How do I subtly inform acquaintances that it's ok?

How do I subtly inform acquaintances that it's ok?

What kind of signs/messages are easy for potential bulls to read? I specifically want black men that we meet to know that I won't interfere if they pursue my wife. I don't want to come across like a weirdo but I also don't want my wife to miss out on potential opportunities to cheat. I'm not super immersed in black culture, so far all I know they might be totally cool with just being told directly. My wife is a little uncomfortable with swinging-- and not at all into cuckolding-- but she's cheated on me several times and I love it. Any black men here have something they look for to be sure a husband isn't going to be a problem?
Mal Wayne

Good question bbc_enthusiast22 !

That seems a bit contradictory, that she's happy to cheat on you behind your back, but not involve you in the cuckolding sense. My wife was the opposite, happy to tell me at first about the extra-marital cock she was getting with my full knowledge, but later preferring not to tell me and just do it behind my back.

My current girlfriend is nothing like my now ex-wife, chalk and cheese, shy and inexperienced, but gradually over the past 3 years there have started to be signs that she could be tempted too. During lock-down here in the UK in 2020, she by chance discovered a garage and hip hop clubbing website and was soon enjoying weekend music sessions online. She made friends there via the chat room and some were added on Instagram, DJs, MCs and one or two artists I've actually heard of (I'm 20 years older than her!), predominantly black, male and female.

A couple of names started coming up in conversation, one DJ in Ibiza and another here in London, and one Saturday I sent her a jokey text saying "Isn't it about time you asked me if it's okay to have a black boyfriend in London?" She replied, "I've got two black boyfriends actually lol xxx" and we've gone on from there.

She now chats to several black guys online. Some are keen to meet up, either for her to go to London for gigs or for them to come to our town to visit here and take her clubbing. She's tempted and I've said I'd let her go, even go with her if she wanted, but she's dubious and wary of taking things further. I have no doubt they all want to fuck her. They all now how old she is and that she has an older white partner, but only one has ever been worried about me coming after him. The others don't care and she even tells them that I totally approve of my "wifey" chatting to them online whilst I'm at work.

One of those first guys she started speaking to works in Ibiza is slightly older than her and I'm pretty sure he was very quickly aware that my girlfriend's white pussy might be available to him. To test the waters I think he suggested she start calling me "white boy", which she did. I was quite shocked when she first called me it, but she reported back to him that her "hubby" didn't mind his new nickname at all and she carried on calling me it for some time. Nowadays, she tends to refer to me as her "white hubby" and these guys as her "black toyboys".

Whether she'll ever pluck up the courage to actually meet one of them, let alone fuck one of them, remains to be seen but I have told her that I'd be more than okay if it happens. One night, presumably made horny by these young black lads flirting with her online, she texted me saying that I was going to be the last white man she'd go with. I excited replied, "Good. Only black in future then?" and back came, "Definitely xxx". I nearly shot my load there and then.
Peter C

Wow Peter... that is HOT!

Thank you moiamigo. How this is playing out is probably far too slow and too tame for many here, but considering how shy and inexperienced she is, it's all very naughty to her. She's slowly coming out of her shell and getting a little more comfortable as she gets used to the freedom I'm prepared to give her in contrast to the possessive, controlling relationship she was in with her first long term relationship with her s0n's dad.
Peter C

Well, I see your posts and enjoy hearing of the progress. I hope it works out!

Thank you moiamigo. She's pleased that I approve of her having black boyfriends and even thanked me the other day for allowing it. Mind you, when I inquired a few months ago if she'd stop "seeing" them if I asked her to, she replied emphatically, "No!"
Peter C

We/I find the best approach is the direct one. I often go up to a black bull, say in a store, and tell him my wife would like to see him in the back of our car in the lot if he's interested? We always park out of the way in a corner or such, just in case. Most will follow us out to the car, she gets in the back seat with him and I get in the front and watch the show. Sometimes we take him home and sometimes he comes back and calls some friends to join him, the rest evolves from there.

Other times at a bar or club its the same deal. She is always dressed to please in short skirts, dresses and stockings with heels and never wears panties. She also wears an ankle chain to let others know she's available.

We have found this to be the very best way of getting her extra cock, very rarely does it fail.

Hope this helps.

Pops and Jas