jamesriske
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I disagree Mary. Cheating is cheating, no matter how you look at it.
Logically, if a woman is cheating on her man the man doesn't know she's even doing it at all. So what's the turn on in that? What's the point? For all he knows, he has a faithful wife who is not having sex with anyone else at all.
How could that be a fantasy or turn on at all?
Doesn't make sense.
I always get a laugh on here when people confuse cheating and cuckolding. I don' t think they have quite thought it through. Obviously, the man is unaware of the sexual liamisters, so what's the point to him? He would not consider himself a cuckold and certainly wouldn't be here in this forum. He would be completely oblivious that anything is going on at all.
While the dictionary may define a cuckold as a man who has an unfaithful wife, for the purpose of swinging, it's obvious that there is a clear distinction between a cheating woman and a cuckoldress.
I see some stories about how a man has discovered his wife having an affair and then turned that into a cuckold relationship but I permisterally would have nothing to do with a woman who cheated on me. Couldn't trust her anymore.
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Multi_Orgasmic Mary
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Aha!!! Just what I like, a lively debate on semantics. I won't lecture you on the definition of a cuckold, since you seem to have a grasp on it. However,,,you have to keep a grip on reality and try to realize that although in the real world, what we say is something becomes that thing, as opposed to what it origianlly was, majority ultimately sets the rules I guess, but I'm too old to change now. To wit: D.P. began life as "double penatration", meaning two cocks in one pussy,,,adult videos stole it and changed from a "sandwhich" (a cock in each hole), to D.P.,,,the later is wrong, but since the uneducated masses have been taught differently, we in the know have to adjust. Chic jeans is pronounced "chick",,,in reality it's pronounced "sheek",,,but try and tell that to the "Mall Rats", LOL. Ergo,,,a man is a cuckold whether he knows about it or not,,but a cheater is a scumbag no mater how you look at it, LOL. To be perfectly honest, and taking it to the stricktest definition, it originated as a man who's wife bears the young of another. But for our purposes (if we want anyone to know what we're talking about), we have to be lemmings and follow the crowd off the cliff. Being who I am (and what I do),,,you'd be amazed how many letters I get from fans asking me to cuck them, to come to one of my video shoots so they can be my cuck for a night,,,in reality they want to take my hubs place as a "sub". I have to write and explain that if there isn't a realationship, it just doesn't hurt so good, and that's what this cuckolds brownie is all about, whatever you want to call it, the act remains the same. Sure you can get excited watching a couple fuck, but that's voyuerism, the loss of what a man considers his domain to another, especially when he's better endowed and the hub can't compete, that what gets the tummy churning,,,that's why (whether he asks the question or not), every man that's ever been cheated on wonders how big the guys dick was, was he better than me, etc.
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