thejartHello guys thanks for the look ins i keep getting, its appreciated. Life for me carrys on the same, one day at a time with some thought to kink ! I had taken on another sub for training like K. However things took a bit of a disappointing turn as i very quickly gathered she was a cockhound rather than a submissive.
I'm not sure everyone gathers the difference so i'll explain from my perspective. When we first spoke she stated that she wanted to be guided by someone who didnt compromise on what they wanted and also knew how to get it. I spent a fair bit of time on the phone explaining daily tasks how exactly i wanted them done including pics, times, and worded confirmations. For any of you who has tried to change behavioral patterns will appreciate inducements are neccesary right? You reward the correct patterns and ignore or punish the unwanted behaviour.
Training doesn't involve one evening a month blindfolding the woman and sticking your dick down her throat! No, apart form a bit of fun its not going to influence future behaviour. No. You would not beleive the amount of guys who approch me saying that they would like to train their wives. The first question is "to do what?" More often than not the answer is "to do stuff like yours". Ok well mine is trained to do what i want. She has very specific cocksucking skills, no hands, tongue swirling, little suction, deep throat. Thats exactly how i like it and have taken the time to show her over a good few months when we met.
When i started seeing K she was the normal neglected housewife. Once shown a bit of interest and made to dress how i liked she started to gain confidence (which with anyone makes a huge difference). And she started to enjoy the attention she gets back. Training only really works if there is regular ( mean daily ) input, it positively re enforces patterns that you want. Being honest, transparent and happy to exlain also chases away doubt about whats expected from her.
All of the above was started with Sub V ( I explained to her she would only ever be called slut during meets as tha was her give training name) Having taken the time to explain what i expected we had the first session, she after a few hours she understood what was needed she paid good attention in the 4 display postions she was give and had to sit in whilst learning. However she tried a couple of times to tell me that she wanted to do this or that ( usually involving being fucked by multiple dicks). She was told she may well get this if she followed instruction.
Having been left with explicit instructions the timings and tasks were hap hazard and below par. She didn't listen and was good with excuses. The second meet came and went with plenty of enthusiasm, i had arrange for two friends to turn up an hour later, when the doorbell went she was tied to a bench blindfolded with a whipped red arse. When the other guys arrived we had a chat about her and her training. They inspected, probed, she was released to show her very lewd display positions, and the used fully for an hour! Being used by three guys was where she seemed happiest.
You're probably asking what's wrong with a gangbang girl? Nothing, if that's what you want. But if you want control and discipline she wont learn it doing what she wants.
The tasks didn't improve at all, i had put in time to devise a display and masturbation program for her and she did enjoy that but it still wasn't done well. For the third meet i had decided that it wasnt working for me so i took her to someone i know quite well who organises
gangbangs. K has been to one and i have photgraphed a few other for him. he has a list on over 40 guys who have attended these meets! I had told slut she was going to a meet and there will be a few dicks. She asked the questions that no trainee should ask as this had been discussed more than a few times before. She either agrees or doesnt and goes her own way.
When walking through door whe was made to greet the host ( Meet Harry age 79) as instructed so she sucked his dick at the doorway before moving inside. Upstairs there were already 3 guys (its daytime this meet as shes a single mum and kid is at school) Slut was parade on her hands and knees, going to each guy and stating that shes a 45 year old slut for fucking. She was made to go through her display positions and recite her good girl mantra See pic below.
Being seen as property has two effects on women ( it can intimidate and make them very nervous). Or if you have done the training properly and built up expectations correctly the ( dont let any of the other guys rush you either they are there for your entertainment
not vice versa).
How do you know?
Do you ask them?
There is only one true way to tell, Check pussy for wet! Never fails to tell the truth, lots of women will lie about wether they enjoy anything! Pussy doesnt lie, and its a great indicator on how good you are as a trainer
Slut was soaked as expected Two and a half hours later she had been fucked by 11 guys and was completely covered in cum. she enjoyed it and from that day on she was passed onto Harry for further use his use. Since mid November she had had 3 gangbangs, the smallest being 8 guys.
In training any new trainee i take on will be spoken about as if they are not there. it's explained that if they want to go ahead with a program they are quite simply my property. which is why you have long honest talks early on!
Daily tasks pic Top is picture task written over pussy and worn for day at work or away from me. onec in morning before 11 am and once in afternoon.
First message of day is the Good girl mantra to be learned off by heart. They are tested on it so its not cut and pasted
Second message is slut confirmation
Both good girl mantra and slut confirmation are subject to change. If its inside their head they are thinking about you.
Slut being used early on in meet
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| K taking my dick very early on in our relationship
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