martinr:
I would love to know what black (and white) men think of my wife
Me too Martin, though I think you're well aware that your wife is very attractive and any man would jump at the chance to fuck her. And yes, that includes me!
I've always considered men casting an approving eye over my now ex-wife and more recently, my young girlfriend, to be taken as a compliment and very arousing. My wife found the attention very pleasing too, a boost to her confidence and ego, especially if it was a much younger guy. My girlfriend is less comfortable with being told I've caught some guy checking her out, but I'm trying to get her to take it as a compliment too.
Although they're already posted above, here's my wife that was and my current girlfriend, just for your perusal Martin. The latter seems to attract more black attention than my wife did and - promisingly - she seems to rather like that. So do I!
Peter C