Financial Control

one time, I was feeling horny, and wanted to give her some money. She made me beg, saying she didnt know if i deserved having the privilage to do so. She eventually snatched the money out of my hand, while just simpily saying "loser"
tony

Love that pic of her giving you the finger after you have given her he money. How often do you get to pay her and how does she treat you in return?

She is a bitch to me. I just got off the phone with her, and she told me I don't deserve to beat off unless I give her money. She told me I can't look at pics of her holding money until I give her more, and she allows me to look at them. I moved recently, and have been looking for a new job. When I told her I didn't have when yet she just kept calling me a loser. Then making me repeat it out loud. I love her
tony

My Wife has financial control in our marriage. Everything is in her name. My paycheck goes directly to her account. i have no credit cars. She sold my truck and makes me take the bus to work. i am not allowed to go out with my friends any more and must work all the overtime they offer at work. Basically i live to earn for Her now. Any presents or bonuses i get go to her to spend on herself.

Anymore stories on financial control by the wife or cucks working and spending for the bf?

i would love to hear more on this too

my ex wrote me on facebook the other day. She wrote "ha ha ha ha, just been checking out your cuckold comments lol, your such a loser! need to post more and cant wait for payment" I couldn't believe it. My jaw dropped, and my heart was beating like crazy when I read this. I hadn't realized she had looked at this site!
tony

My wife and I have taken a step toward this. We have a joint account that all both of our checks go into. She has always paid the bills but I have had credit cards that I have used, but she has taken the credit cards away. What we did was set up my own account (with her on it of course) I have an Debit card for this account and she puts money into it every week. If I want something I have to save my allowance. She also set up an automatic email alert that lets her know any time I use my debit card. The joint account we have, she has changed the online password so I can not view it. I could actually walk into the bank, if I had to, but she would know and the nearest bank is about 25 miles away, so it is not convenient.

AK –
Congratulations on your new financial arrangements with your wife. I am still surprised there are not more posts on this topic, as I find it goes hand in hand with a female led marriage and cuckolding. And it adds a 24-7 level to your wife’s authority. As you can see from my previous posts, my wife and I have gone a bit further in this area and we find it a lot of fun as well as a constant reminder of her control.

If you enjoy lightweight offense, you two should go to your bank and talk to a woman banking officer about taking your name off of the primary account so that you do not have access to any money except what she deposits into your account. Just a matter of fact discussion that she is more prudent with money and you two have decided that you want her to control the finances and that you are pleased to have your paycheck under her control. If the (probably rather bored until you two arrived) female banker picks up on the subject, then your wife can go further, talking “girl to girl” about her decision to manage finances for the family, how she feels much better knowing you can’t misbehave, but things she does not approve of or get into any kind of trouble if she controls, carefully, your financial status etc. She might even muse that she sometimes feels like a controlling lady with a young young who needs to be taught to learn to manage money with his allowance but that, well, that is just the way it is given your tendency to spend money on things you really don’t need and that she does not approve of.

You sitting there submissively and signing the account forms when told to just adds to her power and the bankerette will enjoy the show. She may even offer ideas, such as the texting of any expenditures that you make, daily balance reports to your wife etc.

Of course, this can be delightfully humiliating, even more so if you are wearing a bit of a less masculine top and more casual clothes while your wife is in a sharp business pants suit. Consider carrying a man-purse if you have one.

Repeating the same steps with your brokerage accounts – maybe even your wife interviewing one or two female account execs so that she can transfer the accounts from your male broker to a woman who has her confidence can also be delightful.

There are many possibilities for the dom wife to enjoy using this process to enhance your offense and to exert her control, depending on how much effort you wish to put into your financial subjugation. The special checks that my wife and I designed years ago provide a constant reminder of her financial control and continue to amuse female clerks. My wife has a small amount deposited into our joint account from her sole account as my allowance and that is done electronically each week. For larger items, like her birthday or her flower’s birthday, she will write out a check to me, just so I can take it to the banking officer at our local branch and deposit it especially into my special account. The woman banker always asks me what the special added money is for and enjoys my wife’s total control.

And her financial control, knowing that I cannot purchase anything without her knowledge and can certainly not misbehave (unless the misbehavior is totally free – pretty rare in today’s world) gives her a delightful feeling of power and peace of mind.

Good luck

Years ago I had a girlfriend/fiance who worked out a fee schedule for each sexual act leading to orgasm I could have. The key was that the more it involved her, or was dignified for me, the more it cost. Fucking was a prohibitive (I was just out of school and making almost nothing) $2500. On the other hand, jerking off before her while she was fully clothed (and didn't touch me) was $5. As a consequence of this "game," our sex life quickly degenerated into my pleasuring her with my mouth with my pleasures mostly consisting of wanking while licking her butt or shoes, or getting hand jobs that finished with my eating my cum (and sometimes with ruined orgasms.) I had to carry the "price list" in my wallet. My ability to save my meagre earnings for more fulfilling encounters was compromised when I gave her my store credit numbers and got a card in her name added to my Mastercard account.

Eventually she dumped me for another woman. I ended up begging them to take me as their chaste slave and flying them to my hometown for a week of trial in the role - all at my expense. Although I passed the test, they later decided to make their home together somewhere else and I ended up begging my ex to max my credit cards in order to furnish their place. As it happens, her conscience wouldn't let her. But I was still paying off the earlier credit bills for years to come.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Anyone have more stories??

