subchard
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as a submissive cuckold myself perhaps it would help if i shared a few of the rules my wife makes me follow:
1) no orgasms with her permission (chastity device applied to enpower this)
2) Do all housework, chores,shopping laundry etc.
3) help her get ready for dates, bathing her, doing her nails helping her dress.
4) Screen potential bulls, arrange dates, pay for hotels etc
5)perform fluffing and clean up duties as required if she wants me there
6) wait at home for her call and pick her up from hotel if she wants to play alone.
Hope these help
chard
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sissycindylynn
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#19 · Edited by: sissycindylynn
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Reward him for sissy feminine behavior, punish him for false attempts at masculinity. sissy wears panties, and stockings or giily socks and at home,bras, dresses and nighties sissy relaxs with a girl dolly when you are out, pees seated only, even while out, make sissy go to a restroom at a restaurant, and give him a fresh pair of panties to change into, make sissy pee her panties in public, order for her when out to eat, sissy takes a pink lady or a Shirley temple while out, and a junior salad w/o dressing to get back her girlish figure, make him your sub gf, take him lingerie shopping, and talk loud enough to be heard, that she's going to look so sweet dressed up in her frillies when your real man BF comes over, make her kneel down to adjust your shoes in public, take sissy to a sex shop and start looking for dildoes for sissy and ask sissy which ones does she find the most attractive, .make her wear a butt plug when out for the evening, expose her 1st to your gf's as a sissy, later, your lovers. Sahave sissy, smoth body, no hair, trim her eyebrows, trim her pussy bush femininely, tie a pink ribbon around her sissy set.
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MrsBlackBlowupDoll
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juliejohn,
There are a lot of good ideas on here I particularly like Masterboycro's list (though if you want "cuckold' t-shirts, just go to the cafe press website - they have thousands) and want to note especially how much of a horror/thrill it would be for him if to be humiliated in front of old girlfriends or women he was once interested in/platonic friends with.
FINANCIAL CHARGES GAMES
I have a lot of experience with this, so maybe I can add something here:
An ex-girlfriend and I (we were together for years) eventually made up a price list for all sexual activity. The most humiliating and frustrating things, like tonguing her ass, sucking a dildo, or stroking to the point of orgasm and stopping, were cheap and actually getting a blow-job from her or fucking was VERY expensive. ($500 for the later, back when it would take me months to save that much.) At first, she let me have credit, and I paid her by running up credit cards buying from the catalogs she would mark up for me. Later, it was cash up front.
My wife (different women, later in life) took complete control of the finances - accounts, checks, bank cards, credit cards, etc. My paycheck was (is) direct deposited and I received a small weekly allowance. Then, when I became the sissy maid, the allowance was converted into maid's wages. I have a checklist of daily, weekly, monthly, and quarterly chores. Each Thursday night, she reviews the week's work and deducts from the wages (the old allowance amount) for anything undone or unacceptable. I get a cash payment of the balance. (We even got me my own bank account for the wages when, later on, she had me taken off the joint accounts, but we have gotten more extreme than you may want to.)
At various times, my wife made me pay for sexual release. I suggested the fixed price game I had played with my ex, but she preferred to negotiate prices, with my desperation making me pliable. It was stimulating for me when she would name a price I couldn't pay from available funds, and dock the balance for the next week, or power me to save up until I could, but she found it more arousing to get the cash in her hand.
Later, she became fond of using charges as a training device. I could do something hot, but degrading and without her physical contact for, say an hour, or I could do something that involved touching her, but quickly and in a not very sensual manner, for much more. So, for instance, I could have sex with a male blow-up doll for a long time, or stroke off to gay porn for $10, or I could have a perfunctory, hand-job with vibrator cum cup assist for two minutes for $100. If I didn't get off, too bad. (I always did.)
One last idea I've never experienced: You say that you both like offense/degradation. How about making rules requiring he wear certain items of clothing or make-up on certain days/times and then charging him for waivers if he need to wear something less humiliating?
Hope this helps! Contact me if you want to talk more. Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.
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