danman2020
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I have put some thought in this because my wife would not go for me just having a guy show up to have sex with her but if she thinks a guy saw her (say at a work conference where anyone could have seen her and got her name) and searched her out she would go for it...So in a way she is seduced.
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kennyboy82
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Do you want to get your wife to email me? I'll fucking seduce her for you!
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danman2020
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kennyboy82 Where you located? You would have to email her to play
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wimp_cuck
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not email but phone number instead...off the chart!!!!
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crpope40
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Thought of doing something similar. Tried it once but she didn't respond. Made up a fake account and emailed her myself.
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bicouple4202000
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sounds hot, let us know how it goes wife loves real men
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kennyboy82
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danman2020: Where you located? You would have to email her to play France - Where are you?
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hoburgh
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The thought has crossed my mind as well. If you do this, please share how it works out.
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SheDatesHeWaits
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#9 · Edited by: SheDatesHeWaits
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danman2020 This is probably tougher to pull off than you think. First you have to find a guy who you think your wife will fuck. That's not easy, trust me. Over the years I've found a number of guys I just KNEW my wife would find attractive, then when she saw their pics or met them she was unimpressed.
Even if you did find that hot guy, now you have to get him to go along with your ruse. The whole scheme will take some time and effort on his part, which many guys won't be willing to do (guys like guarantees). After all that, if they start communicating and she doesn't go through with it, you run the real risk that he gets pissed off and tells her "This was all your husband's idea!". Then you're in hot water with the Mrs... cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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JUANITO
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Not quite the same, but here's another approach if you are trying to get her to cuckold you. Rather than all the mystery 'sight unseen' type of contact through cyberspace I found that my wife would tend to be much more likely to respond in a positive manner to an 'accidental' meeting with a ( of course pre-arranged by me) 'old acquaintance'. This I've done when I was taking my wife out to a lounge. I then introduced them to each other and invited the prospective bull to sit with us. I intentionally made opportunities to leave them alone after dropping hints about her libido. Then when he excused himself to go to the men's room I felt her out about her receptiveness to a possible sexual hook up with the guy, reassuring her again that I would be perfectly OK with the whole thing and would wait outside the room if she wanted privacy. You can then encourage them to dance with each other and hopefully enjoy the show which is what I did with good success. This of course if you are new to the game you could only pull once every few years or she would immediately suspect that you have set the whole thing up. Over the years when I was first getting started in the lifestyle I used that technique twice both times with positive results. Of course I already kind of knew her taste in men and what she found sexy in a guy, so I had screened the guy pretty good before the in person meeting. Eventually after the second time I confessed to her that I had set it up and she ended up thanking me!
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hoburgh
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SheDatesHeWaits: danman2020 This is probably tougher to pull off than you think. First you have to find a guy who you think your wife will fuck. That's not easy, trust me. Over the years I've found a number of guys I just KNEW my wife would find attractive, then when she saw their pics or met them she was unimpressed. Even if you did find that hot guy, now you have to get him to go along with your ruse. The whole scheme will take some time and effort on his part, which many guys won't be willing to do (guys like guarantees). After all that, if they start communicating and she doesn't go through with it, you run the real risk that he gets pissed off and tells her "This was all your husband's idea!". Then you're in hot water with the Mrs... And all of these thoughts *also* crossed my mind. Which is why I've never done it. I'd previously entertained JUANITO's plan, but I've been so forward with this interracial kink lately, I'm pretty sure my wife would suspect a setup immediately. Sigh.
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SheDatesHeWaits
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hoburgh: I've been so forward with this interracial kink lately, I'm pretty sure my wife would suspect a setup immediately. Yeah... if you've already raised the issue, then the odds are that she would become suspicious almost immediately. My wife is the same way. She has some sort of un-Godly antenna that instantly alerts her when something is up. On the other hand, I once DID try to pull a setup like that, and my wife did sniff it out immediately. The other guy was terrible at "acting natural". The good news is that my wife was amused by the whole thing, rather than angry. It almost worked. Not quite... but almost (he wasn't her type)... and she didn't hold it against me for giving it a shot. cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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hoburgh
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"On the other hand, I once DID try to pull a setup like that, and my wife did sniff it out immediately. The other guy was terrible at "acting natural". The good news is that my wife was amused by the whole thing, rather than angry. It almost worked. Not quite... but almost (he wasn't her type)... and she didn't hold it against me for giving it a shot."
Hmmm. I think my wife would be pretty embarrassed. I've recently asked her: if we were out dancing and a good looking black guy asked her to dance, would she dance with him? She thought for a bit and then said probably, but *immediately* followed it up with: "But DO NOT ask some guy if he'll dance with me. I would be so embarrassed." She seemed pretty serious about it. So I'm afraid it's out.
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SheDatesHeWaits
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hoburgh Everyone is different of course, plus the mood and circumstances at the time can be a factor. It sounds like your wife might not react well if you try to pull something like that. That makes it tough to directly set something up. You'll need another plan of attack... LOL cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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danman2020
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SheDatesHeWaits Good point
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hoburgh
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SheDatesHeWaits: Everyone is different of course, plus the mood and circumstances at the time can be a factor. It sounds like your wife might not react well if you try to pull something like that. That makes it tough to directly set something up. You'll need another plan of attack... LOL I'm still going with slow and steady and direct. She knows where I stand, and I definitely keep the IR porn and role play coming, so she won't ever forget where I stand. Over time she's gotten increasingly open to the IR role play (and to watching IR vids), which is great, and if she ever does agree to take it on to the next step, then awesome. But that next step isn't gonna happen as a result of me tricking her into it. Her antennae are too well-honed, and she's just too smart for it (or, alternately, I'm not smart enough to pull it off successfully).
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SheDatesHeWaits
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hoburgh: Over time she's gotten increasingly open... To be honest, time is probably what it will take. Keep the idea alive... use pillow talk, vids, etc. as often as she'll tolerate it. But don't push too hard and overload her. She knows you want this. Most women want to please their husbands, but fucking a black guy is a huge leap for them. Give her all the time she needs to adjust to the idea and eventually she may reach that point where she'll be willing to consider taking a step toward making it happen. cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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danman2020
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SheDatesHeWaits Thanks everyone for the feedback. I have read all your responses and some great points were raised. I see patience will be the biggest thing, if I rush it, it will seem to obvious. Just trying to build up a strting point. Its def a part of bedroom talk and we talk about her fucking a blk guy during sex but I'm not sure if she really would or its just bedroom talk.
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simon coles
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Like others I once set up a fake account to pretend to be another man to see if my wife would respond to someone accidently emailing her in error etc... but she never responded to it. The email was just a business type one but with a hint at a date. That was around 3 years back, but time has moved on so maybe it might work? Its just the risk of the guy being too pushy maybe, and spoiling the seduction. but then maybe she needs the confident approach? message me back with what you had in mind and maybe we can try.
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danman2020
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Sorry guys have not posted, found out wife is pregnant so not sure how that changes things.
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SheDatesHeWaits
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danman2020: found out wife is pregnant so not sure how that changes things. It probably just put an 18-month hold on your Hotwife conversion program LOL. Congrats on the news though! cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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private89130
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I have done it twice. The first one didn't go anywhere. She is still talking to the second one. It is a total turn on to know she is talking with someone else.
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