Progress, very little, but I'll take what I can get

My wife of 20 years finally admitted out of the blue today that she sometimes fantasized about me watching her fuck another man... PROGRESS!!!

We've played with big thick black dildos, Watched lots of porn, I've even video taped her fucking them and shown her how hot it looks watching her pussy filled up with black cock.
I've told her for years that I would love to see her get fucked by a huge cock (Not my little dicklet). We always joke around about needing something 'bigger' or size (I'm always telling her "it's all about the size with you" Isn't it?)... I've always poked fun at myself about being just a nub or tiny dick... she just laughs and agrees.

I keep telling her that we're going to a swing club next time we're in Vegas. Get her a big black stud.
She's not too keen on the idea, but gets really wet when we having sex and I tell her that.

At the rate I'm going, I hope to see her impaled and cream pied by a big thick cock within the next couple years... It's hard to have patience, but breakthroughs keep me motivated..

You're on the right track, and you seem to be handling things great. Most women come around very slowly. It can take years, and it's not uncommon for them to go through a phase when it turns them on, but they're not yet willing to admit it to anyone else. Keep playing it like you are... fantasizing together... watching the vids... lots of suggestive pillow talk, etc. In time she should become more open about her inner thoughts and be able to admit what she's really thinking. When she does, give her a lot of positive feedback... let her know how wonderful it is to be able to be totally honest with each other... help her see how that honesty makes you a stronger couple, etc. That will encourage her to keep going... share more, etc. Eventually those fantasies may get put into action. Nice job. In time you may very well get there!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Thank you for the encouragement!

Her reaction to what you say to her betrays what she really wants - it's big and black, and bare! Get her fucked and come back and tell us all about it.

kennyboy82
I guarantee I will be on here sharing the experience! Hopefully with photo's/video...

She has mentioned that she's afraid she won't want me anymore, or I won't be able to please her anymore... I keep reassuring her it's all about her pleasure and I love to watch her orgasm.

She has really cut back on the big dildos though for the same reason... I love to fuck her after she's cum on one... she can't even tell i'm inside her!

You can work through that. If you decide to do this together it will actually bring you closer as a couple. She'll love and want you even more, because you'll be giving her the freedom to enjoy greater pleasure, experience the excitement of being with someone who is better hung, and expand her sexuality. She'll appreciate having such a wonderful husband, because then she will basically be able to "have her cake and eat it too" (have you AND a well hung lover).

As far as pleasing her after she's with someone else, women are emotional creatures. Pleasing them isn't about a big dick. It's so much more... love, trust, emotional bond, etc. So, if she's a little stretched out after using a dildo or fucking a really well hung guy that just adds to the excitement of the experience. Physically, she'll snap back. You read about pussies being "ruined" by a big dick, but the reality is that pussies are very flexible. Unless a guy is so big that he literally rips something requiring stitches your wife will be back to normal within a few hours. The tightest woman I ever had was a mom of three... LOL
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Yes do keep encouraging her to try having sex with others. Some women don't fantasize about having interracial sex and it can be a turn off to them. Try to not interject color into the talk and see where that leads. Also something that worked for us is to get used to the idea sex can be a game and not just an activity between husband and wife. The next time you're out point out other guys and discreetly make comments to her about other guys. Like for instance point out a guy and ask her if she thinks he has a big package or if he would be a good fuck or maybe I'ld sure like to hold your thighs open so he could fuck you.

Then get her to start going out in public without wearing panties and bra. At some point you should be able to get her to accidentally flash someone. This is made all the better if you engage her with sex banter about the person before she flashes them.

Next get her to go on cam in a chat room. Soon you will be fucking her on cam and she will love it. Join an adult dating website and post a profile. Then identify some local prospects and invite them to cam/chat with the two of you. Then accidentally meet each other at a bar/restaurant and see how it goes.

Thanks for the support/suggestions guys. I get really excited thinking about all the possibilities... I just have to keep reminding myself that this process takes time, and lots of it. I've been working on her for about 5 years now to get us to this point.


Thanks again!

hrnydude
8. You could just get cuckolded by a big black dildo. After many times getting off she may decide that's her orgasm of choice, especially if she watches you clean it after she cums all over it!,then you can suggest you cum on the dildo before licking it and suck on it a while.
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