sharing wife for first time

I have been part of this website for around 15 years now I started out looking for men that wanted to see their wife pleased. I am not very big but thought it would of been fun I never got the opportunity to do that so life just kept moving in another Direction. Now I have been married myself for almost 10 years and we have t now I have been married myself for almost 10 years and we have two ******** together since our youngest was born my wife has put on weight and it has made sex difficult. It has been a few years since I started to First think about her with possibly another and in the last six months it has gone into something that not only myself need but she needs it as well. She is a very good mom had sweet wife and she doesn't feel sexy anymore due to her little bit of weight and the fact that I'm small doesn't help and have found her no longer wanting sex all the time anymore. I brought up to her about being with another man a year ago and she laughed it off but lately we have discussed it more and more and she has agreed to try it once. My issue is that I'm having a hard time finding a bbc that understands the nuances of everything involved. I'm in the San Diego area and put out an ad on Craigslist the majority of the responses I get ou I'm in the San Diego area and put out an ad on Craigslist the majority of the responses I get are just one or two lines and they don't really understand everything involved and how delicate the situation is. I would like some support from the group and as I go through this experience I will post pics along the way I have found that I need to talk to people about this and how we feel but can't turn to any family or friends.

Your wife is very attractive. Do stress that to her and if it helps feel free to tell her that a strange male finds her so.

Not the best idea to put her face on here unless she agreed to it!