that we will once she has got over Danny - it is now nearly three momths since I last had sex with her.

Dude you need to be seeing a lawyer about filing some paperwork. I bet she ain't going without.

I love her

Hi Martin,

I am glad you are getting over it and she is comming back to you. I like hw/cuck but to some extent. And this is what happend with me.
But
1) What ever happens should by the consent of both and not by powering, coxing or mind games.
2) There may be a time one is attacted towards doing something but benefit of both should be considered.
3) I believe love and marriage is more than sex, its emotional and spiritual and in anyway if one permister lets the otherone down or fails to uplift than

yours in not bad but make sure you realize where you are going.


Sorry for the long mail but this is my experience

My wife had sex and that was accidental. I forgave her, as although I had many chances I never had given in to any urges because of commitment.

Then she started telling me fantasy like while we had sex, and she also started giving in and really coxing me in. I allowed her to have sex outside marriage if she craved more. Well she had couple of bf, and with one she actually started going in. She reduced having sex with me and also denying me. Also to top it off she started humilating me esp if we had sex, and it was a big emotional blow to handle. But she would still keep up her coxing and telling abt love.

I am a very career minded permister and had a business, and this also made me docile in my career. Also I was emotionally hurt but didnt want the family to break. To top it off I had a loss in business and to some extend because of her and her bf (they spend all the reserves also), and I really was depressed and emotionally broken. When I would try seeking console in her she would push me away saying Sissy or wimpering boy etc. Esp. after the blow that was given to me in sex life.
Her bf. also used her 1-2 times to entertain his friends. And I acutally needed help at that time as I was torn between myself and love. I would question is it the same permister I fell in love with?
Well then came time his bf was moving out of the town, and she wanted to move but I refused saying I had work here and followed by came a small clash, which opend up that her bf had a gf where he was moving and wouldnt mind a fb, and also could use her to entertain friends and she almost had agreed.
That time I started treating her like a slut, instead of even loving caring for her I gave her back, when she wanted me to give her oral my reply would be "Didnt she get enough from her bf, and if he couldnt than he could always pimp her out". On this the bf tried being physically aggressive and I only stant 5'6 against him 6'2" but he realized he was the outsider and we were still married putting him into legal jeopardy, and if she seeked divorce, she would become his responsibility and so he called it off with her.
My wife still remained stubborn and said she needed to time to get over it. In the mean time she would try being near me and relax with me but once again tried starting mind games, and tryed cucking me. Yet she wanted me to be there when she was not there for me at any point of time. So to it I now asked her to leave or live by my rules. She promised and also over the time she had been saying she was feeling really bad and like a bad permister. But than again she almost strayed, and I luckily caught before she could go on her rendezvous.
This time I asked her I was serious and told her if she wanted to be with me get a CB(chastity belt) as I didnt trust her and also now it was my turn to go outside marriage and have sex.
She got one and promised to live by me. Well first thing after around week in a CB she wanted to be relieved, so I told her I will allow her if she wanted to get off by herself or she would need to get me a girl, esp one of her friend who encouraged her to cuck me. She really is a jealous type and so she said she could do without sex in that case, and also stopped sucking me off. Well to that I got a lipstick and put on my penis one day, actually the similar one that my secretary's one of the fav. And my wife knows that my sec. had hots for me since long time only thing she survived was she is super effiecient with her work and very trustworthy otherwise.
Also when she was in CB she was quite nice to me and not only did she make me food, she would actually bath me in evenings, massage me sit by me like a highschoold girl cuddling. And once she was not well and like previously I was by her side all the time and she just smile when she woke up in the mornig but had left by the time she was out.
So after she saw the lipstick while undressing me she broke down and started crying, so I told her that we will chat after dinner in bed first she need to get me ready. After dinner when in bed, actually she never would undress or wear anything for me since she had started seeing her bf, only thing she had done was to lower her pjs for me to lick. So I told her to get undressed except her CB. Once in blanket she said she wanted to complain abt the lipstick, but now she wants to give me a bj. I told her first I want to talk to her since its ages where we actually had a conversation( and while touching her body). Well she started to say something... then she just said was sorry and dig her face in me and started crying and she did it for around 2 hrs without a single word said. (Actually she later said she felt very vulnerable and yet very protected and felt me closest to her.) After she stopped crying she said she wanted to suck me, and asked if she could have it, and I told, It had always been her and the lipstick was fake. She gave me the best kiss, and its one of those times when you feel the warmth of womans body when she embraces you with her heart and not just body!!! She than gave me the best bj, like she had put everything into it too. Then she came up and said she will allow me any woman of my pick or even help me if she got a piece of me every once in a while in a way I want.

Well now I have a nice, caring and understanding woman. She also found out that my Sec. had a open marriage and though her husband is big he does not last long, so she invited her home for me. At time if we come back from a long day, then after dinner she would tell why dont we go to bed and rest and once she is done with kitchen, she normally cuddles with us to relax, while my sec normally uses her tongue while i kiss my wife. She also calls many of her friends for say overs. One day I told her although I am enjoying it I dont want to do it, and she said she loved it, infact she had her best friend over(she knew everything abt us but I had never got with her as she had a bf till few days back), and so while leaving the sofa she whispered in my ear, "She does not know that she is the prey, but she is the best, so be at your best, dont let me down...Also if you need anything i will be there to serve you...also she loves cuddling and fondling in the sofa"..with that she went to the kitchen swaying her hips seductively.
Infact now I have very few partners but try as low as possible. My wife is nice understanding and very caring everyway. Also I dont want her to wear a CB but whenever she feels mischevious or wants me to play she will put it on by herself and slip the key in my pocket before going to work.

Well finally cuckold was not I was looking at even when I was exicted by it. And we found more ways to enjoy ourselves than needing a extra partner.