There was this one bar that I used to go to a few years ago. It was this dingy kind of bar that didn't have the best reputation. What I really loved about it was that the bartender/waitresses that worked there all wore extremely skimpy clothes. Usually it consisted of bikini, maybe a pair of short shorts, but that was rare. It was the kind of place that usually brought a rowdy crowd and even the women working would smoke cigarettes and take shots during their shifts. It was like a hooters, but a lot trashier.

Well one visit I came alone on some random tuesday after work. There was a "waitress" there who I fell in love with. Not only did she have huge fake breasts, but she always seemed to be annoyed with everyone and had an incredibly bitchy attitude which absolutely drew me to her. Instead of walking around and acting flirty like a lot of the other women she just kid of stomped and slumped around while smoking her cigarettes.

I ordered my take. Then another. I told her that I thought she was so pretty and was practically eating out of her hand. I would see her go over to the other waitresses and look over and giggle in my direction. Well, she slaps the bill down which was about $12 for two takes. In a moment of weakness I tipped nearly $80 for the $12 bill. The next couple of times I visited I would sit in her section and she came over to me and would show her big fake breasts off in my face, despite still smoking her cigarettes, and every time I would leave an enormous tip. Mind you, it's not like she was acting slutty or sexy towards me, it was like she was performing a chore.

The kicker is one day I come in on a friday and the bar seems a little more busy than it usually is. Well I sit in this waitresses' section and after waiting for quite a while she walks over to me and says "look, I don't have time to fuck around. Just leave me the tip and come back during the week. I need this spot open to seat people."

The fact that she knew she could get me to leave a tip without ordering anything turned me on so much. I left about $90 on the table and left. Also, the fact that she didn't even consider me people. I was just someone taking a barstool that could be making her more money. I was so hot I barely made it back to my house before beating off thinking of her.
josh hartnett

My ex is going out takeing with three girlfriends tomorrow night and has agreed to take my debit card out with her to buy some rounds of takes for them all. I will be horny all night thinking of them spending my money and will probably come in my pants when she hands me the receipts the next day!

Very hot! Thanks for sharing this. How did that "relationship" continue and end? Did you go back? For how long? Why did you stop?
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Well, that night did open a "flood gate" of sorts, although it was never anything too drastic. She just knew she could get away with literally anything with me. She was some young twenty something and couldn't care less about anyone else's feelings, you know.

I came back pretty regularly after that, but only on weekdays when she was less busy, of course tipping incredibly large amounts each visit. There were several things she did with me that I seriously doubt she would have done with other customers. She never really got in trouble with anything, but I think that was more because of how trashy the bar and its owners were.

Each trip she took a little bit more slack with me. On my first trip back I sat in her section like I normally would. She came over like any other day. It was actually really hot how she didn't apologize for her behavior over the weekend. She took me order for my take without saying much at all to me. I remember watching her butt bounce in her little thong as she strutted back to the bar and knowing that I was going to be coming back my whole life.

Well she set down a beer in a bottle (not the gin and tonic that I ordered). She just off handedly said the bartender was out back having a smoke and didn't want to bother him so she grabbed this instead. I was a little shocked but of course said I didn't mind. Once it set in what had happened I was rock hard sitting on my stool. I had found that I had even started to get turned on just at the smell of smoke since she was always smoking.

Well over the next couple of visits she just brought over a bottle of beer regardless of bartender or not. I guess it was just easier for her. One particularly bad habit she fell into was on certain occasions I would order my bottle of beer, and wouldn't see her for a while. Then she would come waltzing over eventually and set down a half drank beer, often with a smear of red on the bottle from her thick lipstick. "You don't mind that I had a few sips do you?"

What could I say? I was rock hard. I was now paying almost 100 dollars a night for 1/2 to 3/4 drank bottles of beer. But honestly, it was so hot knowing her lips were on the same bottle I was takeing from.

Ultimately it ended up stopping because I got a girlfriend who also kind of the dominant type and didn't appreciate me going to and spending my money at that sleazy bar all the time, so she made me stop going. Us submissive types always seem to be put in our place, right?

I've got PLENTY of other stories of financial domination through out my life so I don't mind posting a few more if there's interest. Any one else have stories to share?
josh hartnett

Well, I just recently spent about $200 on my ex. She made an amazon wishlist for me to send her things. She wrote and told me a few items she wanted me to buy her immediately. Her message ending in "I better get them soon bitch"
I was so turned on, I bought her entire wishlist for her.
After a couple days, I guess she noticed I bought all her items. All she wrote was " So you emptied my wishlist!! Don't worry, I have added more, little dick" super hot right?
tony

Delightful! My advice is this: Dedicate yourself to her and this as your social life from now on. If you don't date others, or spend any money on jack-off materials, etc., you should be able to keep fulfilling her wishlists in return for her use. Your sexual pleasure should be dependent on this - allow yourself orgasms only when you have achieved goals of some kind (like spent x on her, or emptied her list, or something.)

Good luck to you both!
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

I would like to hear, more of those stories slippery el!

So, I've been having some car trouble. I posted on my facebook page "looks like its going to cost a minimum of 300 to get my car fixed, bummer" All my ex writes below is "erm.. Amazon, bitch"
She just added some new items to her Amazon wish list. SO of course I just purchased a few more items for her.
tony

That is so hot how merciless your ex is Tony. What do her friends think about her control over you??
josh hartnett

OINK ! OINK !
stupid

Bony..... what kind of things have been on her list?

Anyone got anything else on this subject?

Any updates? I'm particularly interested in hearing from bonytony

bonytony..... whats the latest???

Time to bring this thread back..

yes more

My wife has totally financial control. We love it

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