Why so soft?

Am I the only unlucky one. We finally went for it and found a good looking black man to play with. He looked really fit and quite well endowed in his pic.

The only thing was when we played he never got really hard. He was hard enough to penetrate, and he was very large, but it was like being filled with a big sponge. Anyone else with this experience?

My wife's ex husband had a huge cock and she said he had the same problem unless she really spent time getting him completely hard.

Large cocks often have a harder time staying hard. More red required.

I think it has to do with the ratio between the body of the man and the size of the cock, as well as general cardio health.