Since discovering a garage and hip hop virtual clubbing website during lock-down here in the UK and befriending various others via its chat room, my previously shy little girlfriend now exchanges direct messages on Instagram with black men. It started off with just the one, which I subtly encouraged by making sure I didn't come across as jealous or possessive. Then along came another one and when I texted her one day to ask her if it wasn't about time she asked me if it was alright to have a black boyfriend on the side, she replied, "I've got two black boyfriends actually lol".
I apologised for forgetting about the other one, but told her I totally approved of her having two black boyfriends for when I'm at work. I think she was surprised by this, but said that she was pleased that I approved and was going to tell them. She must have done, as not long after she suddenly started calling me white boy, presumably at the suggestion of one of these black guys testing the waters to see if my approval might extend to him fucking my girlfriend. It does!
Since then she's added another two black guys, both considerably younger than her. One is 30, the other just turned 32. My girlfriend is a young looking 45 with a grown-up s0n of 26, whilst I'm 64 so both are half my age. The first two - one about her age, the other slightly older - did wonders for her self-confidence, but she's even more flattered by the attention of these two new much younger guys, a real ego boost for her and even more of a turn-on for me.
We both now refer to all of them as her black "boyfriends" and she's quite open with me about them. She insists she'd never do anything with any of them but we call any online club sessions they're on together as a "date" or "going out with...." and I thoroughly enjoy playing along with the fantasy, so I think it's only right to say she's definitely more "blackable" than she was 2 and a half years ago.
Peter C
