My wife is off on her own to a swinging club next week!!

I've just subscribed because of my excitement over this!

It's been a chore but finally my wife has agreed to go to a swinging club on her own next weekend. We have had swinging experience in the past with couples which was always fun. Nothing ever came close to the time I watched my wife fucking another guy on the couch whilst I was upstairs on webcam. She told the guy she was home alone! (picture from the evening attached ) Between then and now we've had kids etc.. and and have just been super busy with no real chance of getting back into it. However last weekend she finally said she would like to go to a club and even better she has agreed to go alone. To my surprise she's super exited buying herself sexy outfits and she's even booked a hotel down the road, this is 100% going to happen. I've never been so exited literally cant wait to drop her off then pick her back up.

Hopefully I can even get her to come on here to ask questions etc.. she's already signed back up to an old site we used to use!

I've now been able to tell her everything. She knows how I like to see her fucked and even to go off with someone and come back and tell me all about it. She said she didn't really know much about cuckold but she's book reading and looking at videos and she's exited about it all.

I will keep posting on this thread as we get closer to the event, during and after!

Congrats on the big step! My wife is entertaining doing the same.

FWIW, most swing clubs are oriented toward couples, and single guys are either banned or they only allow a limited number. She might not have the largest selection of guys to choose from. On the other hand, there are always tons of couples looking for that unicorn (single bifemale). So if your wife is bi, or enjoys MFF threesomes, she actually has a better chance of joining a couple rather than hooking up with a single guy at a swingers club.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Hi,

Thank you for the comment and advice. She's definitely Bi and she's been with women in the past but is definitely more interested in Men. She did say she doesn't really want a female but just going is a massive step. I just need her to enjoy it so she wants to go back

great, where (very roughly) is the club?

You're right... it is a huge step for her. Keep that in mind. Be encouraging, and let her know that you don't have any expectations other than for her to have a great time. Sometimes we hubbies can make them feel pressured to "do something", so try to avoid that. If she knows she's free to make her own decisions, she's a lot more likely to have fun... which should lead to more club visits in the future.

Another thing to consider is for her to create a profile on a swingers site like AFF. Perhaps she can chat with a guy or two online ahead of time, then arrange to meet at the club next weekend. That way she has some leads going in, and if things don't work out, then the two of them would still have other opportunities to meet others since they're already at the club. Just a thought...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Hi Palmcoastcouple,

Thanks for the advice. We've spoken about it quite a bit and she knows there are no expectations and that she is free to do as she pleases. She knows there is no presure. She's more nervous about walking in a place like that on her own than anything else. We've already agreed that I will wait outside for the first hour i case she feels uncomfortable.

The club is in the south of England

Great idea. It sounds like you two are on the same page and doing it right!

Like I mentioned, my wife is considering going to a club alone. On one of our first visits to a club together she met a single guy. I deliberately made myself scarce while they got acquainted, then found them an empty private room (at her request). Although I did watch him lean her over a chair and fuck her facing a full length mirror, for the most part I gave them plenty of privacy together that night. Ever since then we've talked about her going to a club alone... but like you mentioned, getting up the courage to walk in by herself is proving to be the big hurdle!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

We're just going to go out for a few ****** first (not *****) just so she can relax a bit. She knows once shes in. She'll be fine. Good tip about the site she likes that idea.

Glad to help. Knowing she has someone lined up to meet can help with those "going alone" jitters.

Another thought (one we've been toying with) is for your wife to go to a swing club with another guy, as his date. They could potentially swap with another couple, and your wife could end up being with two men in one night. If they don't find any couples to play with then they always have each other... so getting lucky is still guaranteed, one way or the other.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker