Mixed feelings about being a cuckold

I can't decide whether or not I like the idea of being a cuckold. When I'm horny I love the idea, but when I'm not, I'm not so into it. I broke up with my girlfriend a while ago because she was fucking another guy behind my back (after I told her many times that fucking other guys was okay as long as she told me about it). Since it was me who broke up with her, there's the posibility of getting back together with her...but I can't decide if that's what I want. Will I be okay with her fucking other guys without telling me (like she would most likely do)? I really want her to fuck guys in front of me but I don't know if she wants that. She seems to like being alone with her other lovers. What do I do? She's perfect for me other than this.

If she is being dishonest with you when your giving her permission to have sex with other guys it will most likely lead to heartbreak down the road. whatever you decide, good luck.

I�m not going to be as quick to say �dump her, she lied.� If the relationship is worth having, it is worth some forgiving and working things out. Given that you told her that she could see other guys as long as she let you know, you need to consider (and talk to her) about why she kept it a secret anyway. It could be that she is just not cool with the whole cuckolding thing and somehow �cheating� feels more conventional to her. If that is the case, you may need to decide whether to have a straight, non-cuckolding relationship with her or else go your seperate ways, because she is clearly just not comfortable with the whole thing. (Yes, you can work on her over time in a conventional relationship, but it is no guarantee she�ll ever come round.) On the other hand, it could be that she was nervous to tell you because she didn�t believe that you really meant it. I�ve encountered this skepticism in each of my relationships. If you think about it, the fact that you say now you have mixed feelings speaks in her favor. She hears what you say, but she knows that you may not like it if it is reality and was afrais she�d lose you and/or you would scapegoat her for getting in over your head.

Cuckold relationships are emotionally challenging. Sometimes it just takes practice and getting used to it. I broke up my first cuckold relationship because she saw other men even though I said it was OK. My next one kept the cuckolding fantasy for a while before making it real. Now I�m a happily married cuck, but this is the fourth cuckold relationship.

In my opinion, you need three ingredients for a successful cuck relationship. You need at lteast one partner to be turned on by it (and the other at least accepting), you need to have a relationship that is strong and solid enough to exist without the cuckolding, and you need very honest communication and clear rules of the road.

If your terms are that she can only fuck other guys while you watch, you need to put this up front with her and get her explicit agreement. She may have no interest, in which case maybe you put the cuckolding thing aside and go on with the relationship. If it is OK with you for her to see other guys without you, as long as she tells you (which was your understanding) then she needs to accept this and promise to stick to it. (I wouldn�t worry too much about her not letting you watch � in my experience that will come in time as she gets more comfortable and finds a guy who is OK with it. Most aren�t, by the way.) If she is not OK with these terms and wants to see other guys without telling you, then you don�t really have any agreement about the nature and boundries of the relationship. My advice is to talk with her really directly about what you want and are comfortable with and ask and LISTEN to what she likes and is comfortable with. Drop the whole �you cheated on me,� recrimination, it is not productive. The issue is the relationship between the two of you in the future.
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Dump her. This lifestyle is a challange to a great marriage. It can not and will not work if there is no honesty and trust.
You already have doubts. Be careful what you ask for in life. Most cuckold marriages start after the couples have some time together first. Call it a bonding period. Once bonded, you can explore the world. Once the cuclokd lifestyle beging, stopping is difficult.

I'm experiencing mixed feelings about this too. Well, me and my girl, we have this fantasies of having another man fucking her, and it turns me on a lot, and she already said that she would do it if I asked her. Thing is I'm not sure on this, I mean, I think I can deal with it later, but I'm not sure if it will be the same as it was before.
And I'm curious about something joejoe said, what do you mean by "Once the cuclokd lifestyle beging, stopping is difficult."? What is it that makes you not want to stop it?

Good question. When I was talking my wife into fucking another man, I had this stupid assumption that she would have one outing, come home, I would eat her pussy and that would be the end of it. Why would a married woman who fought the idea of having sex with others for years. A woman who had no real interest in the idea. A woman who said she was doing this just for me. Why wouldn't the sex stop after one session. BECAUSE ONCE SHE TRIED IT. ONCE SHE WAS FREE TO LET HERSELF GO, SHE LIKED IT. SHE DOESN'T WANT TO STOP. I CAN'T TALK HER INTO STOPPING. I don't want to leave her so what can I do. This may turn you on. It turns me on too but the fantasy is often better than the life of a cuckold. If you are not careful, you will learn what I mean. Once it starts, it doesn't stop.

Dump her. She's dishonest and lacks integrity.

If you get advice from a woman, they will tell you to keep her yet if the roles were reversed - if you were a man cheating on a woman - they would be the first to tell you to 'dump the bastard'.

Stand up for yourself and dump her. Cheating and having an affair is not cuckolding, it's just plain cheating.

You sound like me in a way. Years ago, I had a close girlfriend that I lived with and she knew of my fantasies to watch and yet, I caught her having an affair with a man at her work. They didn't have full on sex but oral sex and lots of kissing. She liked to get men to fall in love with her and get their attention. Needless to say, I dumped her on the spot. I was the last to know. Someone from her work called to tell me about it.

Since then, she's gone through four boyfriends and cheated on every single one of them, they all ended up leaving her.

Some people just have a problem.

But then I got married a very attractive woman who wanted to swing in the relationship but didn't know how or what. We had a long talk and decided on cuckolding and have been trying that. She's given a few blowjobs so far while I hide and watch. Like you, I wasn't sure if I would like it or not becuase it was a great fantasy but once I came, I wasn't interested anymore.

But my wife and I started out slow. She just gave a hand job at first, then kissed a dick and then sucked one a little. Everything was fine and it kept turning us both on. Now, she's giving blowjobs and we'll work up to having her have full on sex.

One thing that I do is wait until the guy leaves before I cum. Don't allow yourself to cum while watching as you may spoil the mood and 'come down' if you know what I mean.

If you're thinking about it and jacking off thinking about it, then it will be good for you too. Just take it SLOW. Find an HONEST woman who wants to swing and then tell her about the lifestyle of cuckolding and then take little steps and experiment with it. That's all there is to it, don't complicate it. It's really fun.

But for God's sake, DON"T do it or spend time with a partner you can't trust. You're better than that and there's plenty of wonderful honest women out there who will treat you right AND enjoy playing cuckold games too.

Humm, I don't know. See, my turning on is to have sex with her same time she gets it from another guy. As I said before, she said she would do it if I asked her. I was thinking it was a going to be good, but now I'm not sure. I don't know if I'll want to stop it, but what if I do? And if she doesn't want it to stop?
I'm pretty sure she won't cheat on me. But I don't want to ruin things between us. What now? Maybe forgeting these fantasies is the best.

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